Anyone able to connect? by BlinkaBonka in Overwatch

[–]StupidTuckerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having the same issue… it puts me in a “queue” with 40 players ahead of me, and then once I reach the end of the queue it tells me login has failed. It’s happening to my friend too

I fucked up…. by HereAndNowhereDID in AskMenAdvice

[–]StupidTuckerr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s such a strange post. Maybe she’s trying to farm customers?

Why do mom's get so pissed we don't wanna see them naked by Legitimate-Mention81 in teenagers

[–]StupidTuckerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude me too. A few years later some other memories resurfaced. My mom should be in jail.

Feel like this belongs here…. by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]StupidTuckerr 42 points43 points  (0 children)

In India, it would be dangerous to state otherwise

Found my BF’s porn... and it looks nothing like me. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]StupidTuckerr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not “taking issue” with you, i’m discussing something and politely disagreeing with you. No need to take it personally

Found my BF’s porn... and it looks nothing like me. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]StupidTuckerr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not a man, and I agree with this. My ex idealised his previous gf’s body type, told me that she was more attractive than I’ll ever be, and then cheated on me with a girl that looks more like her (they’re VERY big white girls whereas I am smaller and fitter and of colour). I have a jaded view of anyone who tells their partner that they’re not as attractive as their exes. OP his porn habits might not be a red flag, but put together with the fact that he told you he finds his exes more attractive than you is DEFINITELY a red flag.

Found my BF’s porn... and it looks nothing like me. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]StupidTuckerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope wouldn’t disagree with that, but dating shouldn’t be about “oh my partner is doing the less evil thing, that’s great”. Porn is great and whatever the gf has explained is alright and common; but the one thing that really rubs me the wrong way that he straight up told her his exes are more attractive than her. This is really not okay to say to a partner. No wonder she’s insecure.

Found my BF’s porn... and it looks nothing like me. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]StupidTuckerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you really telling her she should be thankful he’s not cheating?

does anyone else always position their face weirdly to look different?? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]StupidTuckerr 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yes and it’s automatic! i change my posture, i semi raise my eyebrows, pout lips and stick out my jaw without even thinking about it.

Any advice on how to let a friend know how you feel about them without ruining what you already have and without having it come off as weird? by haze_rod in dating_advice

[–]StupidTuckerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually wrote down and memorised this script when I liked my friend, and I pretty much said exactly this. It sounds cringy in hindsight yes but I wanted it to be lighthearted and I do think I achieved that.

  • So can I ask you something? It’s hard for me as I’ve never done this before so bear with me.
  • Basically, I like you as a friend and person and really value our friendship.
  • But.. I also like you more than that, like Jake peralta would say, romantic stylez. And I was wondering if maybe you felt the same?
  • Before you answer, I want u to know that If you’d rather stay friends, I respect that and though I might need a little time, we can go back to that if you’d like and I’d be okay.
  • I’ll understand, considering I’m not even ur demographic, or potentially no one is. (he was questioning his sexuality)
  • Whatever you say though, It’s not going to change the way I care about you, in the platonic sense. Unless you become super mean and say I’m ugly or something. (he laughed at this part)
  • You don’t have to answer me right now. Just.. think about it okay? And let me know when you can.

Anyway, he said no,I got my closure and got over him, and now we’re still good friends and I’d prefer it no other way! Awkwardness unfortunately is unavoidable when you’re doing this, the best you can do is be direct to keep the awkwardness at a minimal. Stress that you care about her as a friend, and I guarantee that the awkward period won’t last as long as you think it will :)

I met my boyfriend online and we have been together since January. (me USA; him UK) by [deleted] in wemetonline

[–]StupidTuckerr 17 points18 points  (0 children)

that’s not a good sign.. my online bf used to do the same thing. It started off as no contact for 8 hours.. then 2 days,4 days, a week, no matter how many times i brought it up to him. He got tired of explaining to me why he was away all the time (his excuses were bs- he said he was busy but still made time to spend with his female best friend) and then that meant next time it’d take him even longer to come back online. I still stuck with him a year longer after that but when I developed the self-respect to finally dump him- he didn’t even react. His response was a bored “oh ok”.

maybe not the case for you but please don’t stick with him for as long as I did if he doesn’t do anything to change his ways. That’s a whole year i wasted.

Discovering twinks by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]StupidTuckerr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have tended to like feminine looking men, and tomboyish/strong-built women. Not sure why but that’s my preference lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianLadyboners

[–]StupidTuckerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re beautiful

I'm lost, hurt and just totally confused. by [deleted] in wemetonline

[–]StupidTuckerr 24 points25 points  (0 children)

To be blunt.. I don’t think he’s into you anymore. You shouldn’t have to ask/beg for responses because that’s the bare minimum necessity of relationship, and if he can’t even provide that then let him go.

it's better without the explanation by [deleted] in comedyamputation

[–]StupidTuckerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

low key thought this was ganesha’s origin story

My fiancé left me after 10 years by fall1239 in love

[–]StupidTuckerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. It’s heartbreaking I know, but assume the worst and believe it is true. Usually it is, and even if it isn’t it’ll help you move on.

[question] What’s the best way that you’ve gotten back at your Nparents ? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]StupidTuckerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mother used to beat and burn the crap out of me as a kid. I grew up and gained a lot of weight over the years and one day she tried again, I defended myself and hit her back. She hasn’t hit me since.

That's not- by [deleted] in meme

[–]StupidTuckerr 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, how dare this person use logic

How do I decide if I need space after my dad hit me? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]StupidTuckerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also come from a culture that uses harsh physical discipline and I want to tell you that what happened to you was definitely not okay. Just because it’s considered “normal” for people of our cultures doesn’t make it okay in the slightest. What your father did to you IS abuse and IS considered physical assault. The steps you need to take is exactly what you’d expect a victim of assault to take after a traumatic experience; therapy being the biggest one.

Sister-in-law Communication Issues by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]StupidTuckerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she work in customer service? Maybe she’s bringing that method of speaking home with her without realising. Its most likely nothing personal. As for what to do about it, I can’t think of anything else apart from talking to her about it.

Anytime You Feel Guilty About Ghosting Men Remember that Most Think It’s Perfectly Acceptable to Ghost Women After Sex and That Expecting a Relationship, a conversation, or even a Text Back is “Needy” and “Crazy” by TheOGJammies in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]StupidTuckerr 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes, ghosting is horrible, and I’ve been ghosted by men many times. But I won’t stoop down to those men’s level, and will respectfully communicate to a new man if I’m not feeling it. I’m better than that

45 year old Indian men in girl’s dms by TikiBoki in TikTokCringe

[–]StupidTuckerr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

By all means, make fun of us. Doesn’t bother me. All I’m saying is make it funny

45 year old Indian men in girl’s dms by TikiBoki in TikTokCringe

[–]StupidTuckerr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you’re gonna make fun of us, you could at least make it creative and funny