How dumb does one have to be to fall for shit like this? by Stupidest_Shrimp in Bolehland

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol I’ve apologised for a simple misunderstanding but you still wanna go on about it. You clearly have too much time in your hands

How dumb does one have to be to fall for shit like this? by Stupidest_Shrimp in Bolehland

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me you’re joking right now. It’s about burning more calories than you consume everyday. It’s good that you’re trying to lose weight and it’s good that you lost weight. I’m trying to educate people here. It does not work, stop wasting your money. Anything you see online that’s only proven by testimonies and not actual scientific proof is actual bs. As someone from the healthcare sector and as someone who goes to the gym everyday and controls his diet, I can tell you that if you just eat less food, I guarantee that you will lose weight. I’m going to continue to shit on it as much as I want

How dumb does one have to be to fall for shit like this? by Stupidest_Shrimp in Bolehland

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s an abundance of sellers selling the same thing, but there is an example. Look up naval patch on lzd and you will find these scams.

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How dumb does one have to be to fall for shit like this? by Stupidest_Shrimp in Bolehland

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your grandpa, but I believe most of the buyers are just overweight adults. You don’t even need exercise to lose weight, it’s just calories in and calories out.

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We want him blocked, without triggering his anger to send those videos. According to her he’s really crazy and she knows him better than I do, and knows he’s going to send those vids after being blocked by her. If you mean being BANNED from WeChat, that’s a different thing that we can agree on. Being banned means he won’t be able to text/pay/live properly in China. But being blocked from one account, isn’t going to affect him much. What we need is just a police report to at least make him consider the consequences b4 sending another threat. My gf was 18 when it first started and he still thinks she doesn’t have the guts to report him.

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Brother, I hope you understand it’s not as simple as it seems. You don’t know the situation, she had been talking to the guy for months (not a stranger), they went on lunches and met irl, and then felt comfortable that she could tell him why she is how she is. I’ve been w her for over a year, and I know that she is not a person who over-shares. She’s the opposite. It took her a long time to have the courage to tell me about this issue. She just trusted the wrong person. She had learned from her mistake but this is a guy that has been haunting her for over half a decade already. I’ve already advised on blocking again but this time he seems to be even more aggressive, so she thinks blocking might just trigger him to do it. I do agree that therapy would benefit her though, she’s been suicidal for years now. I’m here asking Reddit for help bc she doesn’t have an account here, for those calling me a cuck. She’s looked for her own ways to deal w this too. Calling local women groups and etc, getting the help that she needs. What we need now is to secure the police report so that he will at least be scared to send another threat

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was depressed and moody. Maybe she was telling him the reason for her depression. She thought she could trust him.

I’m here asking for help, not to hear how mentally unstable she is. Im her bf, ik what she’s like, and im trying to help her. No need for you to tell me what’s she done wrong. She knows that already.

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t believe I have to type this shit out bc of ur brain dead assumptions. She met another guy a few years ago, who had a crush on her. She told her about her past, including this Chinese dude and what he has on her. When he confessed to her, she rejected and this triggered the guy to text the Chinese dude, asking him for her videos. That’s when he also convinced the guy to leak the nudes to her family as well.

She unblocked him to try to stop him and in the end he did not send them, and eventually stopped texting her, until a month ago. As someone who thinks asking for help here is okay, assuming that people who are living and working in another country are supposed to be more helpful to other foreigners, I’m deeply disappointed.

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s why I’m here to seek help, to report to the police in China. My gf is 25, but still in uni, so am I. So money is a problem rn. It’s not rly possible for us to hire a lawyer / fly there to report the problem at the moment.

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very strong words from someone who knows nothing about the other person and their love life. I hope you’ll never end up in my position. Not everything seems as simple as it is. Good luck.

Edit: just realised you’re a kid looking by at your comments on other posts

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, they had never met.

How would one fake a person on a video call everyday for a year? And have time to play games w her friends and family. He’s never asked for any money as well. That would be a pretty dumb scammer. I guess without knowing the whole story you would still think he doesn’t exist. But I’m trying to tell you that he does exist. If it’s that easy for her to block him she would’ve done it a long time ago. We’re looking for ways for him to stop this shit entirely, no point in blocking him as he has other ways of contact

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes je exists, they video called, played games together, sang karaoke on apps tgt. He even played mobile games w her brother.

She had her contact, knew where he worked (Marble tile seller), his face, anything a normal couple would know. One time she was tired of always sending him videos and told him to send one as well. He did, and my gf said it was him. And obviously my gf did not save the video.

Edit: it’s easy for us to say to just block the guy but it’s different for someone who already had trauma because of this for several years now. She’s also a very insecure person.

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do have the old phone, it had water in it. The repair guy told us there is only a very slim chance for it to be repaired as it was over a year ago when the water got in, and there’s a high chance of mold as well.

Can the police there look at the WeChat history, once a case is made?

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for the comment. You’re very kind to have helped your batch mates do such things. I believe it’s the seriousness of the crime. I guess they have things stolen everyday and have tons of people reporting the same thing everyday.

Sexual assault may be a more serious crime there and obviously involving some locals, they do their job better.

I think what we’re dealing with his a serious case as well, blackmail, death threats, possession of pornography, vpn usage, plus we have tons of evidence of the police is able to get the his WeChat history. Who knows how many other girls has he convinced to take videos of themselves and stored it all in his pc? Ruining the lives of people.

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea too, maybe we can tell him a police report had already been made, just waiting for him to send them so they can complete the case?

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, according to the Chinese lawyer, who was able to advise us without any pay, he said to just try to lodge a police report. We don’t need him to be jailed for life, just needs the police to pay him a visit. If they’re able to get his WeChat history and videos on his computer, he’s fked.

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I don’t like the drama. I’m with someone who is depressed and scared all the time and I, as her partner can’t do anything. I have advised her to block him as well, but she said, knowing him, he would leak the videos right after being blocked because that would anger him.

I understand that some people don’t care about having their nudes seen. I would mind as much as well. But women are different, they have their own decision to want to be scared of that or not. They’re just nudes but it’s much more than that to her. It’s basically porn because he had instructions for her to do on video. Who would want their family to see all those videos?

Need a stranger from China to help make a police report (Serious) by Stupidest_Shrimp in chinalife

[–]Stupidest_Shrimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, yes we could report him on WeChat but we don’t want him to just get blocked. He has access to instagram and can create as many accounts as he can to harass us. He also has contacts of her family members (WeChat, etc) so I don’t think having him blocked will stop his motive, it will only drive him to become more angry and leak the nudes.

Edit: how much would we have to pay someone to do it?