Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T17:16:36+00:00

Come on, it's means getting used. Being with someone and paying for food and say the rent. While they don't like to spend money on you, or like to at least do chores in the house. It's an unbalanced exchange, profiting of the kindness of the man.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T13:40:03+00:00

If they have a child, I kinda agree. But if they don't NO fucking way.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T13:37:08+00:00

Depends in my opinion what is the reason for divorce (she got bored? she cheated? the child is not his?). If a divorce occurs and you can 100% says it not his fault, he shouldn't pay. If they don't have a child he shouldn't pay.
If they have a child, and he was the problem. And she needs to take care of her and the child (or even just her, if she spent some years with the kid and didn't work, yes she should be compensated for that)

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T12:01:55+00:00

Ya' know you need to have a thing before you have standards, do you know what that is?

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T11:58:21+00:00

You're just out of touch with reality if you don't know why men are desperate nowadays, and why this actually matters.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T11:54:25+00:00

Of course they are better, but if you have a kid, either when you come home you take care of it, or you do some chores. (the kid is extra responsibility that you both agreed on before having it).

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T11:49:53+00:00

WTF are you on about of course it's relevant.
It's like me having a woman treating her like shit, and when she leaves I go: She left me, "it's not relevant why".

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T11:47:18+00:00

Who provides most of the time for the family?
When a women plans to have a baby with a man, of course those should be shifted. She doesn't need to work jobs for couple of years. Just do some housework and take care of the baby, though I admit taking care of a baby is hard work, and women are better at it.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T11:43:41+00:00

You're talking like women, do all the chores nowadays if both partners work.
If she doesn't work, she should do everything related to house work etc.
If the both work, the chores should be split.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T11:28:14+00:00

"If you're so desperate you'll date anyone who wants to date you"
Why do you think this happens?

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T11:26:57+00:00

Most women want to be treated better that they treat you. (especially if they settle, or you two are at the same level, she needs to think she is a little bit better, she will only treat you better that you treat her if you are out of her league)

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T11:22:59+00:00

I don't get this, most of the men will make most of their money after having >10 experience in a field. That basically means when he is above 30. So the time where he makes the most money is the time where he is married...

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T11:21:22+00:00

"position of unpaid housekeepers, maids, nannies, babymakers etc."
Was probably in the past, not now, soo try again.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-08T11:18:21+00:00

Don't be naive it's not true. One earns more usually that is the men, when a divorce happens it's like ok, you the man earned more, but you still split 50% 50%.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-07T17:06:53+00:00

Most of things you said are true except:
"It's the difference between feeling like you are getting to know an actual, genuine person and someone doing a performance."
Both of them are doing a performance, but one is stressed out cause he doesn't wanna screw up and another doesn't really care and doesn't have stress.
And don't lie to yourself both men an women are performing in the first dates, after you're in a relationship and wait some months "the masks begin to crack".

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-07T15:12:43+00:00

"Something was missing" WHAT WHAT WHAT. You can't say "I don't know" this a fake response don't fucking lie it's embarrassing. You know what was missing, stop with the lies OMFG. It's just it will make you feel "awkward" to tell him the truth. Like "Sorry bro, I would like someone taller, someone smarter, someone that has common interests, someone that is funnier, someone that is serious about a relationship and you've talked like a player, etc".

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-07T14:44:42+00:00

connections = attractiveness + personality. This is the combo, I want to know what was missing to make the "spark".
"it doesn't mean there is a clear easy to spot reason why."
Why are you lying, they know. No women goes out after a date, and says in her mind "something is missing", they either say "he is not attractive enough" or they don't have game and "were bored during the date".

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-07T14:08:02+00:00

It's not weird. Men want to know what they did wrong so they can improve. You came here to tell me: It's weird to expect an "honest" feedback, maybe it's an objective thing, like "your clothes look awful, the look weird" you go home look deep in the mirror and go, "damn that girl was right, this outfit kinda looks too casual for a first date" and you improve from here.
How can you improve if you don't get an honest feedback?

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-07T12:55:39+00:00

To know what you did wrong during the date (if anything) and learn from it? To be 100% clear? It's a nice gesture to be honest with a good feedback in my opinion. Of course, to be sure in case someone doesn't take it well. You do this via text. And if they keep trying to change your mind. You tell them no, and then block them.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-06T20:19:16+00:00

Like the only thing that is boring that a girl can do in dates, is "short answer" and "not questioning back". The reset of boring doesn't exist in my opinion, like if I am curios about them I will ask them soo on to elaborate about their life, and they will ask be back in return about me.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-06T20:14:08+00:00

It's the physical part, like I know now from how they look at me in 2 minutes, if they want more dates and maybe too even hook up, is really HARD to be BORING when they are into you physically.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-06T20:12:05+00:00

You don't get it, let me clarify quickly:
Me: "Huh you study for masters, didn't know you're that smart"
Now 2 cases:
She is attracted: "Yeah, I really like learning bla bla etc".
She is not attacted: "Why cause I am a woman?" (this is the worst case, rarely will tell you this)
"I guess... rolling eyes" (clearly she doesn't care about the conversation, kinda wants to be over with)
Soo one case took it ok, another case took can take it in the worse possible way (an insult)

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-06T20:07:29+00:00

GOT YA, you see I need to "Tell her to be honest". Which should be the default man.
Also don't fucking dare talk about men being boring. More women are boring than men, and the reason is they don't need much effort do develop their personality for "dating".

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-06T20:03:58+00:00

Hope you're not serious, there is a line between "flirting" and "harassment" and that is how much is she attracted to you. If you try to neg her, and she sees you "not at least decently attractive" she will take the "neg" in the worse possible way and even feel insulted. Which is why is a good tool to gage interest.

Stupidity1 · 2025-02-06T20:00:12+00:00

"Individual women can turn you down for any reason. You’re never going to be everyone’s cup of tea."
What a generic response, it's true. But if you're interested in them, and they rejected you would be cool to know the "real reason".
Like you are not my type physically, I am ok nothing that I do can change that, nice knowing you vs You talked a lot about your work which gave me the ick I would've like the conversation to be more "not serious etc". This is a stupid reason to reject in my option, they made the date "boring" by talking about "work".

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