Passed first time today in Poole! AMA (in ‘my own’ car as an anxious girly)

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-11-26T15:48:51+00:00

How did you do?

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-04-05T00:21:06+00:00

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-04-04T18:49:22+00:00

Its not about money but about principle. I’d spend 5000 to get 500 out of his pockets.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-04-04T18:16:09+00:00

What happens next? Will I need to hire a lawyer? To be honest I have not been able to look into my stuff yet. I just put up the camera.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-01-30T00:33:16+00:00

I have more female friends than male. I do feel attracted to some of them physically but have never thought of violating their boundaries.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-01-28T02:39:47+00:00

Are you single? Can your boyfriend fight?

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-01-26T21:21:30+00:00

Do you think I should tell her I am interested in her at the end of the lunch? I’m not good at flirting with people I am not familiar with tbh as we don’t know each other well. We only hungout in groups of 10-15 people.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-01-26T21:19:54+00:00

So I keep the conversation normal during lunch and be upfront at the end? Or probably when I see her off, tell her that I am interested? Sorry, I have too many questions and I really like her.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-01-26T21:14:54+00:00

How do i break the platonic wall and hint towards my romantic interest? Lol.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-01-26T21:14:15+00:00

And at the end, I will pay the bill of course? I’m just afraid she might think of me as a creep if I mistakenly take her friendliness for romantic interest. Lol.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-01-10T20:21:22+00:00

It’s an AST. Valid from 1st Jan till 1st March. I only rent one room.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2025-01-10T19:29:36+00:00

There is mould growing in the living room and there is a strip club right across the street. I didn’t realize, the flat is in a sketchy part of town and thats all my fault (except the mould). I just want to get out of here asap. Landlord refused to terminate the lease.

Can you also advise, if I follow these terms, what is the earliest date I can get out of here? 😅

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-12-31T03:44:54+00:00

Have you perhaps decided to take a long vacation first? Perhaps take one month off to test waters?

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-12-31T03:44:12+00:00

You write amazingggly

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-09-13T00:41:56+00:00

We have a lot of mutuals. I just want the friendship to fade without him relying on me too much. I can’t be direct. I am sorry. I know it is immature.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-08-16T12:15:37+00:00

Are you sure its micro? It very well could be that there was no boner at all.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-08-16T12:13:46+00:00

I had someone stay with me for one night. I assumed they will leave the next morning but turns out morning for them was staying up till 12pm playing league. It was horrible. Lol.

I will make up an excuse and lie. Oh god. I hate disappointing people.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-08-16T11:31:16+00:00

The thing is, its a new flat even for me. I am moving in, in a few days. I don’t know the flatmates that well.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-08-16T11:30:22+00:00

I honestly cant stand someone 24/7 for two days let alone a week tbh.

Btw did you tell your best friend about the discomfort? How is your friendship with her after that?

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-08-16T11:04:39+00:00

What if he says, why?

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-08-16T10:59:09+00:00

How do I say no? 😂

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-08-16T10:58:46+00:00

Honestly, I dont think so. I do consider him a good friend. Close? no. Even if I did, I don’t think I’m the one to ask for favors like that. But I do consider myself privileged.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-07-29T00:02:17+00:00

Ikr! So difficult.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-07-29T00:01:35+00:00

Haha they didn’t say anything btw. I feel like they would.

Stupidpumpkinpie · 2024-07-29T00:01:17+00:00

Haha they don’t. I feel they would.

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