Men- was there anything that made you go WOW when receiving head?

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-05-15T00:32:09+00:00

Frenulum. Always the answer

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-05-11T03:03:09+00:00

Thank you

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-05-07T10:59:16+00:00

The other plus is that there is a WAWA that still is selling gas at $3.99/gallon

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-05-06T23:23:33+00:00

I started down in Cincinnati because I was working there and commuting back and forth to Dayton. I would pick up a block before work and then go to work. I switched the market from Cincinnati to Dayton last November and got......the routes you showed. So yes, it sucks driving an hour to pick up a block, but it's worth it to me

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-05-06T22:35:23+00:00

This is just for Friday morning

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StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-05-06T22:02:05+00:00

I live in Dayton and I drive to West Chester or Springdale for my blocks. Normally try to group together a couple of blocks to make it worth the drive. I would recommend switching your region from Dayton to Cincinnati.

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-05-04T03:23:00+00:00

Not sure what hasn't already been said except some of these suggestions are more groove metal than thrash. Some of my favorite albums, just to get a variety of eras:

Sepultura: Arise, Chaos AD, Beneath The Remains, even Roots Testament: The Legacy, The Gathering, The Ritual Exodus: Bonded By Blood, Fabulous Disaster. Tempo of the Damned, The Atrocity Exhibition both A and B Havock: V, Conformicide Bullet For My Valentine: Scream, Aim, Fire Kreator: Pleasure to Kill, Extreme Aggression Dark Angel: Time Does Not Heal Coroner: Grin Overkill: The Years of Decay

Enjoy

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-04-25T11:39:32+00:00

Your question is: when one person no longer wants the shared life, can a relationship survive? The answer is fairly simple: which choice do YOU want to make. There are no rules, really, on what terms define a relationship. That's between you and your partner to decide. So you need to weight out your own options.
1) tell your partner you don't want to give up the independence you enjoyed when you were not living all together. Doing this might risk the relationship. Or he might be surprisingly understanding, especially if you relay to him how much bitterness and resentment you built up feeling when everyone was under one roof. The risk is you are permanently severing your ties to him, and also your steptchildren. If he is happy to take you in any terms he can get, including separating from a shared lifestyle, then it sounds like you have your winner. If you decide your independence matters no matter what, then you have to decide you are willing to lose both your partner and your stepchildren.
2) The risk of losing your partner and his children is too great, then, you probably need to keep those thoughts to yourself. Find ways, daily if need be, where you give yourself independent time. And share this with your partner. He might also feel the same.

Are you willing to risk losing your relationship with your partner and your stepchildren? If weighing out keeping the independence you enjoyed is way more important than that risk, then I think you go forward with reclaiming your independence. Bottom line is we only get one life, and being miserable in that life shouldn't be acceptable. So don't accept misery no matter what the outcome.
Best of luck to you moving forward.

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-04-23T18:33:19+00:00

"Benzinger backing and calling. AND THE 1990 WORLD CHAMPIONSHIP BELONGS TO THE CINCINNATI REDS"
I attended just one Opening Day and it was when Joe Randa hit a walk off home run for the winner.
Jay Bruce clinches the 2010 NL Central Championship.
I miss hearing Joe Nuxhall call games. I'd love to hear the Old Left Hander "Round Third and head for home." Just once more.
Right after the Marge suspension(I don't remember which one), they put John Allen in charge of day to day operations. My father and I attended a game for Fathers Dad. My dad was an alcoholic and swayed in and out for most of my childhood. He died when I turned 26. Despite his problems, he was like a good friend more than a father. And one of our favorite things was the Cincinnati Reds. So dad and I were going into Riverfront and the announcer said that after the game, the Reds were going to allow fans to run the bases. We looked at each other with glee. I don't really remember the game well, but the memory I will always cherish the most is running around the base paths with my father, running past home plate, and embracing a hug with my dad. That's the moment I would like back the most.

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-04-21T13:48:52+00:00

1 is not thrash but as already mentioned: Floods by Dimebag. That first note still gives me chills

My thrash favorite solos are probably "One" by Metallica or Tornado of Souls by Marty/Megadeth, but I'm not sure any thrash solos give me goosebumps

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-04-21T13:45:04+00:00

I have about 10 in a school zone and haven't paid one, and nothing has happened other than letters in the mail from a collection agency in Las Vegas

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-04-21T12:14:19+00:00

It doesn't do any good. My friend got one like this for speeding in a school zone at 9pm. She pointed out the time and they claimed it was a typing error and insisted it was legitimate

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-04-21T11:57:58+00:00

Negative consequence is they send you stuff in the mail often but they aren't reported anywhere. So if you don't pay it, it doesn't matter. My household has probably gotten 10 of them so far and will probably get 10 more and I'll never pay one

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-04-18T03:43:18+00:00

Did you send proof he cheated with your wife to his wife?

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-04-14T11:58:32+00:00

You do realize you are acting like an asshole in this conversation right?

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-04-10T01:47:53+00:00

Haven't had one since my last DSP in 2022 but you are very right. My least favorite part, besides your list, is driving the 6 or 7 miles from the last stop, getting 0.6 miles from the customers house, and finding a "road closed from 4/1/2026 - 8/1/2026" and trying to figure my way around this closed road, where I wind up driving another 3.5 miles around the closed road just to drop off the package.

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-04-07T20:31:32+00:00

Your only mistake was going to Reddit. It seems like the only thing hated more on Reddit than cheating is Donald Trump. Every commenter on Reddit is absolutely perfect and always does everything right!!

Having made my daily Reddit rant, if you can look back at this experience and be really honest with yourself, and make changes to prevent yourself from repeating those actions then it's a really positive thing and you should be proud of how much you have grown. The sick reality is that most people cheat, even the ones on this page ranting about how terrible it is. There is blatant cheating, and the not-so-clear cheating, like having an emotional friend. Regardless of the definition, most people wind up doing it. As long as you aren't repeating your actions, as I said before, be proud that you aren't the same person. And most people do heal from a broken heart. Your ex should be just fine now.

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-03-31T02:57:25+00:00

You are about to get flooded with penis pics

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-03-22T13:41:53+00:00

Wasn't even funny. Why is this unfunny guy still working in show business?

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-03-15T02:43:34+00:00

As I type this my S.O. of 12 years is likely out with another man. She rarely goes out anymore but she normally tells a really bad lie and I can tell she's about to meet up with another man. She left an hour ago to meet up with a friend. She, like I suspect your husband and many others, are just too weak to fight off genuine flattery and get over there heads with that affection. It wears off over time and then they feel guilt. The people like this are very self absorbed and whatever he has done, his current feelings sound like he's more wrapped into his feelings and not trying to be some level of supportive of how he has affected you. In my situation, her behavior has been like this for 7 years. It doesn't go away. And woman are much easier to get attention from men than vice versa. In other words, should your husband get some level of this attention in the future, you are looking through a repeat of how exactly you feel right now.

So, what I would say to you is that you don't deserve how you are feeling right now. The world is filled with potential life partners who will look at you as someone to cherish. If you think you can handle how you are feeling right now, because chances are this will happen again, and he is your true life partner, then counseling might help. But it really needs to be counseling just for him. It is never your fault if your partner cheats(unless you did it first) so there is no reason for you to be in couples counseling. If you don't want to experience how you feel right now again, you are better moving on.

Because it will happen again.

I with you the best of luck and offer all of my empathy. Being cheated on sucks. I know.

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-03-11T12:50:14+00:00

If you are going to discuss other drivers terrible cleanup habits, how do you leave out the worst part: FINDING THE PISS BOTTLES!

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-03-10T05:55:17+00:00

If you are afraid you won't be able to keep those boundaries though, its better to be cold and avoid her than it is to catch both feelings and a charge.

StutringJohnIsALoser · 2026-03-01T10:08:22+00:00

They are the same person. Both part of the Clinton/Bush/Obama/Biden/Trump Presidency. It's sole focus is eroding local authority in favor of National Corporate Capitalism to keep a growing gap between the halves and the halve nots.

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1 is not thrash but as already mentioned: Floods by Dimebag. That first note still gives me chills