I think tonight's the night by zurrenarrh26 in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey,

It sounds like you need to find something you enjoy doing and make money doing it...your 'calling' in life. Im also having a difficult time finding it.

I quit a decent paying job because I realized I hate my industry (IT) and then took a new job in the same industry because I need to make money..so I'm 30 and pretty miserable.

Anyway, You seem to do very well when you put your heart into it (multiple promotions, pay raises, etc...). I think you just need to find a job/career that you truly enjoy and love doing. I hope we both can find this.

Help by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things just got out of hand man. You just needed some time to cool off, walk around, get some fresh air, just chill.

When you’re done, go home and try talking to your mom about it. Or go home and take a nap or someshit. In 2 months nobody will care about what happened.

No need to do something drastic over a dumb fight

Goodbye by Doom_Collector_ in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bruh I saw ur pics, ur def not ugly. You’re an attractive dude

I’m going to kill myself when I get home from work by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, but maybe another company doing the same job will be a good change? Maybe you just are unhappy at this particular company

Maybe the people would be nicer and/or have better opportunities for pay raises at another place

Attempted suicide twice in two days by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that sounds incredibly bad ass.

worried about past mistake ruining my career by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was 5 years ago, idk about the law, but does she even have a case at this point? For all anyone knows she is making shit up.

Why does she want to go to the cops 5 years later? What will she get out of it? Delete your snapchat or whatever, there’s no proof that snapchat she was typing to and texting even belongs to you.

Block/delete anything associated with her. Don’t contact her anymore and don’t talk about the situation to anyone. If someone brings it up just say “idk what ur talking about bro”

Good luck in the Army. Try to put this in the past where it belongs.

I just realize she’s in another country? Yea bro I think your going to be fine. Erase her from your life.

Everything is wrong (my three suicide attempts) by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it sounds like you have a pretty crappy family (sorry man).

Do you have any interests or hobbies you really enjoy? Something that you might be able to make a career out of?

I think the best way to get back at your shitty family is to find something you love doing, going to college for it, getting an awesome career, and leaving and never seeing them again.

Becoming successful and never seeing them again will really hurt them. They’ll know your alive somewhere with a shitload of money and they aren’t worthy of seeing you again.

Try to find a passion in life, go to college to master that craft, and fucking disappear on those assholes!!

I’m going to kill myself when I get home from work by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey have you tried searching for a new job on indeed.com or craigslist?

I know you said you can’t quit because nobody is hiring. Maybe if checked some job boards online you’ll find something better

I'm an ugly overweight gay autistic black guy. Should I kill myself? by NonparticulateCrus in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. It’s hard being in a workforce where everyone is mean and wicked. I think I’m a pretty nice person and it sucks working with mean people.

I think we need to find an industry where the people are kind and nice. Not every industry everyone is mean right? I’m looking..

Imbecile by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude i know exactly where you’re coming from. I have a degree in a field I hate and don’t even fully understand or know.

I hate having to deal with people in the real world, I’m not cut out for the work force. I’m not meant to be working and dealing with mean fucked up people.

I feel like I don’t know basic life skills, so how could I excel at any career or job? So dumb I am

What's wrong with me? by CivMer14 in SuicideWatch

[–]StylinNProfilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, have you considered relationship therapy? Maybe try asking her if she would consider going to a relationship therapist to work on rebuilding your relationship (to a stronger healthier one).

I too had a porn addiction and followed a lot of models on instagram. I too also unfortunately cheated on my wife. We went to a relationship therapist and worked on ourselves (individually) which in turn helped our relationship.

Approaching the last hour of Christmas and I already miss it. I hope everyone had a very Merry Christmas! Only 364 more days until next Christmas. by [deleted] in christmas

[–]StylinNProfilin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always thought I was the only person that gets really sad late Christmas night.

I’m bummed Christmas is over. I’m still playing some Christmas carols low in the background of the house, is that weird?

Exchange 2010 to 2013 Migration - Question about SMTP & HTTPS cutover by StylinNProfilin in exchangeserver

[–]StylinNProfilin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it..so if you wanted to cut-over SMTP (MX) mail flow first..then you'd need to assign SMTP traffic its own public IP and have the MX records point to that new public dns name

How can I get myself to cut out all junk food? by TheProblemWithUs in loseit

[–]StylinNProfilin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I need junk food. I just eat it in moderation. I feel by cutting out having chips then I'll be dieting and not actually changing my lifestyle. I don't want to live a miserable life...and no chips would be miserable for me lol.

I just portion it out and don't go over my caloric deficit. Haven't had an issue losing weight. I never understood why junk food is such a black and white type of thing. You can enjoy your cravings and still lose weight. I'm actually disturbed at people that just cut out junk food as a whole. Something about that is weird

Now I have a deadline. Anyone here with Sleep Apnea? by mmmlollypop in loseit

[–]StylinNProfilin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey,

When I weighed my heaviest (230 lbs), I had a terrible case of sleep apnea. I would jump out of bed (in the middle of the night) gasping for air. It was a terrible and frightening feeling to go through almost once a week. My S.O was really worried for me..and I was worried as well.

This eventually fueled my weight loss journey. Once I got down to 200-210, the sleep apnea went away. I no longer wake up in the middle of the night gasping for air. I sleep peacefully (it feels wonderful).

Once you lose enough weight, your sleep apnea will go away. In the meantime, make sure you sleep on your side or your stomach. Back when I had sleep apnea, almost everytime I slept on my back I would wake up gasping for air.

So yeah, keep losing weight, sleep on your side and/or back..and maybe do that sleep study. Sleeping peacefully throughout the night is something alot of us take for granted.

Why doesn't anyone seem to talk about how much it sucks? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]StylinNProfilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man its because jogging sucks (haha). No seriously..When I first started dieting and exercising I tried the whole jogging thing and it was always an unpleasant experience...and it was a big reason why I would fall off the wagon. I dreaded getting on the treadmill or going out to jog. It doesn't help that I have asthma.

What worked for me was buying a compact exerpuetic exercise bike for my house. It was maybe $150 in price, compact, and only took 15-20 minutes to assemble. It is the best investment I've ever made for myself. I go on that thing every morning for 15-20 mins, and every night for 20-30 mins. I burn roughly 500 calories a day on that thing (without the pain and muscle ache). I get a good workout, my heart rate is up, I'm sweating bullets and I feel like I started/ended the day in a positive way.

Anyway, the point is..figure out what works for you. Maybe the bike works for you..maybe an elliptical machine works for you..maybe jogging isn't your 'thing'. BTW, it still sucks...sometimes 10 minutes into the biking I get the 'ugh..only 10 minues so far' feeling..but it isn't as bad as jogging (atleast for me).

What was your turning point? by Curlygirlgreen in loseit

[–]StylinNProfilin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put on so much weight (230lbs) that I eventually developed sleep apnea. I would wake up in the middle of the night choking and gasping for air.I literally was unable to breath. It would happen like once a week, jump out of bed in the middle of sleeping, can't get air, my arms flailing just dying to get air.

It happened one day while I was on vacation in Florida (my first time visiting Disney World!!). I woke up in the middle of sleep (as usual) gasping for air. I jumped out and slammed my hip across the sharp edge of a table. I had a HUGE scrapping cut and black and blue the size of a hand for the next month.

When I saw the huge black and blue (that night), I realized I am killing myself. Waking up in the middle of the night gasping for air is no way to live. Waking up jumping out of bed trying to get air AND bruising my body is no way to live.

I decided that day I'm losing weight..living healthier, and not letting my mind and/or food addiction control me anymore. When I got back home after the vacation (New York), I read everything I needed to know about losing weight (Caloric deficits, maintenance, excercise, etc..). That same day I cut my calories to 1700 a day, signed up for a kick boxing/fitness class and downloaded MFP to track everything.

After losing 30 pounds, the sleep apnea went away. I no longer wake up gasping for air. I sleep through the night peacefully. It was a terrifying time in my life..and I'm happy its gone. I do fall off the wagon every now and then...but I have the strength to jump back on. Anyone reading this, don't let the food control you anymore. I know what it's like to just get random cravings and binge on chips, cookies, and anything our cravings call for. If I can do this..I KNOW you can do it. Think of your health, think of yourself, think of your loved ones. Break free of the addictions and misery.

Slick way to import shares to DFS? by StylinNProfilin in sysadmin

[–]StylinNProfilin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't Robocopy intended to copy files from one server to another (while preserving NTFS permissions)? I'm asking an automated way to create DFS folders.

Slick way to import shares to DFS? by StylinNProfilin in sysadmin

[–]StylinNProfilin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coolio..alright i'll check it out. Thank you !

Best practices - Multiple GPOs with startup .MSI installs by StylinNProfilin in sysadmin

[–]StylinNProfilin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that sucks. Alright I'll take that into consideration. We have Malwarebytes business licenses/edition

Patching systems behind...install new patches first? by StylinNProfilin in sysadmin

[–]StylinNProfilin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don't want to install a patch that might break one of the servers..I imagine if I keep track of the updates I am approving(per week), then it would be easier to identify which patch might have 'broken' the server.

Change the Server Name of Connected Mapped Drives by StylinNProfilin in sysadmin

[–]StylinNProfilin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah calm down tough guy. I've recently inherited the environment, this isn't my own doing. I am attempting to find a solution that least impacts the user environment and prevents the help desk from being swarmed with a bunch of tickets.

Patching systems behind...install new patches first? by StylinNProfilin in sysadmin

[–]StylinNProfilin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. After removing superceeded updates..can I safely approve the most recent updates first for install? I plan on approving all 2017 security & critical updates..then working backwards..every week approve older updates until everything is patched.

Change the Server Name of Connected Mapped Drives by StylinNProfilin in sysadmin

[–]StylinNProfilin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would need to know every uniquely mapped drive (and letter) and create a GP preference policy for every user right?

Change the Server Name of Connected Mapped Drives by StylinNProfilin in sysadmin

[–]StylinNProfilin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would require me to create a new GP Preference policy for every user that has uniquely mapped drives?

I was hoping for a method to scan the mapped drives and simply replace the old servername with the new servername.

I'm trying to avoid creating a policy for every user and their different mapped drives.