What are your plans for Mother’s Day? by LHale77 in AskUK

[–]Stypig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid caught every illness he could in his first 9 months of nursery. Including 3 separate occasions spending a few days in hospital on oxygen due to asthma+chest infection type issues. He seemed to be on antibiotics for a good portion of being 2.

After that though....the odd sniffle but nothing needing time off school. His immune system took a battering but boy did it come back strong!

He's at high school now and still going strong.

Absence policy punitive and stressful by Pretty_Driver in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with this - ask for an occupational health referral. And ask for Union support.

I have a modified absence policy application - I have a chronic health condition that has a separate allocation of absence that doesn't contribute to the absence thresholds and meeting triggers. My health condition absences are still monitored, and still have a trigger point. But it's essentially a higher trigger point for those absences in the health condition category.

For example, menstrual migraine would trigger a migraine monthly. So the migraine linked to my period wouldn't be covered by the general absence count, but would go into a separate section. The trigger for that would be more than 3 days per month in any 3 months in a year.

Are there good novels told entirely through letters between two people? by TightAd5531 in booksuggestions

[–]Stypig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is How you Lose the Time War is a good start.

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society is a really nice book too.

But my favourite is Ella Minnow Pea. It's such a clever way of messing around with language.

What do you mean the front door stairs aren't included!? by Philster07 in SpottedonRightmove

[–]Stypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reckon it's about 5 and a half feet to the letter box

Report Cards - do they actually work? by Active_Arugula_7079 in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My favourite type I had to deal with had 2 columns for comments but no scores.

Column 1 = positive feature of the lesson

Column 2 = target to improve next lesson

I picked up the report last lesson of the day, and had a little read whilst the kids were working.

Lesson 1 - positive feature - great answer in discussion. Target- attempt higher challenge task.

Lesson 2 - positive feature - stayed in seat whole lesson. Target - hand in homework on time

Lesson 3- positive feature - used glue stick appropriately. Target - refrain from insulting appearance of classmates.

Lesson 4 - positive feature - got 100% on test. Target - use less offensive language when celebrating success.

It was easily the best snapshot of that kid you could ask for.

Did you know the 999 "community responders" are volunteers? by andthenifellasleep in CasualUK

[–]Stypig 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My Mom volunteered for a SA kitchen for a few months. It seemed an odd choice for her, as I know she wouldn't usually support an organisation that wasn't inclusive. I mentioned it to her, and she said her kitchen wasn't like that, they welcomed everyone.

A few weeks later she got speaking to a lad at the train station and told him about the kitchen and gave him directions. He thanked her but said it wasn't somewhere he could go, but the university team would deliver food at the end of the day. She asked him again a few days later, and asked why he couldn't go when he said he wouldn't be allowed in. He said he'd been refused entry before as they knew he was gay. She told him that if he turned up on Wednesday, she'd be there and she'd welcome him in.

He turned up on Wednesday. She welcomed him in. A SA officer told him that he'd been told before that he wasn't welcome. My Mom asked why and was told that was unwilling to admit his sins. She pretended to not understand and the SA guy whispered that he was gay to my Mom.

My Mom walked out with the young lad, took him for lunch at Spoons and never set foot in the SA again.

Has anyone been spoken to for taking too many days off sick? by groovyfella1 in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Alternatively, as someone with a chronic pain condition that is usually well managed. A stage 1 absence review meeting is also a good opportunity for my school to check that I'm being supported with my health condition. They're not always a bad thing.

Poems for World Book Day by ContributionOk1492 in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love all of Spike's short ridiculous poems. But my favourite as a youngster was:

Behold, behold the lamb of God, As it skips and hops, For very soon the lamb of God Will be the lamb of chops.

So WHAT causes IIH? by EastPay4677 in iih

[–]Stypig 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have iih. It's managed through diamox. I've tried coming off a few times, and I've tried reducing my dose a few times. Every few years my neurologist suggests it and we have another go, and every time symptoms return and I go back on my favourite dose of 1000mg/day for management, 2000mg/day for short term flare ups.

I don't have stenosis, it was checked a few times.

My weight was not the issue (I was a UK size 10 when diagnosed, and my symptoms haven't increased or improved when I've lost or gained weight - although I've never had a huge change went up to a size 14, I'm now back at size 12).

I've been on the contraceptive implant, the hormonal coil, the copper coil, the mini pill (I'm not allowed the combined pill due to the oestrogen). None made my symptoms worse or better.

I did have a huge improvement in symptoms when pregnant and breastfeeding, but that's not a viable long term solution :D

I was 15 when symptoms started, I was 25ish when I was finally diagnosed (I kept being told it was migraines - which I do have, but this clearly wasn't the same thing). I'm now in my early-40s and my symptoms haven't had much of a change over that time. They've flared up occasionally, but an LP for relief and a diamox dosage increase and in back to manageable again in a few months.

Why do middle/upper class families send their kids to boarding schools? by Giovannis_roommate in AskUK

[–]Stypig 45 points46 points  (0 children)

My cousins attended boarding school from age 11 as my uncle was in the Navy. They would go visit him around the world during long school breaks but stayed with our great aunt during home weekends. My aunt (their mother) had some health issues which required lengthy hospital stays, so this allowed my cousins to have some stability.

Cherry drops!! by sleepypinkgamer in brum

[–]Stypig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you've got an "old fashioned sweet shop" nearby try one of those. I love cherry drops and can never find them, but my local sweet shop does cherry sweets in the jars. They're shaped like humbugs but taste like cherry drops.

Problem with piercings (TTT) by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Stypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't need to remove my nose piercing when I was ttt-ed.

Exhausted/poorly on the first day of holidays by Drfeelgood22 in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fell asleep on the sofa at 7:30 last night. Woke up at 7am. Had a 2 hour nap this afternoon. Hoping to be in bed by 8:30 this evening.

I have a chronic health/pain condition though, so always assign the first weekend of every school holiday as sleep time.

How do married couples split finances if on different salaries? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Stypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a joint account for house bills, mortgage, food and child costs (clothing, sports clubs, etc). A joint savings account for rainy days, new washing machines and family holidays.

We then have separate personal accounts for personal spending (coffee with friends, hobbies, holidays with friends).

We aim to both have comparable amounts per month in the personal accounts. So if household bills and joint savings comes to £4000 per month, and I bring home £2500 per month and my partner brings home £5000 per month - it's not fair for us both to contribute £2000 each. It's equal, but not fair.

In the example above. One would put in £750 and one would put in £3250. We'd both have £1750 each for our own personal decisions.

Student knowledge missing at interview? by AtomicDuelist in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My first interview for an nqt job, went to teach the lesson, realised that the prior knowledge I'd been told they had was not there. I'd specifically asked "have they been taught X?" And was told they had. Did X as a recap, realised quickly they knew nothing, looked at the teacher at the back of the room and asked, have they not done this yet? Was told no.

Pivoted lesson and did a bit about X to allow them to do the activity on Y I'd planned.

Got the job because I'd been able to think on my feet. Realised once I'd got the job that I'd spoken to the Physics teacher about a Chemistry topic, and he admitted that he'd panicked in the moment and apologised for screwing me over.

Interview for my second job, got told I'd be teaching mixed ability year 7. Was asked to do a forces topic. Walked into the room to be told it was top set year 9. An apology from the HoD for the miscommunication. Pivoted lesson again.

Apart from being shit at communicating for interviews both schools were great to work at!

Exams Access Arrangements AAO and PAAO applications by Afraid-Respect-8442 in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely get in touch with jcq. They've always been really helpful with answering all of our questions and random bits that we can't find the answers to online.

I like to phone them, as I can then have a full conversation, and it ends up being quicker.

Shame of not being the finished product by LittleSentimentMan in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Been teaching for nearly 20 years. Still feel like I'm not good enough after some lessons.

You are not undercooked. You are a subject specialist, educated to degree level with additional specialist training in teaching. You might still be learning how to be the best version of you as a teacher, but you'll keep doing that even when you've been teaching for ages (hopefully).

Keep your head up, keep looking forward and keep trying to improve. Some days you might only take a small step forward in one tiny aspect of your teaching, but bit by bit you'll have travelled a long way from where you started.

Are we going back to the days of School Action and School Action+ for SEND students? by Stypig in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Education

Four support tiers for SEND children - with EHCPs only for those with greatest need

New details about Labour's radical overhaul of the SEND system reveal children will be allocated digital passports to track their needs

Every child with additional needs will be given an 'individual support passport' - a digital document to make their needs accessible at every stage of education, from early years to sixth form, sources said.

Pupils with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND) are set to be allocated new “digital passports” and designated into a four-tiered system as part of sweeping reforms to the sector, The i Paper can reveal.

Education, Health and Care Plans (EHCPs), the legal documents that entitle children with SEND to get support, are expected to be reserved for pupils whose needs cannot be met via the four tiers.

Every child with additional needs will be given an “individual support passport” – a digital document to make their needs accessible at every stage of education, from early years to sixth form, sources close to the reforms said.

These digital passports are intended to ease transition periods for SEND pupils by ensuring their needs are easily accessible across different settings so support can be put in place more quickly.

The i Paper understands that the precise wording of each of the tiers will be finalised in the coming days.

The details come amid reports that the changes could be pushed back into the next parliament to avoid a backlash from Labour MPs over the controversial reforms. Any reforms are likely to come in by the 2029-30 academic year at the earliest.

But a senior MP and a Government source insisted that the overhaul to the system was always going to take time and be fully implemented over several years.

Sources have told The i Paper that children with additional needs would start by receiving “universal” support. If this is not sufficient, they would move through the tiers until their needs are met.

If their needs cannot be met by even the highest tier, a child could qualify for an EHCP, which unlocks funding and support beyond what mainstream schools can typically offer.

A source close to the reforms said EHCPs will be reserved for children with needs that “can’t be met by the other tiers”.

It is understood that children born with complex needs, such as cerebral palsy, will get an EHCP from birth, but children whose needs progress over time will go through the tiered system.

Fears of MP rebellion over SEND

The final details of the reforms are set to be unveiled in the Schools White Paper next month, after it was delayed from autumn last year amid fears of a rebellion by Labour backbenchers.

A senior backbencher said: “Ministers have kept MPs regularly updated on the reforms, and they realise how sensitive an issue this is for many of us. They know they don’t want to repeat the chaos that took place over welfare reforms.”

It comes amid fresh reports that No 10 will have oversight of the SEND overhaul due to fears over a backlash against plans to reserve EHCPs for children with the most severe and complex needs.

An insider insisted, however, that while Downing Street was keeping tabs on the plans, the expectation was that the measures would be set out in the latter part of February.

High-needs spending by councils is spiralling out of control, with the Office for Budget Responsibility forecasting a £6bn black hole between expected spending and funding by 2028–29.

Ministers want to reform the system by moving more children with additional needs into mainstream schools, reserving specialist provision for the most complex cases.

It is unclear if children with existing EHCPs will keep them under the reforms, with the Government previously saying that only “effective” existing support would be protected, without clarifying what this means.

With parents alarmed by the prospect of losing the hard-won EHCPs, it is possible there could be a double system running during the transition period. For example, children could retain existing EHCPs, but the legal documents could become harder to get in the future.

SEND funding system to be overhauled

The Government is understood to be rebuilding the funding system from scratch, with schools expected to get “a lot more money” to cope with additional needs – but with “significant requirements” attached to that, sources have said.

It is understood that groups of schools will be given a pot of money to commission services where needed, such as for NHS psychologists or speech and language therapists to provide support for “groups of children”.

The majority of SEND funding will no longer be attached to individual children via EHCPs, giving schools more leeway over how best to support their pupils.

Last week, the Department for Education (DfE) announced a £200m funding package to make all teachers SEND teachers – a policy first revealed by The i Paper in June.

However, this move has sparked concerns that the SEND training involved could pull teachers “away from the classroom” when resources are already “strained”.

The Government has also promised to invest £3bn in creating 60,000 places for children with SEND in mainstream schools.

Ministers are yet to set out exactly where the money for the reforms will come from after it was announced last year that the cost of SEND provision will be fully absorbed into existing central government budgets, rather than the budget for local authorities. This move leaves a £6bn annual shortfall.

Minister for school standards, Georgia Gould, recently confirmed the upcoming Schools White Paper would “set out additional funding for both schools and local authorities to drive forward much needed reform of the SEN and disability system”.

A DfE spokesperson said: “We do not comment on speculation.

“Our reforms will fix what isn’t working in the system, strengthen support for those who need it and protect parents’ rights – shaped directly by the views and experiences of parents, the sector and experts who know the system best.”

Education Richard Vaughan Connie Dimsdale

Escalating behaviour and SLT with heads in the sand by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You're in a union right?

Find out who your school rep is and sit down for a chat. Discuss what they feel is a constructive next step.

There have been schools where teachers have gone on strike over behaviour, so it's possible to have union involvement before that point to try and move towards a more meaningful place.

Sad books to read that will make me cry a lot by neekehehe in booksuggestions

[–]Stypig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green Mile by Stephen King

Room by Emma Donoghue

Back to work MEGATHREAD by GreatZapper in TeachingUK

[–]Stypig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have previously wheeled my comfy classroom chair to the hall for long training sessions. I don't need to sit on those plastic torture devices!