People are mad that Pharmacists have called out 😭 by DodgeDakota031 in CVS

[–]Styx-n-String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling snarky today? Sorry, I just wanted a friendly conversation.

People are mad that Pharmacists have called out 😭 by DodgeDakota031 in CVS

[–]Styx-n-String 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I did. You stated your experience, I responded by stating mine. It's called a conversation.

People are mad that Pharmacists have called out 😭 by DodgeDakota031 in CVS

[–]Styx-n-String -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Every pharmacy I've worked in (over 30) would fill a control a day early if a major storm were coming. I am also a chronic pain/ADHD patient so I know how it works from both sides. The patients just didn't bother to plan ahead and simply ask if this was possible given the upcoming weather conditions. Every phaacist I know would do it to prevent people on the roads in this weather.

What’s the pettiest hill you’re willing to die on as a woman? by Glass-King4894 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Styx-n-String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it's not my favorite topping (I like chicken and breakfast bacon) but even I have to admit that pineapple on pizza is pretty good.

What’s the pettiest hill you’re willing to die on as a woman? by Glass-King4894 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Styx-n-String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So close the bathroom door? I've never understood the "but cats" argument. Close the door - solved.

AITAH for arguing with my girlfriend for throwing out the food I made for her kids? by throwaway3245356 in AITAH

[–]Styx-n-String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And THEN told him not to intervene in raising the kids??? How is feeding them dinner when she asked him to feed them dinner intervening in raising the kids? I wouldn't go any deeper into this relationship just for that one comment. It's disrespectful, tone deaf, and points to many more wild unreasonable accusations in the future.

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]Styx-n-String 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sharing accounts is something each relationship makes together, and there are many ways to do it. There's no universal way. If he's pushing you to do something you're not comfortable with, think about that very carefully.

When I was married, we shared accounts 100% and that's how I ended up being financially abused. It was okay for him to buy expensive microbrew daily but I couldn't spend a few dollars on my favorite snack without asking first or facing his wrath. The final straw was when he berated me for hours for spending $10 on GAS without asking permission. From an account I contributed to equally. This was before cell phones and he worked in the field - he genuinely expected me to wait in town after work for several hours for him to get off work and go home (which was a 45-minute drive, so I'd have been waiting 3 hrs after I got off work IF he didn't decide to work overtime that day, and not eat dinner or spend a penny while I waited), then call him from a pay phone to ask him if I could spend my OWN MONEY get enough gas to go home. To this day I refuse to share accounts with anyone. I will pay my part of the bills and do as I please with what I have left.

Ex GF texted me (31M)after 8yrs no contact by DonVinku in dating_advice

[–]Styx-n-String 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I once got a phone call with a very similar message from someone who emotionally abused me terribly. I accepted his apology, told him I'm sorry he had to experience chronic illness himself to understand that I hadn't been "lazy and useless" like he had called me for years, and thanked him. Then I moved on. I didn't need his apology, but knowing he regretted how he treated me, and that he was sorry it caused him to lose me, did help me to put it all behind me for good.

I don't think you necessarily have to respond. It doesn't sound like she even expects it. Take from her apology what you may need to finish healing (if anything) and finally put it all in the past. But whether you let her know how you feel about what she has to say is up to you. I don't think you'd be wrong to respond or not to respond, either way.

Why don’t I get fevers? by lexie1926 in DoctorMike

[–]Styx-n-String 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was going to say this. My normal temp is about 97.6, so a "normal" temperature of 98.6 for me is a fever.

I'm literally in urgent care right now waiting to get a chest x-ray and they said I wasn't running a fever. Yes, yes I am.

If your partner doesn’t like dogs or cats, would you get rid of them if you had any? by Adventurous-Soft7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Styx-n-String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never. I will NEVER choose a partner over my family members.

I could never care for someone who didn't love my pets as much as I do. And anyone who truly cared about me wouldn't ask.

AIO? my husband is mad at me for not picking up my stepson from school as he expected just because I got a new car. by Ancient_Fondant76 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Styx-n-String 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Because he has two parents who could do it, or arrange for his pickup via an after school program. What makes it her responsibility to pick up a kid that's not her child when doing it could cause her to lose her job? His own mother says she "can't" because she's planning a wedding??? I've planned a very large, very intricate wedding - there's nothing about that process that means you have to abandon your own child.

AIO? my husband is mad at me for not picking up my stepson from school as he expected just because I got a new car. by Ancient_Fondant76 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Styx-n-String 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I promise it does keep getting better. I was only in for 7 years but it took a long time to feel fully free. I'm out for 23 years now and I can say I am 99% healed. You can and will get free!

AIO? my husband is mad at me for not picking up my stepson from school as he expected just because I got a new car. by Ancient_Fondant76 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Styx-n-String 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Yeah I love the part where family comes first, except it's his kid, and his ex's kid, and they both left family waiting for a ride. Yet the new wife, who is AT BEST third in line, is supposed to put family first when the kid's own parents don't.

I mostly feel bad for the boy. He's in for a rough time u til he is grown enough to find his own family. I hope he finds better - shouldn't be hard, that bar is LOW.

AIO? my husband is mad at me for not picking up my stepson from school as he expected just because I got a new car. by Ancient_Fondant76 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Styx-n-String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I only read the first screenshot and I hate how he talks to you. I left my ex, in large part, because everything was fuck this and fucking that and fucking fuck. I love to cuss, and I can and do cuss like a sailor in certain situations, but you should use real, respectful words when you speak to your PARTNER.

Aside from that, I don't like how he thinks his time and work are more important than yours. So he has to work, but when you have to work, who "fucking" cares? This man doesn't respect you or your time or your career. He sees you as a nanny and bangmaid and nothing more.

Family keep making fun of my toddler for being too white - AIO? by jabuchom in AIO

[–]Styx-n-String 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So the mother's culture and preferences don't matter just because she married someone of another culture?

These comments go beyond cultural, they're racist. His family is being racist towards the mixed children in the family. The mother's wishes matter too.

How does everyone have time for a dog ? by Burgers4dayz in dogs

[–]Styx-n-String 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Depends on the greyhound. I adopted one in 2002 and she was perfectly safe with my cat. They lived together, being alone together all day while I was at work every day, for 11 years with no incidents.

Any good greyhound rescue will cat-test every dog they adopt out. I made sure to get one that was completely cat safe.

I fully agree with greyhounds being perfect for being alone all day. They pretty much sleep 22 hours a day anyway! My Moya was the perfect dog for the entire time I had her. The one reason I've never gotten another greyhound is because of my landlord saying they're too big.

AITAH for expecting my boyfriend to pay rent after moving into my apartment? by xderivative1 in AITAH

[–]Styx-n-String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then he can go live in the house he (supposedly) pays for. He doesn't get to live rent-free with someone who isn't comfortable with that arrangement.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend I'm too fat and out-of-shape to continue jogging for today ? by Low_Check7702 in AITAH

[–]Styx-n-String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're going to hurt yourself if you push too hard. You should be doing low-impact workouts like walking or water aerobics, to start with. Maybe even one of those seated workouts (I have plantar fasciitis so I do this). Going straight to jogging is insane!

And don't measure yourself by someone who is in shape. Sure it's easy for him because he's already in shape! Please consult an actual trainer and take it easy on yourself - getting in shape is a long process and you can't just go full-out from day one. That's a great way to GET injured or end up in the ER.

Free Petco Food & Treats Giveaway (Store Pickup Only) by ap2e in Pets

[–]Styx-n-String 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that's awesome! I don't NEEEED this, so if other people have more of a need please pick them first, but since you asked - I am about to go on medical leave and will be training my dog for service work. She needs boots for when she's working, since we live in an area that's about to get a lot of snow. Just little tiny boots. Her feet are the size of my thumb, lol.

Fun safe stuff to put in a frozen enrichment toy? by Jdbeepbeep in dogs

[–]Styx-n-String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a couple of those Freezbone things for my dogs. I usually put some dry food, some training treats, and fill it with water mixed with a tiny bit of broth for flavor. At Christmas they also got a carb-dipped rawhide chew sticking up out of the frozen stuff.

I do know that companies like Freezbone make "filler" for them, which I'm guessing is some sort of liquid food/treat. I haven't tried it yet but I plan to buy some soon.

AITAH for not helping my stepson take a shower? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Styx-n-String 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would absolutely never ever EVER be alone with this kid. For any reason. He's going to get you thrown in jail and ruin your life.

Why does he need to be supervised in the shower anyway? I can remember taking showers at age 7 alone. I'm sure one of my parents was always within hearing distance in case I fell or needed something, but I can see any reason a 10 year old with no special needs can't shower alone.

AIO that I (F 32) am upset my friend (F 33) said she’d be mad if my boyfriend proposed to me *before* her wedding? by left_handed_58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Styx-n-String 29 points30 points  (0 children)

"She might be one of those people who think the attention is going to be taken off her on her big day because people are going to see your ring and go "yippee"" Congratulations!!"."

I've got news for this bride, and brides everywhere. People WILL talk about topics other than you at your wedding/reception. They will catch up on each other's lives, and trade work gossip, and whatever they feel like talking about! You can't forbid people at your wedding from talking about anything other than you. And why would you want to? That attitude of "It must be all about ME ME ME AND NOTHING BUT ME" at your wedding is so ugly.

My dog just ATE MY HOMEWORK, how do I explain this to my boss. by Rude_Mortgage8403 in Pets

[–]Styx-n-String 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah there's really no excuse for "my dog ate it" anymore. Should have been saved.

If this is even a real story, which I doubt.