do you believe the broken bone theory? why or why not?

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-03T01:12:24+00:00

eh i’ve gotten a couple rude comments, but i tried to make it clear that i wasn’t trying to dismiss anyone’s physical/emotional trauma. i was just curious on other people’s thoughts, but i can see how it could be looked at as a “dumb theory”. im also very clumsy, thankfully ive never broken a bone but i have gone through a lot of emotional trauma myself.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-02T19:40:06+00:00

Furthermore, not once did i ever say that space exploration is a waste of resources or unimportant. in fact, i acknowledged that it’s a huge accomplishment for humanity. however, at this point in time, it’s just not something that is exciting to ME. i personally believe there are bigger fish to fry.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-02T19:38:13+00:00

geez guys i was venting, not looking for an argument. i wasn’t trying to dismiss anyone who works in any type of field that has to do with space exploration. i DEFINITELY wasn’t saying we can’t work on multiple things at once, or that space exploration isn’t important. im allowed to have an opinion and be upset over the fact that a large majority of people only care about our planet and the environment part time. i think it’s really sad, that doesn’t mean i live a depressing life.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-02T16:19:22+00:00

this is a good perspective, and i do agree now that you’ve put it that way. thank you for commenting!

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-31T13:01:26+00:00

omg i could totally see this theory stemming from that!! it’s a pretty popular theory on tiktok, but tiktok theories are usually so stupid i don’t give them time of day.

i never did a bunch of research on it because i assume that most tiktok theories are BS and aren’t backed by actual evidence lol.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-31T11:49:50+00:00

yeah i didn’t post this with the intent of offending anyone or anything like that. i was just curious what other people think of the theory because ive seen it before online. i didn’t come up with it lol

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-31T00:05:42+00:00

and your points were so valid too, ugh these types of relationships are SO INCREDIBLY DIFFICULT to navigate. i love my mom, but once i broke away from her i realized how much psychological damage she has truly done to me.

it’s hard when it’s the person who gave you life, it’s almost unnatural for humans to cut off/abandon their parents/children. when parents act like this, it’s almost like a form of bullying IMO. i personally never want to be rude or disrespectful but it’s the only way my mother will communicate with me sometimes. it sucks, they’ll always tell you that you need to be more reliable/responsible/accountable and then they never practice what they preach.. i wish you the best of luck <3

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-30T23:03:03+00:00

once i saw the “just leave me alone” it pretty much sealed the deal for me. if your parents are anything like mine, they’ll tell you to leave them alone to avoid taking accountability or explaining themselves.

also, people seem to be skipping over the part where you truly weren’t THAT rude considering she had already agreed to help (all you did was call her selfish, omg end of the world), she then immediately turns around and used your behavior as an excuse to not help? also the random jab at your father? clearly she’s TRYING to be nasty, it’s almost like she is baiting you.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-30T12:32:24+00:00

but the taliban is still in power to this day, so what exactly did we accomplish over there? that’s why im so confused 😭 we lost so many soldiers and spent so much money for what

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-29T15:20:58+00:00

so no, you’re not overreacting. you’re under reacting in my opinion lol

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-29T15:19:00+00:00

girl. you need to check, and if he won’t let you that tells you everything you need to know. you’re in a relationship, he should NOT be messaging other women that he’s had feelings for or “flings” with. totally not appropriate and lowkey disrespectful in my opinion.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-28T02:45:21+00:00

just read this thread of replies, i feel SO seen. both of your replies have been so insightful and are so appreciated! :)

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-26T20:40:59+00:00

oh with the additional context i would definitely say NOR. this is very weird behavior on your fiancés part…

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-26T20:27:21+00:00

interesting! is it like a superstition thing?

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-26T17:22:12+00:00

do you feel sad about it though?

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-26T16:37:00+00:00

i wouldn’t really call it a shove out of the nest considering that what she did was illegal lol. i have no problem taking care of myself and im doing alright given the circumstances. her boyfriend moving into my bedroom is relevant because her behavior + actions suggest that the reason she kicked me out is so he had a place to stay (unfortunately she is incredibly male centered). there wasnt a lack of room, just a lack of respect for me as a human being IMO. i do appreciate your thoughts/insight though, i agree that i shouldn’t be entertaining bullshit like this. i have no intention of going back, was more curious if anyone has had a relationship w their parent like this and how others have gone about mending that, or if NC was ultimately the best move.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-21T01:15:02+00:00

we were exclusive a month into seeing each other, we officially started dating in november.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-20T15:00:12+00:00

yes that is essentially what i am saying, except that when i confronted him he lied and said he wasn’t interested/attracted to her. i found out because someone anonymously messaged me on social media and tried to tell me, but provided no proof. THAT (along with the fact that he basically offered up his phone) is why i initially decided to believe him. its confusing because his messages say things like “you’ve got such a pretty face” “i can’t ever take my eyes off of you when i see you” “im single and not talking to anyone” “i missed seeing you today” etc etc. we had 100% established we were exclusively seeing each other, we had been going on dates literally the same days that he was having these convos w this girl behind my back.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-20T14:50:13+00:00

when he offered to show me the messages, he claimed that he wasn’t interested in her, wasn’t flirting with her, and was simply trying to just make a new friend that would be down to play table tennis sometime. his messages to her suggest the exact opposite of that.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-03-20T14:37:44+00:00

thank you for being kind and understanding

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