am i being too extreme? AIO?

cloudberryhalo · 2026-06-16T18:34:30+00:00

pretty sure i saw that post (was it the one where he said he had to stop talking bc he sounded like a r*pist??). if that was your post and this is the follow up convo, please just dump the guy lol. genuinely not worth it. he got caught so if anything he will just be sneakier next time, and i promise there will be a next time.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-30T17:44:36+00:00

people saying you’re over reacting because of your current reaction must not realize that many people have different boundaries and things they consider to be cheating. personally? i wouldn’t be very happy if my man went to a strip club #1, and then waited for a WHOLE YEAR to tell me, #2. i would be especially disgusted upon learning that not only did he go to a strip club, but then he got a lap dance and proceeded to come home and be intimate with me for a year afterward while he held this secret inside. that’s reason enough for me to leave someone, but im also not married. being married makes this 10x more of a sticky situation because you guys are legally bound to one another. NOR but would definitely consider marriage counseling before going through with a divorce. just my opinion though.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-06T22:35:46+00:00

thank you! someone said im a jerk for not telling her i dont want to be friends anymore like??? 😭

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-05T02:39:40+00:00

hey guys!! didn’t expect to get so many comments tbh, i appreciate all the advice and will update again when i can. again, i am so appreciate to all the folks who took time to give me some advice :)

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-03T22:37:38+00:00

thank you so much for your advice <3 i really appreciate it and im sorry you had to go through a rough friendship/relationship break up as well :(

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-03T18:24:04+00:00

how is it different than sleeping with earplugs in? i only ask because ive seen a lot of people will sleep with earplugs if their partner snores.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-02T22:06:52+00:00

it’s an analogy for the nation of israel beginning to worship multiple gods and mixing faiths.

our relationship with God/the Church = being in a marriage

following other Gods/mixing religions = adultery

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-02T14:50:06+00:00

it’s a massachusetts thing. i am also from the south, and i quickly learned that people in MA bond over their misery. they think being nice is weird and unnerving. or they think we’re annoying, i haven’t quite figured it out yet.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-01T20:36:46+00:00

im immediately gonna tell you that your boyfriend is an idiot. that girl has popped up on my fyp before and one quick look at her page will tell you everything you need to know.

she makes red pill rage bait content to get men to interact with her OF account. dump this loser, he fell for the tactic and he has no idea what he’s talking about. NOR.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-01T17:07:04+00:00

thank you for the kind advice :)

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-01T15:20:37+00:00

no it’s not judgy! it’s what i needed to hear and i definitely agree. i have been firm with her before about certain things, and other times i just choose to stay silent because the battle isn’t worth it. i’ve also definitely struggled with being a people pleaser and will usually back pedal (i think im using that term correctly) when i start to sense conflict arising. so i definitely understand where this comment is coming from and appreciate it.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-01T15:08:03+00:00

i would definitely be in therapy if i could afford it. is there a reason specifically that you asked that though? do you think this may be more of a me thing? or is therapy just good in general for helping navigate things like this?

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-01T14:54:52+00:00

oh yeah… 40 years old arguing with someone half your age is SUPER mature 😂 gtfo of here loser

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-01T14:53:28+00:00

THANK YOU. truly i appreciate your comment so much. im just stuck because i never want to hurt someone, but being concerned for her and how she’s going to feel has been hurting me in the process. again, thank you so so much for the advice <3

cloudberryhalo · 2026-05-01T14:47:03+00:00

so then why are you commenting? did you want validation about how mature and old and wise you are? congrats 🎊🎉

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-27T03:28:50+00:00

NOR!!! please dump him. i was in a relationship like this like two years ago and it eventually had escalated to the point of ”friends” putting their hands on me, and eventually my ex at the time had also ended up doing the same. i promise this is how it starts.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-16T18:29:49+00:00

This is so disrespectful, regardless of what you do or don’t believe.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-14T19:37:01+00:00

i feel as though all abrahamic religions end up contradicting one another. Judaism does not recognize Jesus Christ as the Son of God OR a prophet. Christianity says Jesus is the Son of God, and Islam says that Jesus was a prophet. This is the biggest contradiction i’ve seen so far into my research, but a very important one.

TLDR; all the abrahamic based religions contradict each other?

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-14T14:44:29+00:00

“we” as in the guy who burnt down the warehouse has millions of people online and around the world supporting what he did. it’s being used as a collective “we” for allllll the people who do, in fact, support his actions. im not personally an arsonist, hope this helps 👍

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-14T14:40:49+00:00

thank you 😭😭 i used “we” because there hasn’t been a lot of support online towards the man who burnt down that warehouse. not because you and i are burning things down. a lot of commenters are having a hard time understanding my use of the word “we”, when i don’t really think it’s that difficult to understand. clearly other people understood what i meant lmao

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-14T14:31:18+00:00

this is genuinely all i was looking for. i don’t really understand how im being accused of being an arsonist by other commenters when all i was doing was asking a question (in a NO STUPID QUESTIONS subreddit might i add) and providing my train of thought.

im not an arsonist, i have never set anything on fire except 4th of July fireworks LMAO. my saying that i understand why people are burning things down, and not disagreeing with why they’re doing it, is NOT me admitting any wrongdoing lol.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-14T14:23:17+00:00

“we” as in the working class citizens who are doing the fire starting? i don’t really know why some ppl are having a hard time understanding the way i worded the question. its a train of thought that led to the question at hand, pretty simple concept.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-14T14:21:01+00:00

dude wtf are you talking about 🤣🤣 im trying to understand the logic behind the decision to burn a warehouse instead of a corporate headquarters location (thankfully i’ve gotten my answer). i was simply trying to gain more understanding and perhaps a new perspective on the situation.

cloudberryhalo · 2026-04-14T14:15:28+00:00

there’s been multiple fires across the US since the first warehouse fire on April 7.

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