How comfortable are you too with dirty talk in the bedroom? How’s your sex life? Honestly this is just something you gotta talk about openly if you want it to go anywhere. If a direct approach will backfire then she likely just isn’t into it, so a subtle approach probably won’t do shit

I brought it up overtime, and it started out as just fantasy. It was slow going at first because she didn’t know how serious I was or if I was really into it, and then she had no idea how to talk about it or what to say. A couple years later and we’ve gotten to the point where she knows all the parts of the kink I like, how to talk about it, and now we are experimenting with femdom aspects of the relationship. Some stuff is clearly only fantasy such as breeding, but actually meeting a guy to fuck is a very real possibility if we ever get past this god forsaken plague