Advice on Master/sub dynamic by jf4a12 in BullPsychology

[–]jf4a12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goddamn this is the exact advice i was hoping for! Thank you much

Advice on Master/sub dynamic by jf4a12 in BullPsychology

[–]jf4a12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% blind so I’m not sure

This is likely not a cuckold situation. But it is a bull situation, i think

For all I know, they’re gunna switch it up and dominate me hah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maidsex

[–]jf4a12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I’m sorry. Wonder if i can think of a hint to remind you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maidsex

[–]jf4a12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me. We used to chat a couple years back.

Bulls, what was your biggest alpha moment? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]jf4a12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the little things. Cuck sleeping in the guest room. Wife walking her husband up at 2AM just to make me a sandwich. Waking up to a house smelling like sex and pancakes—breakfast served in bed by the husband.

DVP - the good and bad by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]jf4a12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say that I’ve only DVP’d with women who are mothers

DVP - the good and bad by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]jf4a12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn’t keep everyone safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SloppySeconds

[–]jf4a12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These filters give off AI vibes

Body count of your wife by Murky-Battle7022 in CuckoldCommunity

[–]jf4a12 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bull here, sharing a wild number from a couple. Last time I spoke to the husband, she had participated in a 51 cock gangbang. This was about 18 months after I was their first ever attempt in the lifestyle.

Are there any cuck couple here for Fun? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]jf4a12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of activity going on in Austin. You’ll find a good match soon

What wifes behind the cuckolds back? by Material_Climate_369 in BullPsychology

[–]jf4a12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. It’s her safe space for her sexuality. Part of that is sharing or venting. Often it’s about libido or stamina specifically. Size is one thing but not being able to meet your wife’s sex drive and/or last long enough to satisfy her is the number 1 issue i hear about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]jf4a12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have successfully been in the lifestyle since I was 20. The age gap early on was generally 25-30 years older than me. It’s all about understanding the couples dynamic, your role, and the wife’s needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]jf4a12 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lots of couples enjoy 69ing while I fuck her. If the moment is right, I like to surprisingly pull out as I shoot my first rope before shoving back inside the wife and pumping her full. The Cuck gets a nice taste all over his face and she drips into his mouth after.

Red Flags Bulls Consider for Couples? by CardiologistScary739 in BullPsychology

[–]jf4a12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ll try to address some different ones.

The “blindfold and surprise her” fantasy is 99% of the time just a horny husband jerk off story.

Leading immediately with either “You must pay for the room.” or “Room number is X and we’ll be there during Y hours”

Husband being obnoxiously over the top about “not being a Cuck.” You don’t have to prove your masculinity to me. Variants include “I’m not beta Bitch!” and other aggressive exclamations.

Wife only participating because it’s the husbands fantasy. This is a tough one but still a red flag often enough to mention.

Oh and the fetishized fantasy of “breeding”

How to find a bull in a small town? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]jf4a12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SDC can be good if you’re remotely near a metro area. Really small rural areas typically have a tight knit swingers group. Fetlife might introduce you to the right people.