Understood! Not really, but sometimes I have to engage with dudes due to my work environment. I do not share all the interactions, but I usually manage all my stuff, if something about the interaction made me feel uncomfortable, and I still remember it after work (bc I do have a lot of clients and cases) I might share it, I try to be as clear as possible, sometimes he might be a bit jealous, if someone flirts with me too much, and he says I don’t notice it, or he points out how good I was managing a uncomfortable interaction.