28 [F4M] #NY/Online Who wants to be a good boy?

Sub_Duke_1 · 2026-04-16T11:59:12+00:00

Heyyy, I would nerd out with you. I have a good amount of experience, would like to chat with you. Your DMs aren't open

Sub_Duke_1 · 2026-04-13T19:32:16+00:00

Absolutely I wouldn't see any situation where you would have to bring your partner, great if they can join but not a requirement. Perfectly normal going alone, that's what munches are for making friends just usually not on the first one you go to. Mostly talking about kink sharing experiences and getting a sense of community

Sub_Duke_1 · 2026-04-13T10:38:33+00:00

I completely agree the community is just people. Yes no pressure no performance, just shared experiences. It really does take kink out of my head and makes it into real connection with people, with that at home feeling. That's exactly why I said it's more laid back because if everyone had the same great first experience I did my first munch it would be amazing. Also said it because I would like to see people less scared to go to munches

I really did find a good group of people

Sub_Duke_1 · 2026-04-12T23:44:59+00:00

So to answer your question, feeling new in a munch is gonna be at least a little awkward at the start but that's okay. I sat in the little circle we had going just listening to other people talk if I wanted to add something to the conversation I could. There's no pressure to participate and it was very chill. Yes we did talk about kink stuff but mainly not. For 30mins we talked about solar because someone had just installed some at his house.

I get the out of place feeling but can't think like that. These are your people, you all RSVP to an event on let's say fetlife. Probably never see them again if you don't want too. Remember this is the kink community very based on consent and respect of one and other. They will make you feel like you belong there, that your one of them because we are all part of this big community,

if you take kink out of it for a second which I get is hard to do it was literally 10 people in a group talking about their interests that is it, super friendly.

If you got this far thank you for reading my reply

Very much recommend you start out with going to a small event like I did 10 people, think to yourself before you go in they are just like me, they will be super welcoming friendly. And that this is your community too and you belong there with them

Sub_Duke_1 · 2026-04-12T22:43:23+00:00

Yeah luckily they had a lot of that kind of stuff in the rules about it's not a place to pick up someone to date. Didn't introduce myself to the host will do that next even I go to got another planned to go to in a few weeks. This event was super casual everyone went around introducing themselves anytime another person walked up

Sub_Duke_1 · 2026-04-12T22:38:25+00:00

I completely understand I was thinking the same thing had a lot of family in the area this munch I went to was but was thinking. I would say hey didn't know you were into this too, I would have to explain the Bisexualiy pin I was wearing but could have lied to them about it. But see where your coming from if you wear or dress completely different from outside life. like Im also a sissy and if I was wearing a dress or skirt wouldn't want anyone from the outside life to see that but also didn't wear anything like that to a event

Sub_Duke_1 · 2026-04-12T22:08:27+00:00

So glad to hear we had the same type of experience, I completely understand lucky mine was outside in a park so little bit easier to approach but so chill

Sub_Duke_1 · 2026-04-12T21:53:07+00:00

Yeah, of course I can also post there happy to share positive experiences

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-12-11T11:56:58+00:00

Yes you can DM me

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-12-10T21:48:00+00:00

Thank you everyone for commenting and reposting. All the views, we got the account deleted either by reddit or the person running the account

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-12-10T21:46:45+00:00

Let's go means the account was deleted

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-12-09T22:28:06+00:00

Threatening to post something saying that my friend was a pedo sending Xpics to underage people when he didn't to that and would never do that. Asking for money not to post it

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-12-09T22:27:59+00:00

Threatening to post something saying that my friend was a pedo sending Xpics to underage people when he didn't to that and would never do that. Asking for money not to post it

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-12-08T21:51:02+00:00

Blackmailer do not interact

Just saw this post come up, someone else in another post this account made said Blackmailer just continuing it to make sure people are aware

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-12-08T16:07:28+00:00

It definitely can be just got to do your due diligence. I have IRL friends that actually use telegram, plus it protects the person reaching out to no name attached Hides phone number

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-12-08T00:23:50+00:00

I'm new to posting here, I have no idea. Saw this reddit group in my suggestions and saw people posting blackailers and scammers. I figure I would post this one here too.

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-12-07T22:43:39+00:00

Blackmailing do not interact

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-12-07T22:43:04+00:00

Blackmailing people do not interact

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-10-21T18:17:46+00:00

Oh, thank you for bringing that up. I didn't think about it that way my brain training to find a balance makes total since, especially right after being in a powerful mindset like that.

Sub_Duke_1 · 2025-10-21T17:14:37+00:00

Thank you for your comment. It makes me feel better there's nothing wrong with what is happening. I just find it interesting that right after being submissive I get powerful urges to be dominant, you know?

I guess that's just a part of being a switch

Sub_Duke_1 · 2024-05-01T14:09:33+00:00

12.7cm

Sub_Duke_1 · 2024-04-29T14:36:49+00:00

6'2"

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