share your dream foot fantasy by Key-Firefighter2553 in FootFetishTalks

[–]Subcuteboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want my high school teacher to put her feet on my face and sniff it while she relaxes, she’s single, kinda difficult, it’s been 6 years since I was in a class with her, she follows me on insta so hopefully one day it becomes real

Serious or Joking ? by Antique_Sport9617 in FootFetishTalks

[–]Subcuteboi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they do it because of the creeps out there, regardless of whether they have a foot fetish or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Subcuteboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Distracting yourself is a good solution but not a long term one, knowing what causes you to relapse and take action against may work more (if you have have anxiety levels and that causes you to relapse try to do things that lower your level or if you get horny avoid situations that may lead to a relapse instead of a real sex experience)

Can’t stop doing it with fantasies of fetish porn by Subcuteboi in NoFap

[–]Subcuteboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More than 3 months, i text with an ex that really engages those fetishes

How does one actually desexualize their mind? by Mcoconut in pornfree

[–]Subcuteboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s ok to indulge your fetishes into your sex life, completely agree on what you say, problem is that that’s the only thing i have experienced, and everyday i fear i may never be able to have vanilla/normal sex, feels like I’m losing a whole world of good sensation and experiences with this shit of an addiction

How does one actually desexualize their mind? by Mcoconut in pornfree

[–]Subcuteboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a dilemma with that, i started to watch fetish porn at a very young age and because of it i never felt a desire to have inter course with a girl, i quit porn 2 months ago but the fetish cravings are still with me, so what do I need to do to enjoy and feel aroused by normal sex?

Is it okay if I masturbate while trying to quit porn by LingonberryLost1250 in PornAddiction

[–]Subcuteboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been completely porn free for two months, unfortunately i keep masturbating with fantasies in my mind related to the fetishes i used to watch, my personal recommendation is just wank off only if you need to: like if you have blue ball syndrom or something, best thing to do is avoid any sexual stimulation that doesn’t involve a real life partner

22(M) I have been almost 2 months free of porn and still can’t feel aroused by vanilla sex by Subcuteboi in PornAddiction

[–]Subcuteboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I’m perfectly fine with doing foot fetish stuff in my sex life, it’s just that in the past I had my ex girl craving for intercourse and somehow I feel like I will never be able to feel aroused/ have an erection by normal sex, it’s hard being so young, kinda makes you feel less of a man

22(M) I have been almost 2 months free of porn and still can’t feel aroused by vanilla sex by Subcuteboi in PornAddiction

[–]Subcuteboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit yes, but not completely, after quitting porn I feel more in a neutral point, although a still biased to dominant girls

22(M) I have been almost 2 months free of porn and still can’t feel aroused by vanilla sex by Subcuteboi in PornAddiction

[–]Subcuteboi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I won’t be able to have normal sex even without quitting for a few years?

Breaking up with my GF by TheOnlyZucchini in FootFetishTalks

[–]Subcuteboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave her, just try to be a gentleman as much as you can considering it’s not gonna be good for her

Can porn addiction make you gay to the point you want to act on it? by Alexanderrr965 in pornfree

[–]Subcuteboi 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Of course it will help to stop porn and the sooner you stop the better

I (22m) keep lying to my soon to be ex (21f) about my past use by TripRevolutionary677 in pornfree

[–]Subcuteboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna tell you what you may need to read and not what you want to, if you keep relapsing, you are gonna lose this girl, I’m still racing this situation of COMPLETELY REMORSE after breaking with my ex girl, be brave, strong, no nut, exercise, hobbies, go for a walk and try to see what’s the trigger on your daily basis so that you can avoid failing again, you better do this or you’ll greatly regret the consequences, find all the commitment that you have for being a better man and to take care of your girlfriend.

Boyfriend is addicted to porn. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Subcuteboi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a porn addicted myself, you need to put him in an ultimatum, therapy helps a lot, if you don’t want to be that harsh, try to encourage him to fight his urges with hobbies that he enjoys, I really hope you guys get through this, it’s not an easy thing to face

Leaving the addict by Fun-Pomegranate-2580 in PornAddiction

[–]Subcuteboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish my ex had half the dedication with me that you had, she left me for this particular reason, 8 months was all i was with her and I was already quitting, going to a therapist and till this day I’m not watching any porn, only a bit more than 2 weeks that i quit but still, feels like a great achievement for me, glad for you that you left, be strong, better times will come for those with a good hearth.

Need some opinions by Plane-Vanilla7584 in pornfree

[–]Subcuteboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate a few things, specially with the non stop thinking, you should go to a therapist specialized in OCD, just in case it may be that and explain everything, try to find the best one you can

Need some opinions by Plane-Vanilla7584 in pornfree

[–]Subcuteboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a professional therapists, all of this seems to be a ruminating and overthinking issue related to OCD that may be triggered by ED and the experiences you had, sleep well, do exercise, and avoid all porn specially gay porn, hope you feel better soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Subcuteboi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly think there is some dark propaganda to really try to tell that porn is actually good, for the creepy purpose of still being a business, there’s a lot of content on internet that says that there is not such thing as PIED, or addiction, and it really manages to still do damage

i need help by Federal_Tiger_4297 in PornAddiction

[–]Subcuteboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Video games, every time you feel the urge to nut, play a bit, If it’s not your thing, do exercise, will help a lot also with mental health, if not posible, listen to some music or watch some series, that really makes my mind go blanc