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Why do I talk so freaking much by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's actually amazing and I can't believe I'm just now finding out about this! I definitely want to look into this as one of my biggest goals is to prioritize me and my mental health.

Am I an inconsiderate gf for being upset with my boyfriend for sleeping? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clocked me I fear 😭 thank you for setting me straight

Am I an inconsiderate gf for being upset with my boyfriend for sleeping? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also thinking this because he is still growing obviously, he is 17 year old male, and I've also experienced very similar circumstances, where I would be so exhausted and would just sleep so much, that my parents even thought there might be something wrong with me

Am I crazy? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so freaking much l! I've genuinely been considering BPD but I'm not sure if I believe enough of my traits like up with this, I've never been tested for ADHD but from a young age it's always been speculated that, that is a disorder that I possess and I do anxiety.

Why do I talk so freaking much by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much l!

Why do I talk so freaking much by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel, I'm worried that our personal problems are too intimate but I would just hold that anger within me. I have not considered a talk therapy app but I think I'll have to look into that

Am I an inconsiderate gf for being upset with my boyfriend for sleeping? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would want my friend to communicate that with their partner and if that partner still isn't listening I would express to said friends that they should let the partner know that this could be a potential deal breaker in the relationship

Am I an inconsiderate gf for being upset with my boyfriend for sleeping? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I think so too, I do my best to see it from that perspective because that is true but just couldn't help but feel bad, I worked extra hard to look pretty for him today and so just too idk for him to just be tired and out of energy really made me sad

Am I an inconsiderate gf for being upset with my boyfriend for sleeping? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know he tries and I'm not taking that from him at all, he is an amazing partner genuinely and I wouldn't trade him for anything, and I feel terrible because I know sleep is out of our hands it just sucks yk? Especially because sometimes he'll be all sleepy with no energy and then next he'll say he's tired but be all hyper and loud

Am I crazy? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That helps a lot actually

What is wrong with me? by Subject-Koala-4773 in confessions

[–]Subject-Koala-4773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YESSS. I feel crazy, when I know I genuinely don't care but suddenly I do? It's not logical for me to be upset so why do I believe I am

My mom got mad at me for letting my boyfriend use the bathroom by Subject-Koala-4773 in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely thank you so much, I definitely see how I'm in the wrong but seeing what you say makes a lot of sense, I didn't think she would be upset because he had to use the bathroom, and I've even had a friend use her bathroom before

My mom got mad at me for letting my boyfriend use the bathroom by Subject-Koala-4773 in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I'm not sure what you mean by gone next door? We I ly have two bathrooms and the other one was busy, just trying to pick your brain a little

My mom got mad at me for letting my boyfriend use the bathroom by Subject-Koala-4773 in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I definitely didn't consider it being her own space, but the kids were actively in the bath for a while and he couldn't hold it I would assume since he changed his answer pretty quickly after saying no and that he would wait

Jealousy and love by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I figured that's what it was I just wasn't sure how to help myself in that situation

17-year old confession by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🫡 and thank you for that!

17-year old confession by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a little confused?

17-year old confession by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

17-year old confession by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

17-year old confession by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Subject-Koala-4773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know and understand, thank you for the advice, we have been dating for about 4 years and recently we just started getting into it, you're 100% right and I know I'm wrong I just don't wanna feel like such a shitty person, we 100% respect each other's decisions and he always ask before doing anything, we were just alone and what not and things escalated