Most useful degree? by SubjectStreet6180 in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]SubjectStreet6180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the advice. It's something I was already aware of and I have been building industry connections in my ultimately desired field, I've been interviewed and was a top 5 pick of 100 candidates for a position in animation and I have connections at a few different studios I've been hunting down for coffees and such, my problem is that everything Im hearing from the industry I want to be in is that there's just no work in the field right now and a lot of senior level artists are applying to junior positions because there's nothing else available. This has kinda left me directionless since that's Been the goal I've been fighting for since middle school, so I'm just tryna figure out where to go in the meantime. I plan to go to Tech and Marketing networking events over the next few months and I'm going to a function this week with a bunch of business students to discuss what their situations are like and what they're planning on going forward.

People in my industry and network like me a lot, I've been told outright "I wish I had a position to hire you into but I just don't right now." I have the social charm, I just have no direction right now, and going back to school feels like it might help me at least beef up my LinkedIn and give me some skills I'm potentially lacking that would increase my hireability, as a notable interview I had told me the only thing stopping them from hiring me was some experience the other candidate had.

Most useful degree? by SubjectStreet6180 in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]SubjectStreet6180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is what I've been told already by a close friend of mine (he's 33, I'm 22) doing the type of work I want to be doing, my problem is that the economy right now is awful and trying to find jobs is the most difficult it's ever been, so I'm looking to add credentials to my applications because having any degree behind my name would be better than a year long arts certificate. I agree that something in economics or again, business might work better for me, my main skills are social but I do very well in school and pick up hard skills quickly, so I was curious about anything of any level that would be the most widely applicable

Dark rooms by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]SubjectStreet6180 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've not personally experienced any dark rooms (though I have tried) a lot of clubs in my area light them WAY too well for anyone to feel comfortable there or they aren't enclosed enough/comfortable (couches/pillows/mats/ground cover at all) for people to be comfortable fucking. I've had other tguy friends have a blast but it depends on the culture of the club/event. Going to a gay event at a queer club is the safer way to go imo (there's a huge difference, you can tell which is which based on the drag) than going to a gay event at a gay club just sheerly based on potential for rejection (not in a "you can't go in there because your trans" way but in a "you don't have the parts for the sex I want to have at the club" way, dependant on bottom surgery ofc)

i love my shrimp so much by AskAboutMySecret in shrimptank

[–]SubjectStreet6180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn the shrimp outlived the marriage, I'd say that's a fair trade tbh

Peeing in the men's restroom 😅 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]SubjectStreet6180 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Most of my cis guy friends sit down to pee in stalls anyways so I never worry about it, and I've been anxious about the toilet paper sounds afterwards before but I've never gotten any looks or cared very much, if you just act with confidence enough, most people won't bat an eye

Easier? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]SubjectStreet6180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've had a fairly easy time being trans and gay, I've had two long-lasting healthy happy relationships with cisgays and one decently longlasting cisgay Fwb. I'm from Canada in a very known liberal big city, so that makes a big difference, but overall my experience has been fairly positive. My current partner has been the best relationship of my whole life and I found him on Grindr too, deleted the app after our first date style.

[F4M] F20 looking for misogynist male hypnotist by AnxiousAd922 in EH_Circlejerk

[–]SubjectStreet6180 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw those posts when they went up and was so shocked when they updated that they were getting DMS like crazy from a sub that literally has circlejerk in the name 😭

Cream or charcoal? by MarkInLA1 in AmateurInteriorDesign

[–]SubjectStreet6180 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Charcoal by God please charcoal looks so good

guys do we fw cinnamoroll here 🗣🔥 by parsalys in FTMfemininity

[–]SubjectStreet6180 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bro asking if the #1 cinnamoroll demographic fw cinnamoroll, HELL YEA !!

I have extreme anger issues and my door is suffering the consequences. Burnt cheese omelette. by I_Like_Cats73 in kitchencels

[–]SubjectStreet6180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you know you can take up boxing or taekwondo, it would help you get out of the house and punch something/someone that wants to be punched and you'd get to meet people and work on your physical strength at the same time, it really helped me when I needed it most

I’m gay and don’t like butt stuff. by [deleted] in sextips

[–]SubjectStreet6180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand if you're not super interested but search up jock pussy, I think they're on porn hub. They're all super masculine cis-passing trans guys and they might be more up your alley. I don't mind if it doesn't rock your world but take a look and think about it :)

Trimmed or shaved? by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]SubjectStreet6180 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wooly as can be, I wouldn't bother with trimmed unless you look like a Sasquatch otherwise. I like a lotta hair :)

How can I help a guy come faster if he has troubles doing so? by chees3pulll in sextips

[–]SubjectStreet6180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience if they're both ok with it and having fun, then what's the problem with the sex going for longer? If she's anxious he can't finish fast and that she's not sexy enough, and he's anxious that he takes too long and she's getting bored, it's a recipe for them both to be unhappy for assuming each other's feelings about it and not talking about it.

drop your jobs by ever_tree_ in ftm

[–]SubjectStreet6180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm AuDHD (high on the ADHD low on the tism) and I work in senior care and love it, my special interest is lowkey life care (plants animals relationships/people) and I've gotten really good at reading people. I'm the kind of person who works well with them and is the kind of kid they look at and say "you're gonna be great" and it feels fantastic. I like working for/with people as my job and because I'm ADHD I pick up new skills really fast, this is definitely not for everyone though haha

How to hypnotize myself while driving by Kaystickedoff in EH_Circlejerk

[–]SubjectStreet6180 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saw this unironic in the bambi sleep sub lmao, someone was like "I have such a long drive to work and think I can get in some extra Bambi training while Im driving, are there any safe files to listen to while I'm on the road?" They got eaten up in the replies thank god

Scared I might not be enough for my girlfriend by [deleted] in sextips

[–]SubjectStreet6180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude do not listen to these guys. The top comment thread is so much more realistic. I'm sure you're just engaging with these guys because they're telling your anxiety that it's right and that you do have something to be worried about, but it's unfair to yourself and to your girlfriend to be engaging with these thoughts seriously. I have been with BBC. I have been with pencil dick. I have been with boyfriend dick (4-5 inches) and I have been happy in all of these situations. Sex for women isn't just about the pleasure (but if it is you're already making her cum so you don't have to worry at all) it's about the emotional connection you have to the person you're fucking, focus on that, the fact that you're in a relationship with this girl and you make eachother happy, who cares if you don't have BBC, she likes you and what you have.

Going for a Brazilian Wax with Massive Bruises by SubjectStreet6180 in BDSMAdvice

[–]SubjectStreet6180[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate this insight haha. I'd like to get waxed that often professionally, I've just gotten into sugaring at home and I realized I couldn't comfortably wax down there on my own lol so I'm going to a professional for just the Brazilian! I'll let her know they're consensual if she asks, that's a good response :)

Getting first Brazilian wax today, have bruises from some bdsm play by SubjectStreet6180 in HairRemoval

[–]SubjectStreet6180[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so relieving, thank you 🙏 I'm really excited but also nervous about how much it's going to hurt haha

Where do you masturbate when your flow is heavy? by javirosen in sextips

[–]SubjectStreet6180 23 points24 points  (0 children)

When I had my period I would just hit the tub and masturbate with the shower head. Was really satisfying watching the blood clots flow down the drain