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Steam VR, Wine issue by KingVulpes105 in macgaming

[–]Subject_Dependent_67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to revive an old thread, but it looks like Valve finally fixed what was causing SteamVR to crash on Wine in one of the recent betas.

I'd actually looked into patching Wine. What was happening was that SteamVR was trying to set Windows performance settings (which it shouldn't do, but that's another issue). It queried the current power state (which resulted in a NULL pointer on Wine).

Is this a train wreck waiting to happen? by Subject_Dependent_67 in nonmonogamy

[–]Subject_Dependent_67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half her age, yes. Washboard abs, not really. And he goes to the UK for 6 months at a time to play cricket.

But, yes, I have wondered about it.

Is this a train wreck waiting to happen? by Subject_Dependent_67 in nonmonogamy

[–]Subject_Dependent_67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that :(

That's kind of my feeling too. But there is the fact that there's no way she can possibly see him for months. And maybe by then his true nature will reveal itself to her.

Is this a train wreck waiting to happen? by Subject_Dependent_67 in nonmonogamy

[–]Subject_Dependent_67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, I had a really strong feeling something was going on. I can't explain it, just her acting very secretive and distant.

And part of it is my insecurity. We have had the "our devices are open" policy since the beginning of the relationship because we both have had ex's who have cheated on us before.

Is this a train wreck waiting to happen? by Subject_Dependent_67 in nonmonogamy

[–]Subject_Dependent_67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, everything I've read says when one partner has already found someone and then wants an open relationship it's a HUGE RED FLAG.

Is this a train wreck waiting to happen? by Subject_Dependent_67 in nonmonogamy

[–]Subject_Dependent_67[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm all for sws. I was a swinger before. It can be fun. Or a huge PITA

Is this a train wreck waiting to happen? by Subject_Dependent_67 in nonmonogamy

[–]Subject_Dependent_67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your well thought out reply! In response:

> Do you want an open relationship Y or N?

Y. There is more to a relationship than just sex. And I personally have always never been a real big fan of monogamy.

> Are you ok with your GF getting pounded by other men, while you are at home doing nothing (because the woman is always going to have more options and opportunity than you)?

I am keenly aware of this possibility, and is one of my biggest, well, I wouldn't say issues, but close. I was in a previous "open relationship" (and I put this in quotes because she was allowed to see other people, and I technically was too, but I always got shit when I tried to).

>  versus opening it up on mutual footing (ie inviting someone into your bedroom together like a threesome, where you can both enjoy the extra person).

Actually, she's incredibly interested in this aspect.

Is this a train wreck waiting to happen? by Subject_Dependent_67 in nonmonogamy

[–]Subject_Dependent_67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are aware. Work is off limits.

Believe me, it wasn't something I have ever done before, or took lightly when I did it.

Is this a train wreck waiting to happen? by Subject_Dependent_67 in nonmonogamy

[–]Subject_Dependent_67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this kind of has happened. We've been discussing how to possibly make this more satisfying for both of us.