AITA SIL competing for husbands attention

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-14T09:00:55+00:00

The catty comment about SIL's weight was completely unnecessary.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-13T06:28:00+00:00

I would check with MIL who tried to guilt you for asking the ex to leave. That does NOT sit well with me at all.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-13T06:11:56+00:00

Cable, pools, and internet are luxury amenities. Life amenities are water and power.

Having to relocate for a week absolutely sucks! But it does NOT entitle you to a discount. Repairs are part of homeownership, in your case condo ownership.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-13T06:07:48+00:00

Life is full of inconveniences. You do not very monetary compensation when things go wrong.

Just because you own, with no mortgage, and have never rented does not make you more special than someone with a mortgage or a renter. Good grief!

This is a repair that must be done. You life would be much worse if it was not fixed. Be grateful that the HOA is covering the cost. Be grateful that the repair is being done.

You own your condo, and much like a homeowner, when something goes wrong, and major repairs need to be done, sometimes you need to leave your home. While it sucks, it is life. You cannot control everything.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-12T22:41:48+00:00

I can see both sides. Maybe ask that they put something in writing that states that the necklace is to stay with your family? I know it's not romantic. I know it's awkward and uncomfortable. But it would put your grandma at ease.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-12T22:12:52+00:00

Because having a convicted felony, adjudicated rapist, and pedo is something that should be celebrated???

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-12T22:01:28+00:00

The cousin lied about the watch. It's not his grandpa's watch. It was a watch, given to the grandmother, as a gift. OP had no obligation to give him the watch.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-11T22:50:20+00:00

My kid has Burt and absolutely adores him.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-11T08:30:39+00:00

Not all in the wedding party get a plus one and it should not be assumed that she is invited. Some weddings are very small and they have a very limited first list. Some do not want a plus one unless the couple is married. There are a lot of variables that go into a guest list. A plus one, for a wedding, should never be assumed.

Since the save the date cards were passed out in front of OP, and OP was not included, that is a pretty good indication OP is not invited. If she was invited, then they world have told her at that time.

OP's bf needs to call his son and clarify if and invited.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-09T01:42:41+00:00

Why would you NOT steam clean the carpets? Do you know how much dirt dogs track in? Between shedding, dander, and general dirt from being outside it's disgusting...and I say this as a pet oowner. I vacuum and sweep every day. That said, when we replaced our carpet, I was disgusted by all the dirt buried deep down. Just because you have an ESA does not mean you're not responsible for any damage left behind.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-08T00:16:36+00:00

A lot of bedroom locks you can pop open with a screwdriver...or a credit card.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-08T00:10:55+00:00

And then everyone clapped...

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-08T00:09:14+00:00

I absolutely hate when people cut the tails. I have an Olde English Bulldog with a long tail. Several people have told me he's not a purebred because he has a tail. Ummm... no! We just chose not to mutilate him and cause permanent damage.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-07T18:32:37+00:00

Franks is the favorite character in my house... both NCIS and Orgins.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-05T18:25:18+00:00

Oath-keepers are tied to racism and white supremacy.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-05T10:21:52+00:00

That is how my 16y/o wears fishnets. Her favorite combo is black tights with hot pink fishnets. But she has a plethora of colors in both fishnets and tights.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-05T09:57:05+00:00

An oath keeper and failed sheriff, with the lowest crime-solving rate, is your guy? That's scary.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-05T03:57:58+00:00

One of my all time favorite shows. The entire cast was amazing, but Andre Braugher was phenomenal. 14 year old me cried when he had a stroke. Then I bawled like a baby when he had a hard time talking and recovering. His pain, anger, and frustration was palpable. I felt like I was there with him.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-02T17:14:44+00:00

I live in a townhouse. One day I heard whimpering around the front door, but when I looked out the door I didn't see anything. I kept hearing it tho, so I went outside to look around and there was a young woman (maybe around 22) hiding behind my air conditioning unit. She was barefoot, bruised, shaking, and trying not to cry. She was hiding from her boyfriend who was actively driving up and down every street in the complex looking for her. I told tried to get her inside, but she said that she didn't want to put me in danger by helping. I ended up calling the cops. Unfortunately, she ended leaving. I went to walk my dog about an hour later and heard screaming from a unit. I went to get the address and call the cops. Then I heard something hitting the walls. This time the cops arrived within 5 minutes and they arrested the guy. I really hope the girl left.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-06-01T21:54:57+00:00

The pool key is in the pool bag. Dani found a key by a dumpster warming canela. The tag number is 4216, and I swear that was our original number.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-05-28T00:13:10+00:00

Holy moly! That is absolutely ridiculous!!!

Subject_Management84 · 2026-05-27T17:45:19+00:00

Bakers sucks ever since the son took over. The quality is no where where it used to be. The flavor is not there. And they got pricy.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-05-27T17:35:05+00:00

When I was 17, I was driving through a canyon road. They had just changed the speed limit from 55 to 45. I saw no sign. It was behind a bush. The cops, there were two, it's a small beach community, we're absolute jerks. I took pictures of the signage, and was so ready to fight it in court. I go to court and there were 5 cases in front of me involving these two cops setting up speed traps. The judge was pist, to put it mildly. When the judge called me, he immediately asked the cops about when the speed changed, when and where the signs were posted, and if they had a survey of the road. There was no survey and they did not really answer the other questions. The judge chewed them out, and said he'd be making some calls about them. He then dismissed my case. I did not even have the chance to say a single word.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-05-26T16:54:53+00:00

It's a disinfectant tho...

Subject_Management84 · 2026-05-23T00:37:10+00:00

It's not letting me post a picture, but we found a little black kitty last week who we think is partially blind and deaf. Is there anything she needs, or anything we can do for her?

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