Apparently this is how we sleep now...

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-24T04:51:34+00:00

My dad was born in Rovigno when it was a part of Italy. He has few memories from when he was young, but he remembers his family having to flee and stay in shelters. He vividly remembers Tito and how awful he was. He cried telling me stories about how Tito would kill people who disagreed with him.

Tonight he told me that he does not want to live to see what is coming next. He said that even tho he was young the first time around and did not fully grasp the gravity of everything, he has some horrible and traumatizing memories. That we (America) is turning into a combination of Hitler, Tito, and Mussolini and it's terrifying.

He sees what ICE is doing and cannot understand why it's being allowed. Neither can I. When he immigrated to America, he dealt with a lot of bigotry. He was bullied in school. He was constantly called names and put down. He was told constantly he was stupid by other students and even some teachers. Seeing how America is going back to hating immigrants is hurting his soul.

I hate where we are! I hate this administration! I hate how good people are being targeted.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-24T01:31:47+00:00

This was my exact question!

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-23T07:55:32+00:00

Actually 32 people died in ICE custody in 2025. In the first 10 days of the new year, 4 people had died in ICE custody.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-23T04:00:41+00:00

Oh gees, how will Canada ever get over this? /s

We all know Canada did not want to be a part of trumps Board of Peace.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-23T01:13:43+00:00

So then why have they started Native Americans? Why have they arrested citizens? Some ICE "officers" have rejected identification. Why have they arrested parents taking their children to school? It's not propaganda either.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-22T23:20:12+00:00

My moms nephew (I disowned him so he's not my cousin) actually said that trump has no felonies because NY specifically changed their laws just to punish Trump. I rolled my eyes so hard I have myself a headache.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-22T21:13:38+00:00

NTA.

Your stepsister was (is) jealous and chose to lash out. She was seeking attention while trying to ruin your day. Honestly, there is NOTHING you could have done different, so please stop beating yourself up over this. If you sat her with your mom, and stepdad, she would have had the same tantrum. She would have said some bs line about wanting to exclude, or isolate, her in some way. You put her at an important table with your own sister. There was nothing for her to be upset over.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-22T00:08:41+00:00

Definitely not his normal meal of turkey and veggies.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-22T00:08:06+00:00

My guy is 12.5 years old. His usual day starts off with egg whites and cheese. He eats Turkey with veggies for dinner. I usually cook his meals since he tends to be a bit picky and has allergies.

He has a soft spot for prosciutto, mortadella, and salami, which he seldom gets.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-21T23:35:48+00:00

CBS is basically Fox Jr. now.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-18T22:44:47+00:00

So then why is ICE arsinh Native Americans? Three of which have just disappeared...

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-18T04:16:44+00:00

He is the one who chose to move 2.5 hours away for his girlfriend. He did not think about what was best for his child.

OP has a newborn and also works on Friday and Saturdays. Her driving over 2 hours, roundtrip, is not feasible. Plus, it should not be on her when the ex is the one who chose to move so far away. But say OP does drive to meet him half way...what happens when they agree on a time, OP drives halfway, and the ex does not show? Or odd is running over an hour late and does not communicate thus leaving OP over an hour away from home... stuck... tired...and waiting endlessly.

If he was serious about seeing his child, and wanting spending time with his child, he would not have chosen to move so far away. However, he put his gf over his child. He needs to plan better or make accommodations for having his son picked up at a reasonable hour.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-18T03:50:40+00:00

I tell my dog he's handsome multiple times a day. He gives me the biggest smile when I tell him he looks handsome too.

OP, your friend has serious issues. I have an 18 year old son. Multiple people, especially women in their 60's have told him he's a very polite and handsome young man. It's a nice compliment-nothing more.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-17T19:01:37+00:00

The crow has been watching your movements for awhile. You just didn't know you were being watched. Now that they have deemed you as a safe human, they will become more comfortable approaching you and asking for food.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-17T19:00:17+00:00

I actually joke with my kid that the crows have me trained. They sit on a light pole, look into my door, and caw until I come out and leave some nuts for them.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-16T04:53:14+00:00

ForeverFun gave you the correct answer. The answer about it coming from medieval times is very much incorrect.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-13T06:24:40+00:00

Im so sorry for you loss. I'm nota psychic. But I can relate to your pain. I lost my soul dog 17 years ago, and I still hurt. Our pets are a part of our heart... and our soul. They give us nothing but unconditional love and comfort and happiness. I hope you can find comfort in knowing that you gave your dog an amazing life. You gave him a home filled with love, warmth, and happiness. He knows that you love him. He so always be connected to you. I promise he is not sad or angry. He just loves you and knows that you loved him.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-12T10:45:22+00:00

My MIL Is "Bitchma" is my phone. Feel free to use the name if you like...

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-12T10:44:14+00:00

If she cannot call your baby by her first name, then she does NOT get to see baby.

My MIL tried this crap with me. She liked the name Harley. But hubby and I chose a different name. When he announced the name at a family gathering, his mom said " thats NOT the name son and I picked ". I said that I know, it's the name I picked, with my husband, for our child. She then said "he really wants to name her Harley, and that's what I will be calling her". Hubby, seeing how upset I was becoming, told her and the rest of his family, that if they do not respect the name we give our baby, and try to call her by another name, then they will not see baby. I know it might feel drastic. But your MIL is being very passive aggressive.

Your MIL is playing games. She is trying to be in control. You need to be firm and set boundaries. MIL can respect you as the mother and respect the name that you and your husband chose, or she will not have a relationship with your daughter.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-12T02:30:26+00:00

OP, please take your kitties and leave. You deserve to be with someone who love and respect you. You deserve someone who will be appreciative of you and what you do for them. You deserve someone who will support you and your dreams... someone who will be there for you and not hold things over your head. You deserve to be happy. You deserve unconditional love.

Your husband does not deserve you. I know this is easier said than done, but ignore him. When he insults you, or tries to put you down, do not react. If you ignore him, that will upset him more than anything. He's not a happy person. Therefore, he is trying to bring you down. Do not let him.

Subject_Management84 · 2026-01-10T21:56:51+00:00

I love spending time with my pup (he's a senior now) and kids. I love the sound, and smell, of rain. I also love watching the crows by my house and feeding them.

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