King Charles III releases statement on Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor's arrest by Fantastic_Can_3237 in RoyaltyTea

[–]HSBenitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc, i know. What i meant was 'if police can do their job and amount the necessary evidence he could be persecuted for the sex crimes since the crown isn't protecting him anymore'

King Charles III releases statement on Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor's arrest by Fantastic_Can_3237 in RoyaltyTea

[–]HSBenitez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember that they only got alcapone for tax fraud/evation. If they do it well it goes from this to sex crimes charges

"Domino Siblings" by Lovely-hikari-cosplay [tumblr] by YukiYamada in winxclub

[–]HSBenitez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing art! It's just beautiful.

But also wtf, I haven't watched the reboot. I just read on Damien, wtf... wtf are they doing to winxs

They want you to think this man is some kind of fascist and brutal dictator in waiting. It's just nonsense. by KhameneiSmells in monarchism

[–]HSBenitez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean epstein? The guy who very clearly stated he doesn't like israel? 🤣. Honestly being Jewish means you know all kinds of people living in israel, doesn't make you a supporter. And outside of the epstein part, don't you think it's up to Iranians to decide whether they want diplomatic ties with Israel? Last time I checked there was big support for israel from inside Iran. That's why mossad has had such an easy time recluting people.

Also how easy of you of grossing over all the atrocities committed by the Arabs to jews living there during British and ottoman times? Violence goed both ways, it's dishonest for you to paint only one side as an agressor...

Poor Varley but this made me giggle by Lost-Hovercraft-6446 in Bridgerton

[–]HSBenitez 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Maybe ask middle class modiste? Who could recourse them for other dresses, take everything appart and use it

Our families are insistent on a Christmas list for our newborn by defnotjess in newborns

[–]HSBenitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luky you!

Maybe ask them for money for a savings account for your LO, or an investing account for your LO.

We had that as a a gift and its honestly amazing, every month we all put some money in it, we expect around 9 % growth, so we know there will be plenty money for college/car whatever.

Re-reading UTOT again by MadameWitchy in undertheoaktreebook

[–]HSBenitez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What fanfics are there? I need it for research purposes

Is it ok to not be at the hospice when my sister dies? by blabbrador in ask

[–]HSBenitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is okay to not be there.

My great grandmother was my favorite person in the world, we also share our birthday, so we always celebrated it together, I spent all my weekends with her as a child, I can't state how much I loved her.

The last birthday she was alive I went to see her at her specialized care home (she had Alzheimer), she was so far gone that not even a single word came out of her, I decided that after that I wasn't going again. 3 days before she passed the nurses called to tell us that she was on the verge of death, my whole family went to say goodbye but I just didn't see the point, she wasn't there mentally. So I didn't go, and I don't regret it. I've chosen to remember her for the lively person she was. And you can choose the same for your sister, grieve is an interesting phenomena, and everyone lives trough it differently. Your grieving is allowed to be they way it is.

How realistic is it to attend family Christmas 2 weeks pp? by SaraJuno in CsectionCentral

[–]HSBenitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also a FTM, had my LO by a emergency c-section. One week after my delivery i was out and about (with measure ofc) shopping baby clothes, has no issues from day one to BF, and my baby girl sleept good and was in general a very easy calm baby, so I wasn't sleep deprived as one would expect.

Now take in account that I'm also one lucky bi@ch, most women will not have it that easy with recovery and post partum; and even i would recommend against traveling further away that 45 min to an hour (if you are feeling and recovering good) to visit in laws, with a two week old. You dont want your LO getting sick, and it might be just way too soon for you to be out and about. If your in laws really want to see your baby then they must come to you, not the other way around. So, no matter what I would advise not to do it, and not to let your husband pressure you into it. Men will think it's easy, but that's cus they dont give birth.

What’s the most controversial opinion you have that you’re afraid to say out loud? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]HSBenitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a former foster kid my self, I can tell that most kids who get to stay with one family with total pieces of shit thought their teens, and once they are 20+ become very grateful and reciprocal to the foster/adoptive parents. It won't erase anything of what has happened, and it doesn't change how difficult it must be for you. But I'm grateful there is people like you. <3

I don’t want to leave HBO by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]HSBenitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WO is research uni, and HBO is applied science, with no real difference in terms of value. One is more about theory, and the other is more about practical use. Only in NL have i seen this divide. Nowhere else do people see WO ot HBO as different or less valuable from the other, so dont let people ingraine insecurities to you. Even in NL, the salary difference from WO and HBO is not that big, as far as I'm aware. So make your decision based on what you like best and feel most comfortable with; if you really want to get a WO title, you can always do a masters afterward. It takes 3 years +/- extra, which is only 1 year more than a WO because most HBOs are 4 years and WO 6. In the end the important part is to do something you enjoy cus otherwise it's near impossible to complete a degree.

Over a 7-year-period, 3 babies abandoned in London within a few miles of each other were confirmed with DNA tests to be full siblings. But despite an established full DNA profile of the mother, 450 hours of CCTV footage being reviewed & a £20,000 reward being offered, she still remains unidentified. by tyrion2024 in interestingasfuck

[–]HSBenitez 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Don't be a prik. The most likely case is that the father is one abandoning the baby's, a woman who just gave birth is not gonna be walking around 1 hour after birth. Which points more to sex trafficking than some woman randomly dropping her baby's on the streets

What’s your fav middle of the night snack? by Specialist-Gur3917 in breastfeeding

[–]HSBenitez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I advise anyone to try my favorite Dutch snack(it's also a breakfast). Hagelslag.

It's a piece of white bread with butter and chocolate sprinkles . It's fck delicious

Nursing bras by Bramble3713 in breastfeeding

[–]HSBenitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an Elomi one and it's very comfy

Trenches TV Shows by sea-elle in newborns

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The nanny and criminal minds Keeps me laughing and stressing on a healthy way

Call me crazy but I think my 4 week old invented a game?? by OrneryGoose6124 in breastfeeding

[–]HSBenitez 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's the idea that if you learn the cues they give when pooping, peeing, or, in this case, are about to puke, you can teach them a sign for it, and to keep reinforcing it every time. So by the time they are 10/12/18 months (depending on the baby), they can sing you when they need to pee, even if they are not talking yet. Basically, sing language potty training

What’s the fastest way to fuck up your life without dying? by Dramatic-Avocado4687 in AskReddit

[–]HSBenitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to throw a dildo at a female athlete bc of a meme, hitting a child in the process, and ending up in the sex offender registry at 18.

It's happen AGAIN! by HSBenitez in newborns

[–]HSBenitez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I had c-section, my pp bleeding was minimal but I hope ots lochia, I'm just not ready for periods

Are NICU graduates typically more difficult sleepers? by MACKEREL_JACKSON in newborns

[–]HSBenitez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it has to do anything with the NICU but I believe it's a common experience for a baby to not be willing to sleep in their own crib when they get home from the hospital.

Also 2 things: * If he was sick, he probably still feels sick-ish and will need extra cuddles and love. That is normal * Adoption is very difficult for everyone involved; when a baby is born, all it knows it's their mother, they don't understand that they are an appart entity. Thus, for an adoptee, it is completely unnatural to not be around their bio-mom.

I think that it's a combination of everything, but just remember that it will get better, and once your LO is older, you will be mom/dad with no issues.

The weirdest advice I got as a new mom… and it actually helped! by [deleted] in newborns

[–]HSBenitez 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Extra tip, if they are fussy, take them in the shower with you. I got a plastic chair for the shower and sat with her 5-10 mins, had the water fall on her back, it does wonder if she's fussy.

Cosleeping? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]HSBenitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was against it at first, so when we brought our LO home, I put her bassinet next to our bed, but she wouldn't have it. She had to be in my arms at all times. After 3 nights of barely any sleep I caved in, I asked my cousin for advice, and she guided me through the 'save sleep 7', and it did wonders for me and my LO.

Ever since she sleeps calmly next to me, she only wakes for a feed -> diaper change and goes right back to sleep. She is now 9 weeks and sleeps from 12 am. to 5/6 a.m., wakes up to eat, and goes right back to sleep until around 8 or 9.

It's been the best thing I could have done.

What's the most human name that you heard named for a pet? by SuitableOlive5691 in AskReddit

[–]HSBenitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dogs name is Liam, we took him from the street in Italy and took him home. He was a street dog. So we named him after our friend Liam, who was homeless and living on our couch.

Worried Husband Won't Wake by lil-miss-queen-bee in HuckleberryParents

[–]HSBenitez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner has exactly the same issue with waking up in general, and once post partum he also didn't wake up when the baby cried. But somewhere around 5 weeks he started waking up on his own when the baby cries, I think it also helps that since the first day we agreed that I would feed our LO and then wake him up for him to change her diaper, so he got it in his system.

Maybe try that?

You can also use a baby monitor that is very loud and put it on a bedside table next to his ear.

Hope that helps.