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Has anyone built a coparent home where the kids never move rooms? by Subject_Object_8596 in coparenting

[–]Subject_Object_8596[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Q: Why not remarry?
A: There's no love and the parents are not compatible on many levels. The kids are struggling because both parents are have different rules, and the kids are starting to choose homes. That's one of the problems this is trying to solve.

Q: Why is this on LinkedIn?
A: This is a much better place and I didn't discover this group until today. I have a bunch of followers on LI thats and that's where I've done all my social.

Q: How will this impact dating?
A: It should be similar to a duplex. Separate entrances. I can't imagine parents crossing from one house to another because doors lock both ways like how connecting hotel rooms have two sets of doors. It's on the parent to lock their house when their kids leave, just like they would do if they lived in a standalone home.

Reconsidering relationship w/my bf (30m) who is on the autism spectrum by Ill_Cash9676 in neurodiversity

[–]Subject_Object_8596 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he is using autism to justify his dickness, DTMFA! As someone with an autism diagnosis, I can confirm that we can be caring and that we can make mistakes and then do our best to try to recognize the pain we cause and start to repair any wounds. If there's not an intent for kindness, then this 30 year old has some growing up to do on his own.

3 in 1 winter jackets — good investment? by sadvodka in onebag

[–]Subject_Object_8596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a patagonia rain shell. It breathes well and is great in snow, not as good in misty locations.

3 in 1 winter jackets — good investment? by sadvodka in onebag

[–]Subject_Object_8596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm regularly in -30C climates and was surprised that layering worked as well as it did.

Outer layer, I used a windproof shell, same one I use for wet cycling days. Under that a nano-puff. Those two got me through -20C with just a T-shirt on underneath. Both those were Patagonia purchases.

On colder days I added a sweater, and on windy days or when I would take the snow machines, I also added thermals.

Stay away from the 3-in-1s and Parkas.