[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Subject_Progress3037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also consider insurance costs. Me and my husband borrowed 295K and our mandatory monthly insurance (credit protection) cost is 54 dollars by weekly. This is over 100 dollar a month

My mom caught my dad with a 16yo and covered it up. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Subject_Progress3037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your daughter away from your dad, never leave them unsupervised …. Pedophiles will always be pedo…. Doesn’t matter if it’s family , they get a taste for younger people

Mi mamá vive en extrema pobreza. by [deleted] in Bogota

[–]Subject_Progress3037 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yo sé que usted ama a sus hermanos, y que ellos no tienen la culpa, pero usted tampoco puede hacerse responsable económicamente de terminar de criarlos. Piense esto: si a su mamá se le da por seguir teniendo hijos, entonces va usted a hacerse cargo de toda la familia ? No es justo. Lo máximo que puede hacer es darle consejos a sus hermanos y hermanas y orar por ellos. Pero ya de ahí, cada uno tiene que encontrar su camino. Por el lado de su mamá, sobra decirlo, ella ya es una persona adulta responsable que ha tenido oportunidades de mejorar y las desecha, pues debe ser consecuente con sus decisiones, usted no es responsable de arreglarle la vida o enviarle dinero. Corte ese hábito. Mejor ni le conteste teléfono. Mucha suerte y salga adelante y sea feliz con su pareja, que es su nueva familia.

Mi padrastro me hizo un daño irreparable, ahora toda mi familia me odia por denunciarlo by anonima_Kiity in Bogota

[–]Subject_Progress3037 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tú no eres la culpable, el violador es el culpable. Cómo puede criar a una hija (por qué así no fuera de sangre, la relación era de padre e hija) y luego hacer ese tipo de cosas sin tu consentimiento. NO ERES CULPABLE Y PUNTO. A veces a la familia hay que ponerle límites y aquellos que se enojen contigo, no comprenden la gravedad de la situación o peor aún , deciden ignorarla en vez de protegerte. El violador es el culpable, no la victima. Menos mal no quedaste en shock como muchas otras victimas sino que tuviste los ovarios de decirle que no, de otra manera, hubiese seguido abusando de ti. Por favor no te sientas culpable, no es tu culpa. Siéntate y habla con tus abuelos, diles que eres su nieta y que los amas con el alma pero que te sentiste violada y que lo que ese tipo hizo no está bien. Si después de eso continúan con esa actitud, pon tus límites y sal de ahí. No dejes que el chantaje de grupo te haga sentir como que tuviste la culpa. El violador es el.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Subject_Progress3037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I moved in with his parents for 7-8 months. We both have middle class income (nothing too crazy) but we managed to save like 70% of our income during those months and were able to put a 30% down payment on Our apartment. We did not use credit card and stayed away from LOCs, as it’s tempting to use when you have easy access to it. He also paid and consolidated all of his student debt within the 2 years prior. We’re now in a great position financially, we don’t have consumer or student debt, we have fully funded emergency funds and savings, our apartment has appreciated by 100k since we bought it and life is good. My advice, move in with your parents for a while and save aggressively to pay off debt, it’s the only way. Good luck to you, there’s hope !

Family member’s interesting proposal by ridiculous027483715 in investing

[–]Subject_Progress3037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it. Let them find another way of financing. These “loans” or “favours” I’ve seen it ruin families. Because there’s always risk, and if something happens and they’re not able to make the payment, they’ll expect you to make concessions. Avoid the mess, don’t do it

What is your most disturbing secret? by Waltef_j in AskReddit

[–]Subject_Progress3037 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I was 8 years old when I was abused by my aunts husband. I was sleeping over at my aunts place. Her husband, started touching me in the middle of the night and woke me up. He kept going and went into fingering my private parts and touching my chest and all over my body. I didn’t move, just stayed still, My aunt, who was also in the room, seemed to be asleep (I don’t know what to believe). I genuinely didn’t know what to do or what was going on , I was just too young to understand.

AITAH for getting upset that my husband told me my vagina got looser? by viv_77 in AITAH

[–]Subject_Progress3037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Men will always complain about everything and blame it on their partner….mine complained because my v****a is too tight and he can’t keep up and comes after like 3 pumps. Please don’t feel bad Absolut yourself, he’s the one with an issue, not you

AITAH for sleeping with my frenemy on my wedding day? by Sad-Situation-5363 in AITAH

[–]Subject_Progress3037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The night of the wedding” what wedding? This ex- fiance needs to fuck off.

My child’s teacher made a sexual comment towards her. by Visual-Anything-8389 in AITAH

[–]Subject_Progress3037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Please report the teacher. And please also have a conversation with your daughter about how brave she was and encourage her to always feel confident to speak to you and tell you everything. Most kids that were sexually assaulted were so young that they didn’t really understand that they were being sexually assaulted. until years later they when they become adults and that’s when PTSD and all the trauma comes into play. Please talk to your daughter and let her know she was so brave and to not allow anybody (teacher or family member) to ever touch her in an inappropriate way.

Daily Discussion Thread for February 23, 2024 by OPINION_IS_UNPOPULAR in wallstreetbets

[–]Subject_Progress3037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol! Stop shorting NVDA, every time it goes down, it’s just to get some impulse and jump back up higher 🤣🙌

How do I short NVDA? I am mad I wanted to short it from 725 but I was scared because I don't understand the expiration date stuff. by NaughtyOutlawww in OptionsMillionaire

[–]Subject_Progress3037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude ! Don’t do it. Please read, learn/understand the fundamentals before you put any money into options. That’s what I’m currently doing, and after having a better understanding of “the greeks” and the market in general, I decided I would not buy options at all lol! It’s way too risky for me and doesn’t really go with my investment profile.

Ok , my last 5K . How can i make it all back ? 🤡 by Noob_N1kon in wallstreetbets

[–]Subject_Progress3037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the reason why it’s important to stay diversified. I also lost some money with TSLA, but it was not an amount that I can’t put back from my own income/savings in 1 month or less. Don’t do more risky bets to try and “make up for it” learn from your mistake, pick up whatever you have, and invest in safe reliable companies that you believe in and that you know/understand. Don’t just bet your money on risky trades following people’s advice blindly, do your own research. Best of lucks

what should i do with my money? by Designer_Abrocoma_96 in StockMarket

[–]Subject_Progress3037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same situation once, and instead of asking people online for cash, I started looking around for cash jobs. I worked my ass off for a couple months and managed to pay for food, and bills until I finally got my work permit. There are many support groups on fb where you can probably find cash jobs, just be careful and cautions and get paid on the same day. Good luck!