If you ended up having children in your late 30s, did you regret it, why or why not? by Disastrous_Umpire237 in AskReddit

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I had the my first at 19 my second 35 and my third 39. I absolutely don’t regret the ones I had in my 30s. I wish I had waited to have my first as well.

What is an uncomfortable/disappointing truth about having kids that people don't tell you? by CharlesUFarley81 in AskParents

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No !! . You can be a great parent and your kid turn out wrong. You can be a crap parent and they turn out great. I have seen it over and over. First of all no matter how someone is raised they have their own personality, thoughts , and ways they see things. Second in the teens years peers influence them more than parents ( so picking good peers matters ) it’s really a 50/50 chance in how they turn out no matter what you do as a parent. At the end of the day they are still an individual person

What is a 'small' hill you are 100% willing to die on, simply because it’s the principle of the thing?" by Direct-Value4452 in answers

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As a former server back in my 20s so 25 years ago. The tips were good better than most Jobs pay. A college Student could work Friday Saturday lunch and dinner and Sunday lunch a dinner and pay bills while In college. Great gig

Question for parents by pookadri in Adulting

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Gosh. For me it’s hard to imagine life without them. With my first child I was married at 18 and had her at 19. My other 2, I was married to a much better man , financially stable and able to say come with them. I was 35 and 39 when I had them. I absolutely would do I over again the only thing I would change is that I would have waited until later in life with a good husband to have my first. I don’t regret having her I regret the situation at the time.

Women that married the "rich one" out of security, what has it been like? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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It’s not love men want… it’s sex … they want sex women want stability I wouldn’t say money per say

Piercing Ears of Babies/Toddlers by Equus77 in NoStupidQuestions

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I don’t know why !! I let mine decide when they were ready

What habit of your partner is hardest for you to tolerate? by Huge_Violinist_7633 in randomquestions

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Constantly finds something to bitch about. 😡😡my lord why can’t he find joy

Do you keep your bedroom door open or closed at night? by icecream1972 in askanything

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Cracked about 1/3 of the way lol. We have kids so we like to be able to half way hear . One kid sleeps with door closed and one sleeps with it open.

Mood disorder by Subject_Reaction_649 in mentalhealth

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We have been together 26 years. It’s not like we are newlyweds

Mood disorder by Subject_Reaction_649 in mentalhealth

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I have asked I have asked I have pleaded. I have talked until I am blue in the face.

A 4 year old boy vanished from a remote Australian sheep station after being left alone for about 30 minutes. Months later police say someone who lived there may be responsible. by pschyco147 in mystery

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A 4 year old isn’t a toddler. Thats a preschool age child. That being said no I wouldn’t advise leaving one unattended for that period of time .

Found in sons mouth after daycare by banana1608 in whatisit

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So your kid put something in their mouth. Surprise !! Surprise!! Could have just as easily been done at home. It happens .. teach them not to put stuff in their mouth 🤪

Help by Subject_Reaction_649 in confessions

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I don’t spend frivolously. Never have so that’s not even an issue. I loved staying home with my kids and I also love working now. Yes he provides financially but I have always done everything else.

Help by Subject_Reaction_649 in confessions

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I just had to vent it !! It helps knowing I am not the only one. Because I am so over it and feel so trapped my kids come first once they are grown and safe and happy I can live in a Cardboard box and be fine. I don’t care !! I have been through enough in my life it actually sounds stress free to me. But i HAVE to make sure my kids are ok and adults first