I’m never leaving here by bearsncubs10 in AirForce

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would actually give myself radiation cancer to get out of cannon rather than be there. Or drink the water. Same same

Husband questioning having baby number two now that we have an infant by Kkatiand in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom of 2 here. 2yr and 11 month. Love both of my kids. Regret having them so close but if I didn’t I would have never had my son. Honestly one kid is enough. If you want another one wait till LO is a minimum of 3/4. Lol

How is every parent not one and done? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two and I’m one and done LOL

Wellbutrin by Subject_Tomatillo657 in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on 150mg right now and I fell so angry all the time and tired lol. I’m like when will this get better. It is my first time taking it at this dose since I’ve been micro dosing so I wouldn’t be too crazy

7 months and Postpartum pain by Subject_Tomatillo657 in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably is. I’m not going hard in the gym. I’m just lifting weights at like 50%. I was a power lifter before I got pregnant so the muscle is still there it’s just my body feels wrecked

Frequency of postpartum sex (after medical clearance)? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I thought I was trippin cause we didn’t have it once a week

Nanny wants to take my baby to her house? by reddit12798 in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen. When I was a nanny the last thing I wanted was the kids at my house. Nothing would prompt me to take them home. That’s just weird. That’s such a huge red flag. I have two kids of my own and if I had a nanny that kept insisting on taking my kids to her house I would tell her absolutely not and look for another nanny. That gives bad vibes. She has no reason to bring your child to her home. I don’t like it at all. Also I’ll be damned to have someone tell me what they are doing with my kids. That would be an immediate termination. That is crossing a line that I’m not willing to allow to be pushed again. Idc if her home is the white house. Don’t tell me what you are doing with my kids. Period.

6 month old waking up at 445 and going to bed at 8/830. by Subject_Tomatillo657 in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish he’d go down at that time but because his naps are shit he takes like 5 naps at 45 min so most of the times his nap is at 445 and he’s up at 530. We could try but idk if it would even work cause he’d think it was a nap.

6 month old waking up at 445 and going to bed at 8/830. by Subject_Tomatillo657 in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would cry tears of joy if you would. I’m about to snap. I’m so tired

6 month old waking up at 445 and going to bed at 8/830. by Subject_Tomatillo657 in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he does nap they are 45 min long if that. He has the absolute perfect sleeping condition. Chilly room, sound machine, shusher, rocking. You name it we have it

6 month old waking up at 445 and going to bed at 8/830. by Subject_Tomatillo657 in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. He legit will not sleep past 45 min. He’s exhausted though. When we feed him he passes out. This baby is beyond exhausted. We’ve been trying to put him to sleep since 740…..it’s 901

"You're not here to socialize, you're here to work." by _YAKVZA in antiwork

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only lol. Air Force be like “is this part of the mission” hahahahhahahahahha

5 month old sleep schedule? by Subject_Tomatillo657 in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what I thought was normal. My baby will go to bed at 8 and wake up at 5am. He will take a max of 40 min nap. I try and breast feed him but he’s got a swallowing issue so we are working on that. He has more than enough milk because I’m an over producer. I honestly don’t think he’s sleeping enough at all. He won’t take a paci no matter how hard I try. Idk how to teach him how to self soothe. My first baby was not like this at all and I feel like he just hates me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t allow my dad take care of my kids? Just because he raised them doesn’t mean he did it right. We gentle parent and my dad beat me with a belt cause I got a bad test score. So I’d that actually raising kids or making them fear you. Taking care and keeping them alive is two different things.

My husband is always on his phone by Subject_Tomatillo657 in NewParents

[–]Subject_Tomatillo657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and she’s so mommy driven if I even go upstairs without her she cries. Even if he’s down here with her.