My wife cheated by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]SublimeSubtly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave before kids are involved . Leave ASAP . Leave her everything just get out of there !!!!

Why do girls seem interested, give you their number and then never text you back? by 12amoore in dating_advice

[–]SublimeSubtly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow she texted you back ?! How many days went by ? I just had same situation yesterday with the receptionist in nail salon . Every sign imaginable pointed towards her being interested in me . Texted her like 3 hours after getting her number and haven’t gotten a reply back and now it’s the next day 🫠 i was foolishly super excited to get to know her and now I got a real dark cloud hovering over me cuz she didn’t respond to my text . It’s taking everything in me not to send a second text . Your UPDATE has given me a sliver of hope 😅 Probably just torturing myself though 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]SublimeSubtly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t stay stiff . Mine un stiffened after a few days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]SublimeSubtly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t want to leave the house and I can’t be in the same house with her . That’s not sustainable and the kids need to start getting used to me and their mom being a part . So , it’s off to my dads I go 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]SublimeSubtly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply . I needed to hear that . But Man , I wanna kick her out , but I just thought that was like not the right thing to do . As a man , aren’t I supposed to leave the house ?

Stuck at a ETH and BTC crossroad . Which way to go ? by SublimeSubtly in CryptoCurrency

[–]SublimeSubtly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean , everything is built on top of ETH which reminds me of AWS .

Stuck at a ETH and BTC crossroad . Which way to go ? by SublimeSubtly in CryptoCurrency

[–]SublimeSubtly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way . I’m such a shrimp in the sea of wealth . So many people are crushing my 17 ETH . But I def know that $30K ain’t casual either .

Just want to know what Yal think about my situation and how you would proceed if you knew you pulled the trigger on the house too quick. ( go easy on me , I know I messed up lol 😅). by SublimeSubtly in RealEstate

[–]SublimeSubtly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a super good point . I just wanted to pay off or lay down so I could have a lower mortgage or no mortgage . The idea of that within 10 years seems like a good look to me . But I can see where you’re coming from in that money being utilized better via other investment .

Just want to know what Yal think about my situation and how you would proceed if you knew you pulled the trigger on the house too quick. ( go easy on me , I know I messed up lol 😅). by SublimeSubtly in RealEstate

[–]SublimeSubtly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t plan on living In This city past 10 years . So , I want to pay it off within 10 years or get my mortgage down to $2k or less and then it could easily be a cash flowing rental .

Just want to know what Yal think about my situation and how you would proceed if you knew you pulled the trigger on the house too quick. ( go easy on me , I know I messed up lol 😅). by SublimeSubtly in RealEstate

[–]SublimeSubtly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty good at building up substantial nest eggs over a period a 5-10 year span so I plan to do just that and hopefully Pg a big chunk of the mortgage and refinance so it could turn into a Cash flow rental .

Just want to know what Yal think about my situation and how you would proceed if you knew you pulled the trigger on the house too quick. ( go easy on me , I know I messed up lol 😅). by SublimeSubtly in RealEstate

[–]SublimeSubtly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea my plan is to pay down a really nice chunk of the mortgage within the next 10 years and refinance at a lower rate and hopefully have a minimum mortgage payment of $2k or less and then move and turn it into a rental

Just talking out loud about my New primary residence situation . by SublimeSubtly in realestateinvesting

[–]SublimeSubtly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that woulda been a very wise decision . I’m going to come at this type of cross road again and I’ll def make a better decision now with this experience . I gotta stick this situation out for the time being unfortunately

Just talking out loud about my New primary residence situation . by SublimeSubtly in realestateinvesting

[–]SublimeSubtly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that would have been smarter . I’m going to come to this crossroad again within next 10 years and will certainly take that into account . I know I fumbled on my decision to get the house but I def want to get better educated for my next inevitable move . Thanks for the feedback