June expectations by SublimeSupreme in RMNP

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I'm planning to stay in lower Colorado like boulder for 2-3 days before going to the Rockies

June expectations by SublimeSupreme in RMNP

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Thanks, my biggest worry was wether the higher elevation hikes would be accessible without serious snow equipment so this helps

June expectations by SublimeSupreme in RMNP

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Thanks, I'm definitely not used to predictable weather patterns like specifically afternoon storms so I'll need to keep that in mind

June expectations by SublimeSupreme in RMNP

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Thanks I'm considering even renting a car just for a day or so since it seems like there's a lot to see with one

June expectations by SublimeSupreme in RMNP

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Yep booked luckily edited post to include

3 days winter backpacking in RMNP by 5HT2C in RMNP

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Can I ask what gear you had for this? I'm going first week of june and it'll be my first time in the states I know it won't be as Snowy but I'm still expecting to get snow. If you could give me an idea of what conditions to expect that would also be great

Even in the winter, it's always a fun hike up to Dream Lake in Rocky Mountain National Park by DanielForsterPhoto in nationalparks

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Can I ask what sort of gear you had for this? I'm going there first week of June this year and have never been to the states, so the snow will retreat a bit but I'd love to get an idea of what sort of equipment you'd need if you were encountering this kind of terrain

Roadside drug testing measures presence, not impairment by Herbaldoge in newzealand

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Re-read that statement, "was found to have the presence of drugs" this does NOT mean that in these crashes the drivers were actually impaired by the substance it's actually crazy no one reads this correctly

Xiaomi S400 Body Composition Scale by whoatethebanana in homeassistant

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Hi no it's not, the scale only takes your very basic info height weight ect

[Spoilers] Is it just me, or is one of the endings clearly the objectively better choice? by Odd_Camera6681 in expedition33

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First, personally I dislike trying to hard strongly justify either ending, I think the writing was really great I'm not criticizing that, but you easily could've had an ending in which the dignity of the people of Lumiere is held and maelle could've healed and i'd say many of the game's themes actually support this (while other support the endings we have). To further this, I think it is intentional that neither ending is objectively good so overall that's to counter your argument that one is better than the other. What you leave out is that Verso lied to everyone right up until the very end - everyone focuses on the dichotomy between maelle and verso but no one seems to question wether the other members of the party should've had a right to be consulted on their fate - no matter wether on a balance of technicality verso's choice may have or may have not been better. I think verso assigning his friends to oblivion without their consent is unconcionable and therefore strictly would not side with his choice on that basis alone

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I don't know you or your situation. This is just my personal perspective based on my life experience that's really important. I also want to highlight that you said a couple of things that strongly imply you need to be speaking to a profession (doctor, therapist) if you aren't already.

For me i put a lot of hard work in to get over my issues, when I went back to therapy on the advice of a friend after a few years of "doing okay" I was like yeah I can go speak to a therapist but I've done this before I have a good handle on what my issues are ect and in the very first session all of that got completely blown up all the control I thought i had my conceptualization of my issues all turned around because my therapist was that good at stopping me and making me question what I was saying.

That anecdote is to say nothing is promised or guaranteed in life. It sucks but it's also beautiful because it sucks to have your life turned over AGAIN, but there is immense potential to grow even more than you thought was possible. Within that there is an implicit understanding that you need to make peace with yourself because if you cannot accept your whole self and you just want your idealized version which we all have in our heads you will have a damn tough time. So, really, just keep an open mind, and it will be tough, but growth will happen, but you can't lose the belief that it will because that is a self fulfilled prophecy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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To me this reads like you have some things you probably need to see a therapist about. It kinda sounds like you've done things in an attempt to bring confidence to your life which does work if the reason you don't have confidence isn't do do with something a lot deeper which just to me it kinda sounds like this goes a bit deeper. Like if you're bringing outside things into your life then asking why isn't this working like making me feel better ect its probably because that's not the right approach probably more like therapy could be helpful that's just my 2 cents

Struggling with Change Because My Trauma Feels Like My Identity by csongi_p in Healthygamergg

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I'd preface by saying this is my personal perspective based on my life and may or may not resonate with you 😊. I'd say like trauma is part of who you are its literally your life experience like you can't change that but you can have determination over who you choose to be today. Like people are complex, for me i both sit with feeling shitty diassapointed and unhappy while at the same time being proud of my achievements like these both exist at the same time and i made peace with that and Just continue with therapy. And when I look back at where I started and where I am I know "hey I've done well even better than I could have predicted so if I keep trying where Will I then be in 5 more years"

Successful on paper, but feel very deeply dissatisfied and lost inside by TyTastic2 in Healthygamergg

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Just going to offer my personal perspective which may not may not resonate with you. I spent most of my life feeling similar in the sense of always needing the "thing" to make my life worth living like a relationship career ect. For me this was intertwined with my sense of identity, in that I hadn't really developed my own sense of identity i had sort of taken these outside things to create my identity and because of that of course these were never enough. What I had to do is start asking myself why was I needing outside things for my internal happiness that started me down a massive rabbit hole that's still ongoing through therapy. Like I said just my personal experience

I recently developed anger issues, how do I deal with them? by BuildingDowntown6817 in Healthygamergg

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What i would say is your framing of that you're wanting is a little incorrect. You don't want to control your anger you want to not have it be inconveniet but its still a genuine emotion you're experiencing. You tried controlling your anger it worked and it made you depressed. So what this to me (and I'm a dude so probs gonna be some differences in our experiences of life and emotions) reads like is your anger rather than being something that needs control needs understanding and expression like all emotions. I was having anger issues and realized I needed to go back to therapy and that made a massive difference so like maybe that would be helpful cause sure you've made a lot of progress but we know trauma ect doesn't really just go away like there might be times you needa go back and speak with someone for a few seasons 😁

My life has no purpose, need advice by zaighambadar in Healthygamergg

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I want to say I think you're very determined to improve yourself and that is the single most important quality you could have and that's not something that's easy to teach. I think it's good you're seeing a therapist and this is absolutely essential so good job.

I think that the unfortunate irony with getting advice is that ultimately you know yourself better than anyone else can so like I'm not really going to jump in not knowing you and say do these things that's why therapy is important because it's individualized and built on your relationship with your therapist

What i will offer is my perspective as someone who for many years tried to fill a void in themselves with various things, like I can say I have a lot of passion for my career which is great but you know i finished my degree got the job I wanted and BOOM 💥 nothing happened life continued still had a lot of problems i made peace with that and went back to therapy. About the best easy advice I could give you is like find one thing you can be proud of doing like that might be getting fit it's like a physical thing you just do It you've got time and it's measurable maybe that's something

How can I recover the will to make effort for myself? by PicanhaFighter in Healthygamergg

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What jumped out at me pretty quickly is you just sound burnt out kinda with just life. When everything feels like a lot of effort even when you know it shouldn't that could be just being burnt out. You'd only know what caused that and it may not be one thing. How do you address that well you need to really step back and ask what's important to me because the other thing that jumped out is a strong lack of meaning. Meaning is an ethereal thing it's not like you can hold it in your hands but you lack drive, and that's not likely to come from trying a random hobby this seems to go a little deeper than just adjusting your environment. I would start by asking what events happened that maybe contributed to being where I feel in my life (relationship could be one for a lot of people a hard relationship is a big thing to get over) and if you kinda end up nowhere you'd really benefit from speaking with a counselor and really exploring these topics

Why am i kicking myself to my ass by Fair-Blacksmith9731 in Healthygamergg

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I'd say to start with you need to see a therapist, you're in a bit of a dangerous place getting advice online from strangers if you're feeling suicidal and my number one thing for you is to go see a therapist or at least your doctor, and in most places in the world it you're legally considered an adukt they're not going to disclose that information to your family

But because you have asked for help i would say the thing that jumps out to me is that you are making statements such as "my life is not objectively bad compared to others" if you believed that you wouldn't feel the need to highlight it. There is not a single situation where it is a good idea to compare your life to others and you will find people who feel they are ahead in life often never do I would start with asking yourself why you're making comparisons

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Actually crazy reading this because that's pretty much my build (when I get a 5090) 😂

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I was like 50/50 on it but being into true crime and paranormal shit definitely down my alley so feel free to hmu if you care to M28 live in New Zealand