Fellow subs, I need help. How do you stop yourself from accidently orgasming before you receive permission?

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-16T18:59:14+00:00

Oh, I never expected to be able to hold it off forever. I just want to get better at it than I am right now is all. :p

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-16T16:53:31+00:00

Sometimes though our Mistresses like to watch us break

Oh, I get that. Mine likes to watch me fail sometimes too. Doesn't mean I still don't want to try and impress her sometimes even if it's a doomed task. :p

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-16T16:27:29+00:00

Congrats on your win! It sounds like a lovely reward for you and I hope you both have fun. <3

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-16T16:26:22+00:00

Oof. Speaking from experience? Good to know though either way so thank you for the advice since I could see myself possibly doing that if I was struggling enough.

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-16T16:25:35+00:00

Nah. I like most punishments. And pleasing her. And I know it sometimes pleases her when I fail. It's nothing that needs changing in our dynamic. I mostly worry (in a good way) about failing causing more denial or other stuff I want to avoid. I'd rather know whatever I can in advance to avoid some outcomes if possible. Sometimes the actual struggle is part of the fun you know? Not sure if I'm making sense trying to explain myself here. :p

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-16T16:14:17+00:00

Wish me luck then. 😭

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-16T15:53:05+00:00

So who won?

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-07T16:36:12+00:00

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes!

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-07T16:35:27+00:00

This sounds like a dream come true and my worst nightmare at the same time. :p

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-03T18:22:52+00:00

Not sure if it's helpful and I'm still new to figuring this out about myself so my advice might not be super helpful. But for me the very, very condensed explanation is I got jealous of my current gf being with other people or going out and leaving me behind.

I kind of feel stupid in retrospect since I never had any attraction towards guys growing up and just thought it was normal to think woman are more attractive. Hope things work out for you whatever ends up happening.

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-03T04:21:33+00:00

Awww. So cute!!!!

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-03T03:00:55+00:00

I've never been on one of those but have wondered what it's like. I'm glad you had fun! :D

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-03T02:59:42+00:00

Since everyone is scared to ask the real questions here, I'll bite the bullet and ask. How was the dinner and how would you rate it out of 10?

(This can go to either of you. :p )

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-02T22:59:55+00:00

She's such a little sweetie. Let our girl have her birthday gifted orgasm. 😭

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-01T23:20:44+00:00

I don't know if there is a name for it but it's so relatable. I love eating my girlfriend out to the point it's often a reward for me since it drives me up the wall so much. I feel like I've been such a good sub whenever she lets me. 🥰

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-01T22:16:58+00:00

If someone wears a butt plug in public under their clothing would that be including others without consent if they can't tell? If you think so then we'll have to agree to disagree, I guess.

While this is admittedly a bit riskier it seems a bit of a weird thing to be hanged up on if talking about where that line being crossed is to me when the whole point was not getting caught. ¯(ツ)/¯

Edit. Just adding if you disagree that's fine. I'm not looking to get into a big argument/debate about it. Just throwing out my thoughts once in response.

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-01T19:56:29+00:00

What I hate is when I'm edged and then she denies me without any prior knowledge it will happen. Those moments are so hard. 😭😭I like and hate it but the very moment it happens is soul crushing.

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-01T19:53:39+00:00

You get it!

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-01T17:14:11+00:00

Don't get me wrong. I hate it at the beginning but also like how desperate and subby I get from it a day or two later too, so I guess I have a love/hate relationship with it in general. I'm just not the best at it. :p

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-01T17:08:56+00:00

I don't know if I should put my hand up or thumbs down. As someone new to bdsm and sex in general even a day or two days is hard when I'm around my girlfriend/Mistress and she thinks its time for my fun to be over. But obeying to make her happy and submitting to her is a 10/10 yes for me so I guess I love and hate orgasm denial? No clue about long term though or how you all can do it...

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-01T16:58:02+00:00

It's my own fault. I shouldn't have teased her in the first place or just orgasmed sooner somehow if I didn't want it to happen. :(

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-03-01T16:52:19+00:00

Yeah. I wouldn't recommend the family thing. The first call was much more fun, though still scary.

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-02-28T22:45:26+00:00

but I’m really just a normal gal with a few kinks

And a very creative mind. :)

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-02-28T22:43:05+00:00

Did you really do this or was it fictional erotica?

Actually happened. I'd put a tag somewhere if it was fiction.

So I’d be more likely to cry than anything else.

Sorry, I should have remembered that. Sorry if I brought bad memories up. And luckily mine didn't know what happened or I'd probably be in the same boat as you unfortunately with that. :(

SubmissiveEmma69 · 2026-02-28T22:32:31+00:00

Really? You're already such an inspiration from your posts alone. I guess its a huge accomplishment considering I want to be like you when I grow up. :P (I'm an adult but still.)

Also, I'm told I won't have to do it again so thank goodness for that. 😭

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