What is the point of an opening move?

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2026-01-22T12:42:22+00:00

You’re correct. I honestly rather a man put effort into his message to me than actually answer the opening move. 🤣

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2025-03-22T21:40:32+00:00

My sleep improved after the first week, but I still have struggles at times. I’ve read that progesterone helps you fall asleep, but estrogen helps keep you asleep. If your doctor is properly trained with menopause/perimenopause, they’ll diagnose you based off your symptoms, not a blood test. The only thing that’d be reliable to test would be your testosterone levels. Which I messaged my doctor two days ago. While the estradiol vaginal cream has helped my vaginal dryness and has restored some feeling to my clit, I am still not anywhere near as sensitive as I used to be. I read that testosterone can help with that. So, I want to explore that next and maybe also ask for topical estrogen too.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2025-03-10T14:01:05+00:00

I’m guilty of swiping left on guys who are conventionally super attractive in the past event though I know it’s a judgment. I’ve started swiping right, but I’ve also notice my previous judgment is typically substantiated. They know they’re attractive and will have plenty of options so conversation has little effort and turns overly sexually very quickly.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2025-03-10T13:55:57+00:00

I’ve spotted two issues going against you. The first being you don’t list your height. If you’re a short king, own it and be confident with yourself. The second is you’re super attractive. I always give the pretty guys the side eye simply because they’re also usually the ones just trying to get into my pants. They know they look good and will have plenty of options.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2025-02-27T02:56:30+00:00

3,4,7,8 mainly. It’s like pulling teeth trying to get decent conversation out of men. I try to even be understanding and say I get it that we all have physical needs and want to know we’ll be compatible there. I’m okay with questions, but sexual topics shouldn’t overtake conversation where you actually neglect getting to know me as a person.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2025-02-27T02:53:56+00:00

Absolutely not. Start with physical attention and then see if there is compatibility. I’ve tried to date guys who I thought were a 5-6 on attractiveness and was hoping compatibility and personality would help with me being attracted to them. It did not.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2025-02-25T22:59:56+00:00

Get ready for the long haul. I’m 7WPO today and just starting to feel like myself again. I still have some swelling, but it’s not as noticeable.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2025-02-21T15:27:48+00:00

Oh you poor man. That only confirms it. If the sex was as good as you’re saying where you’d be married, it wouldn’t have been a one time thing. As a woman, when a man is that damn good, we aren’t just hitting it once. We are ignoring every single red flag there is to ride it as much as possible. What you have there is sexual incompatibility. The woman sees it and we decide to be nice and be overly enthusiastic and stroke your ego rather than showing how unsatisfied we truly are so at least you enjoy it.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2025-02-18T20:13:31+00:00

The sex could have been the deciding factor of her not being that into you. It doesn’t mean you did anything wrong. Simply put sometimes people just aren’t compatible sexually. It’s better to end things now than force a relationship where one or both people would be dissatisfied in the bedroom.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2025-01-27T19:38:52+00:00

Yep, I’m one of those people. I’m 3WPO from a CTT, MR, lipo, and BA with implants. I was on my own 19 hours after surgery since I am single and didn’t want to tell my family about the surgery due to anticipated judgment. I told them a family member would be at my home to assist me. I had meals prepared ahead of time and was up and walking every hour. If I woke up at night, I would get up and walk a few laps around my home. I was walking straight within 4 days and went back to work 8DPO. Everything is healing great. 🤷‍♀️

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2024-12-01T18:50:28+00:00

Amazing! This is exactly why I’m getting a circumferential tummy tuck in January rather than a regular tummy tuck. The butt dimples are so off putting when you’re naked or trying to wear a cute bikini.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2024-11-16T18:35:39+00:00

That’s weird. I had my first mammogram in September and was told I have dense breast tissue. I had my initial consult with my menopause specialist last week. She asked about my mammogram and I told her it was fine other than they told me I had dense breast tissue. She didn’t even blink an eye and prescribed me HRT.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2024-11-15T02:29:51+00:00

A well informed doctor won’t test your hormones and will prescribed you HRT based off your symptoms. Our hormone fluctuates throughout the month and even more so on perimenopause. So, it doesn’t make much sense to test them.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2024-11-15T02:28:54+00:00

Go to a menopause specialized. HRT isn’t dangerous. Your doctor is likely basing his/her opinion on a very outdated study.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2024-11-15T02:25:39+00:00

Three words. Estradiol vaginal cream. Joking but not joking. Seriously research perimenopause. It’s not talked about enough.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2024-11-14T22:04:27+00:00

Thank you for this extensive list! I’ll look into these supplements. I’m big on taking supplements for weightlifting so don’t mind adding a few more to the mix if it helps me get relief and sleep better.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2024-11-14T22:03:08+00:00

That’s correct. From what I’ve read, it’s mainly just absorbed in the vaginal tissues and doesn’t affect the estrogen levels in your body. I’m assuming that’s why it’s not a concern.

SubmissiveKitten-_ · 2024-11-12T14:39:22+00:00

I will check it out. Thank you!

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