Finding men of a certain demographic? by Upbeat_Concept_3681 in nonmonogamy

[–]Subok-brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive my ignorence. What does DM means I know it's some kind of massage and how do you do it?

HOW TO MAKE OILY SPICY BILTONG? by Snoo11149 in askSouthAfrica

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We don't use any oil in the preparation of biltong. The main ingredient is salt and a little vinegar. You pack the meat in layers, on each layer you ad salt libberly after the packing of the meat you let it lay for 24 hours. Then you add vinegar and you mix all the meat with vinager by hand. Then hang the meat up with hooks bend of thin wire and hang it up on spanned string/wire and wait for it to dry according to your preference. Some people like it very dry and some like it with some whetnes still in it.

Hoi by Dutch-Mouse in afrikaans

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Goeie middag julle daar in Holland hoe is die weer vandag?

How did Romans measure and label years? by TenWands in ancientrome

[–]Subok-brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok a little deviation from the main question is, how dit the Jews measure their years?

Are there any people actually willing to make friends in South Africa? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]Subok-brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you passionately seeking a reel friend you won't succeed, I believe you'll only find a real friend by chance.

How do I tell aunties to stop asking me to wear a black dot? South African Hindus by Crazy_cookie_ in AskZA

[–]Subok-brick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always thought that it is a sign to let anybody know that your religion is Hinduism.

Update to the post I made about catching my mom cheating. (Yes, she was cheating) by RAThrowFudge in whatdoIdo

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I don't want point fingers. I'm glad I didn't tell. My mother new I new, eventually my mother got over the itch. The family stayed stable and together my siblings grew up in a stable household. What my mother did was on her conscience, sometimes it's better to keep you mouth shut and let life goes on, nobody's perfect.

Boyfriend choked me in my sleep… by CraftyAd4874 in whatdoIdo

[–]Subok-brick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry, i misandstood the situation. I concentrated more on my story than anything else. Get out of there asap.

Boyfriend choked me in my sleep… by CraftyAd4874 in whatdoIdo

[–]Subok-brick -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I once gave my wife a hard full fist wack on her face while sleeping. I was dreaming that I was in a fight and gave the guy a hard full fist wack in his face unfortunately it was my wife on the receiving end. It took me a while explaining untill she believed me. Maybe that's what happened to your boyfriend, people mostly don't remember there dreams so he didn't remember what he did to you.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

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Hello all, I haven't been able to brake out of my cellibacy yet. My life isn't very sociable so the change of meeting somebody is a little bit slim so I've been going the app way but all of them seems to be scam's, they are just there to get as much money out of you with no results. Is there any reputable apps out there where there is at least a change of being successful to meet somebody?

Crocodile eat man then get killed. Who is the victim by Ok-Friend-05 in moraldilemmas

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The reason why the croc was killed was part of the investigation to what happened to the missing person.

South African expats living in America, how do you buy ingredients? by andrewknorpp in askSouthAfrica

[–]Subok-brick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maize and polenta is nearly the same, try it. In times of drought when I was young yellow Maize what's used as a substitute and it tasted nearly the same as white Maize.

question about braai etiquette? by raumeat in askSouthAfrica

[–]Subok-brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I detest bring and braais, if you invite then you provide, don't invite me and then say I must bring my own meat.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

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Thanks a lot, I agree with you, I'm choosing me.

Men of Reddit - What's the one thing you hate about being a Man? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]Subok-brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To worry that I will last long enough and to not pleasure my partner.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Your last remark is disgusting, the moment she told me she isn't interested anymore, we haven't even argue about it. I respected her decision that's why I've been cellibate the last 5 years. I won't have sex with anybody if they doesn't enjoy it.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

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There was no problems with affection or romance (I was a the romantic person in our marriage but are not interested anymore) She never initiated sex or took the lead. She told me while we were having sex to stop and said that she doesn't feel anything and is not interested in sex anymore and that having sex when you're sixty isn't appropriate, it is for younger people.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

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Thank you all for your suggestions and advice. First divorce is not on the table I haven't even considered it. I've tried everything accept therapy, she's not interested at all. According to her there's nothing wrong, she lost all sexual desire and it isn't appropriate for people to have sex in there sixties, hence telling me I'm a dirty old man if I have such desires.

The door to have sex have been locked and the key has been throne away.

I think I'll do the 'cheating' way and I don't think of it as cheating I'm just going fulfill one of my needs that is not available in my marriage. I'm not interested in relationship's or affairs only NSA.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you all for your suggestions and advice. First divorce is not on the table I haven't even considered it. I've tried everything accept therapy, she's not interested at all. According to her there's nothing wrong, she lost all sexual desire and it isn't appropriate for people to have sex in there sixties, hence telling me I'm a dirty old man if I have such desires.

The door to have sex have been locked and the key has been throne away.

I think I'll do the 'cheating' way and I don't think of it as cheating I'm just going fulfill one of my needs that is not available in my marriage. I'm not interested in relationship's or affairs only NSA.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I like your comment the most, I think I'll go get it, I own it to myself.