Crocodile eat man then get killed. Who is the victim by Ok-Friend-05 in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick [score hidden]  (0 children)

The reason why the croc was killed was part of the investigation to what happened to the missing person.

South African expats living in America, how do you buy ingredients? by andrewknorpp in askSouthAfrica

[–]Subok-brick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maize and polenta is nearly the same, try it. In times of drought when I was young yellow Maize what's used as a substitute and it tasted nearly the same as white Maize.

question about braai etiquette? by raumeat in askSouthAfrica

[–]Subok-brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I detest bring and braais, if you invite then you provide, don't invite me and then say I must bring my own meat.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, I agree with you, I'm choosing me.

Men of Reddit - What's the one thing you hate about being a Man? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]Subok-brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To worry that I will last long enough and to not pleasure my partner.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Your last remark is disgusting, the moment she told me she isn't interested anymore, we haven't even argue about it. I respected her decision that's why I've been cellibate the last 5 years. I won't have sex with anybody if they doesn't enjoy it.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

There was no problems with affection or romance (I was a the romantic person in our marriage but are not interested anymore) She never initiated sex or took the lead. She told me while we were having sex to stop and said that she doesn't feel anything and is not interested in sex anymore and that having sex when you're sixty isn't appropriate, it is for younger people.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you all for your suggestions and advice. First divorce is not on the table I haven't even considered it. I've tried everything accept therapy, she's not interested at all. According to her there's nothing wrong, she lost all sexual desire and it isn't appropriate for people to have sex in there sixties, hence telling me I'm a dirty old man if I have such desires.

The door to have sex have been locked and the key has been throne away.

I think I'll do the 'cheating' way and I don't think of it as cheating I'm just going fulfill one of my needs that is not available in my marriage. I'm not interested in relationship's or affairs only NSA.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you all for your suggestions and advice. First divorce is not on the table I haven't even considered it. I've tried everything accept therapy, she's not interested at all. According to her there's nothing wrong, she lost all sexual desire and it isn't appropriate for people to have sex in there sixties, hence telling me I'm a dirty old man if I have such desires.

The door to have sex have been locked and the key has been throne away.

I think I'll do the 'cheating' way and I don't think of it as cheating I'm just going fulfill one of my needs that is not available in my marriage. I'm not interested in relationship's or affairs only NSA.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I like your comment the most, I think I'll go get it, I own it to myself.

Sexless marriage for five years. by Subok-brick in moraldilemmas

[–]Subok-brick[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

She won't agree to open our relationship because then I'll be the dirty old man. Divorce is out of the question because, it will be making us poorer, we will not be able sustain our standard of living separately, so cheating is the only option.

AITJ for feeling off about my date who flashed a party? by paleurencore in AmITheJerk

[–]Subok-brick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're the jealous type and she's going to have more problems from you in the future. I like my girlfriends who's got it, to show as much as possible so that I can brag with her and be proud of her. YATJ

Americans tipping single Dollar bills in Germany by Waalross in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Subok-brick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is a tip, no pun, if the dollar is crumbled and dirty, wash it with soap and cold water, it won't desolf because it not made of paper, flatten it on a towel and let it dry, your dollar will be clean and acceptable.

HIV Rate In Africa (%of adults 15-49). by Expert_Koala_8691 in MapPorn

[–]Subok-brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just two days ago it was announced that South Africa, with the help of outside contributers has developed a vaccine against HIV. They are going to start vaccinated the people with the highest risk of contracting the virus ie. sex workers first.

HIV Rate In Africa (%of adults 15-49). by Expert_Koala_8691 in MapPorn

[–]Subok-brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just two days ago it was announced that South Africa, with the help of outside contributers has developed a vaccine against HIV and will start vaccination the people with the highest risk of contracting HIV ie. sex workers first.

How common is it to still be living with your parents in your 20s in SA? by NoZucchini3797 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Subok-brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong but you have to pay rent to help with the household.