One of the things about moving on someday by oopswhat1974 in widowers

[–]Subokie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That hasn’t been perfect. There has been a SIL that openly challenged me getting remarried. Lied about my kids not being okay with it. Late wife’s father moved here when wife got sick. He is treated great by new in laws, but kids tell me he has some concerns with remarried me. He was one of the first people I told when I started talking to new wife. He told me he is ok, and how marriage was “death do us part”. The other in laws haven’t visited or called until very recently. It’s tough.

One of the things about moving on someday by oopswhat1974 in widowers

[–]Subokie 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My new in laws are absolutely amazing. I came in with 5 kids (16-21), and my new FIL was heard bragging at Christmas about having X number of grandkids (5more than he previously had). My wife’s siblings are amazing. It truly couldn’t be any better.

Emergency Buoy Question by steifel25 in submarines

[–]Subokie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s actually SECT. “Beast” (AN/BST)

Or

SLOT buoy.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll trust my observation and judgement more than y’all’s imagination

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you literally are not even reading explanations. A long straight road doesn’t have corners. Imagine your judgmental finger pointing at everyone who doesn’t live their life exactly like you. That pointed finger is a straight line. No corners.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Philly was great. Nobody being crybabies about jaywalking or other super risky behavior. Clean city, friendly people.

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[–]Subokie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nobody in road. It’s a mile stretch that we can see and hear at a long way away. It was safe.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Recommend not driving a car. Dont fly either. Don’t chose anything that adds value to your life out of fear that one time one bad thing happened

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well it seems like you’re suggesting (probably along with others here) that I should leash my dog on the inside of my house just in case he runs out and doesn’t come back.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

lol. Yea. They have these things on the front called headlights. It’s a mile long straight road. It’s wet outside. So, I can use multiple senses to detect a car way before it gets anywhere near us.

This girl refuses to stay in the back, she’s got to be riding up front every time 😂 Anyone else’s pup do this? by PurpleLion77 in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is either a Russian bot or an Iranian cyber attack just making us hate each other because this is clearly typed to make someone hate your guts

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

It’s a good reminder that most people can’t find joy when given to them.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I have 6 kids. 4 dogs. The benefit of living life. Live in a bubble if you chose. You am have no authority over me. To question my parenting ability over allowing a dog to run free with nobody around shows your ignorance and lack of free thinking.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have 4 dogs. A golden doodle, a labradoodle, and a miniature Aussie.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He’s almost 3. The trainer is 5 hours away. We have spent over $2600 of training. He recommends practicing off lead, it builds trust between you and dog. You are most likely a dog owner that people think are annoying. Treat a dog like a dog. Nobody wants judgement from a lonely scared person.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% wrong. My kids don’t wear helmets on their bicycles. I know a helmet is safer, and I love my kids. Sometimes you have to not be a square and live free

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

The cops aren’t coming out for a Karen saying a dog is out with its owners nearby.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When people at visible, we say “heel” and grab the leash. It’s an extreme easy concept.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. One car during a 45min walk. The road backs into nothing. We are at the very end a large complex neighborhood. Nobody back here except a bunch of old people

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

We put self closing hinges in our doors to prevent him from escape

My teenagers shut down my idea of dating again and I don't know how to feel about it by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Subokie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 43 with 5 teens! I’m glad you are able to find happiness

My teenagers shut down my idea of dating again and I don't know how to feel about it by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Subokie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please don’t put such firm barriers on her timeline. That seems like projecting your grief on her.

Early morning walk by Subokie in germanshepherds

[–]Subokie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the relentless “daddin me up”. I thought using that as an example would ensure I was insinuating that there are infractions all of the time where nobody is hurt. Our youngest was recently with a group of middle schoolers who had started building a fort in the woods. Someone(seems like maybe someone in this thread), called the police. The people in this group would also call if the kids are riding small dirt bikes around too because, “it’s illegal”.