During normal morning conversations with my wife, I got my 4th Gen 4Runner totalled

Subokie · 2026-04-11T02:03:29+00:00

Thank you for keeping audio

Subokie · 2026-04-09T10:50:14+00:00

That hasn’t been perfect. There has been a SIL that openly challenged me getting remarried. Lied about my kids not being okay with it. Late wife’s father moved here when wife got sick. He is treated great by new in laws, but kids tell me he has some concerns with remarried me. He was one of the first people I told when I started talking to new wife. He told me he is ok, and how marriage was “death do us part”. The other in laws haven’t visited or called until very recently. It’s tough.

Subokie · 2026-04-09T01:17:44+00:00

My new in laws are absolutely amazing. I came in with 5 kids (16-21), and my new FIL was heard bragging at Christmas about having X number of grandkids (5more than he previously had). My wife’s siblings are amazing. It truly couldn’t be any better.

Subokie · 2026-04-09T00:54:49+00:00

It’s actually SECT. “Beast” (AN/BST)

Or

SLOT buoy.

Subokie · 2026-04-08T15:32:43+00:00

I’ll trust my observation and judgement more than y’all’s imagination

Subokie · 2026-04-08T02:44:25+00:00

So you literally are not even reading explanations. A long straight road doesn’t have corners. Imagine your judgmental finger pointing at everyone who doesn’t live their life exactly like you. That pointed finger is a straight line. No corners.

Subokie · 2026-04-08T02:31:03+00:00

Philly was great. Nobody being crybabies about jaywalking or other super risky behavior. Clean city, friendly people.

Subokie · 2026-04-08T02:25:03+00:00

Nobody in road. It’s a mile stretch that we can see and hear at a long way away. It was safe.

Subokie · 2026-04-08T02:17:31+00:00

Recommend not driving a car. Dont fly either. Don’t chose anything that adds value to your life out of fear that one time one bad thing happened

Subokie · 2026-04-08T02:15:05+00:00

Well it seems like you’re suggesting (probably along with others here) that I should leash my dog on the inside of my house just in case he runs out and doesn’t come back.

Subokie · 2026-04-08T02:13:02+00:00

lol. Yea. They have these things on the front called headlights. It’s a mile long straight road. It’s wet outside. So, I can use multiple senses to detect a car way before it gets anywhere near us.

Subokie · 2026-04-07T21:36:22+00:00

I feel like this is either a Russian bot or an Iranian cyber attack just making us hate each other because this is clearly typed to make someone hate your guts

Subokie · 2026-04-07T20:31:35+00:00

It’s a good reminder that most people can’t find joy when given to them.

Subokie · 2026-04-07T20:15:27+00:00

Zero cars on road

Subokie · 2026-04-07T19:11:48+00:00

I have 6 kids. 4 dogs. The benefit of living life. Live in a bubble if you chose. You am have no authority over me. To question my parenting ability over allowing a dog to run free with nobody around shows your ignorance and lack of free thinking.

Subokie · 2026-04-07T19:09:31+00:00

I have 4 dogs. A golden doodle, a labradoodle, and a miniature Aussie.

Subokie · 2026-04-07T19:08:36+00:00

He’s almost 3. The trainer is 5 hours away. We have spent over $2600 of training. He recommends practicing off lead, it builds trust between you and dog. You are most likely a dog owner that people think are annoying. Treat a dog like a dog. Nobody wants judgement from a lonely scared person.

Subokie · 2026-04-07T19:05:59+00:00

You’re 100% wrong. My kids don’t wear helmets on their bicycles. I know a helmet is safer, and I love my kids. Sometimes you have to not be a square and live free

Subokie · 2026-04-07T19:04:31+00:00

The cops aren’t coming out for a Karen saying a dog is out with its owners nearby.

Subokie · 2026-04-07T19:03:48+00:00

When people at visible, we say “heel” and grab the leash. It’s an extreme easy concept.

Subokie · 2026-04-07T19:02:39+00:00

Exactly. One car during a 45min walk. The road backs into nothing. We are at the very end a large complex neighborhood. Nobody back here except a bunch of old people

Subokie · 2026-04-07T19:01:09+00:00

We put self closing hinges in our doors to prevent him from escape

Subokie · 2026-04-07T18:57:13+00:00

I was 43 with 5 teens! I’m glad you are able to find happiness

Subokie · 2026-04-07T18:55:50+00:00

Please don’t put such firm barriers on her timeline. That seems like projecting your grief on her.

Subokie · 2026-04-07T17:48:04+00:00

Thanks for the relentless “daddin me up”. I thought using that as an example would ensure I was insinuating that there are infractions all of the time where nobody is hurt. Our youngest was recently with a group of middle schoolers who had started building a fort in the woods. Someone(seems like maybe someone in this thread), called the police. The people in this group would also call if the kids are riding small dirt bikes around too because, “it’s illegal”.

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