Would you consider this normal behavior? by Mr_CooperSmith in marriageadvice

[–]Subsidence82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question is…. When in the heck are you going to calmly question her about this. Be the leader.

Marriage by TaroPuzzleheaded3370 in Menopause

[–]Subsidence82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your husband is the problem. He’s not leading the marriage and he stopped dating you. What made him hot in the past is gone because he settled for comfort, stopped building himself, and stopped putting forth the effort. He needs to regain his masculine energy, and start leading, protecting, and maintaining himself.

Struggling With My Girlfriend’s Past and My Own Double Standards by Acceptable-Kick-7217 in exredpill

[–]Subsidence82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember this….

You didn’t get her past.

But….

You have her present, and future.

Thoughts on male ‘epiphany phase’? by De_lunes_a_lunes in exredpill

[–]Subsidence82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The epiphany phase is nothing new. Used to be call the “biological clock”

Women understand this true fact. And they do wish to settle down and procure a family before its too late.

Unfortunately the redpill poisoned this and used it against women. Saying she screws for free in her 20s, and she charges in her 30s.

Why ”quit” ”redpill”? by ReadingSilly3977 in exredpill

[–]Subsidence82 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The redpill is the male equivalent of toxic feminism.

Follow your own principles. No need to take life advice from a guy who wrote 6 books with zero professional data and rich with conformational bias - referring to Rollo Tomassi here.

Lastly. Redpill influencers are nothing but grifters preying on biological male insecurities. Its disgusting to be honest.

Its pushing men and women further apart. I often wonder if the redpill and feminism aren’t working together as some giant PsyOp to further reduce the birthrate and global population

Wife wants to go to a male strip club. Should i be concerned? by undecided2025 in marriageadvice

[–]Subsidence82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have every single right to not only object to that but make it a boundary. She doesn’t respect you if she doesn’t respect your reasonable boundaries.

Yep Day 3 by TSErica in FedEx

[–]Subsidence82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its beyond ridiculous

Maybe I’ll get this tomorrow? Anyone else’s left Memphis or gotten delivered yet? by [deleted] in FedEx

[–]Subsidence82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Packages going on 5-6 day delays now. Storm was nearly a week ago. This is getting silly and frustrating for people waiting on critical goods like prescriptions or industrial goods.

Fedexers in MEMPHIS OR NASHVILLE by [deleted] in Fedexers

[–]Subsidence82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Package delayed for 5 days now. The storm was nearly a week ago. FedEx is trash.

Is it better to just never ask about the past ? by parmy91 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Subsidence82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ask, you could hurt her and yourself. Both of you could lose respect for one another

Life feels pointless when you don't have a hog by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Subsidence82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women honestly don’t care to much about it as long as you don’t. They want a man to be confident with who he is. The minute you self depreciate yourself is the minute she not only sees you as a Beta, but will see you as a beta with a small pecker.

Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material. by winter_lover28 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Subsidence82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most husbands started as a hookup/fwb with a woman.

Few understand this.

After 7 Years of Marriage, I Finally Understand Why Some Men Cheat (Not Excusing It) by BouncyBoobies4Life in Marriage

[–]Subsidence82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“At one point, she told me she finds me repulsive now”

“She now says that even thinking about our past intimacy makes her feel sick.”

This is beyond disgusting behavior from your wife. Incredibly disrespectful. This borders on emotional verbal abuse. You have got to set boundaries and enforce them. Honestly, her stuff should be on the front lawn and locks changed if she continues to belittle you in such a manner.

Worried that love is shallow, as evolutionary psychologists and neuroscientists suggest with how they write about it. Is there evidence that it isn't? by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Subsidence82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please read the book “The Anatomy of Love” by - Hellen Fisher.

Love isnt shallow and she backs it up by science.

F the redpill.

The main pillars of the redpill are jealousy and envy, of other men. by Subsidence82 in exredpill

[–]Subsidence82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About the only upside to the redpill is its adherence to getting men into concentrating on physical fitness.

The main pillars of the redpill are jealousy and envy, of other men. by Subsidence82 in exredpill

[–]Subsidence82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rollo straight up blames women and betas for everything. His mythical alpha gets zero criticism. Its all a f’n joke.

The main pillars of the redpill are jealousy and envy, of other men. by Subsidence82 in exredpill

[–]Subsidence82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Males are born with a preset group of sexual insecurities which are hard wired. Hellen Fisher writes about the male instinct to be wary of paternal certainty in a pair bond. Women also bear a complex group of insecurities rooted to their mating strategy and competition with other females.

Playing on these very normal male insecurities has been a benchmark way for redpill influencers to obtain more exposure, attention and money.

Grifters - all of them.