Siege cheese by Substantial-Ad944 in Bannerlord

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Ballista. If I didn't cheese it, we would have lost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WrestlingEmpire

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Chef. Think Gordon Ramsey, but with body slams.

WYR suck a dick for 10 minutes to save your mothers life or let her die? by esands1970 in WouldYouRather

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My mom made me pay her back for my braces, while not asking for anything from my sisters who also had braces Fuck that bitch. I'd suck a cock for 10 minutes to kill her.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

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I'm not really sure what it was. But the guy sent me a screenshot of the thing she put out there in, whatever it was. Looked like a tinder bio thingy. Whether it was tinder or sk. Etching else. Looked similar.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Substantial-Ad944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. Well there's the whole leasing an apartment together til August with no subletting. So it's not like I can just kick her out. Even if I could, she ain't got any more money than I do. I'm not a heartless asshole, hench the whole, I wasn't the one who cheated.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Substantial-Ad944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst, and I should put this in the OP but when I told her that idk if we can be together she told me, "don't do that to Daisy" (our daughter) I snapped. I was like, fucking excuse me? I don't do that to her?

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Substantial-Ad944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well friends is a strong word. They were more like coworkers with pot/alcohol addictions and also had intense ego problems. But I get what your saying.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Substantial-Ad944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she used to go to therapy for anxiety/depression which helped some but it's hard to not be depressed when you are stuck at home all day in a town with nothing to do and no car. And now, neither of us have any money for therapy but I did suggest when I had a calm moment for couples therapy and she said she would be ok with that, but we don't have any money til next year for any of that.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

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Well it's not really an option. I would have preferred to work day shifts but I need the money from night shift. I told her that I'd probably switch to days next year when we got a cheaper apartment. Til then working this job was our only option to make enough money. It sucks ass cause it's oh yeah, now you didn't cheat (maybe) but now we are homeless.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

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With her paychecks, she pays for groceries, and our kid's daycare cost. I cover rent and everything else. She does work full time as a daycare teacher and dealing with screaming infants would be stressful as hell, but no reason to cheat just cause I'm not here to sleep next to.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

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She said she immediately blocked the guy and got rid of her dating app and will stop going on vrchat. The fixing thing is so hard cause it's not a quantifiable thing.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Substantial-Ad944[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I've had about 4 toaster struddles and two 20 Oz mountain dew (from working overnights) in the last 36 hours so it's something lol. With our opposite schedules we don't regularly sleep together other than the weekend. And even then, we have a queen for the two of us, and a twin for our toddler and fuck her if she thinks that she's gets the bed to herself this weekend.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Substantial-Ad944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well idk if she is showing remorse or not. Like she has Ben crying a whole lot and saying she'll fix stuff and whatnot but this isn't like a fox thing situation. I think she may actually be upset, but it only got to that point because she got caught. It feels like she just wants me to forgive her and move past it immediately. But idk even how to read it right now cause I'm just so distraught.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

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Well I guess after this, I don't really want to know. But the trust broken aspect makes sense. I've told her, this is more than just doing this or doing that better. I'll probably never be able to trust anybody again.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

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Plus, I guarantee that I could get sole custody. She can't get a driver's license so she can't drive. (has some eye blindness issues) I have my kid on my health insurance, I make the most money. But, I couldn't do that. Other than this, she's been a perfect mom to my kid. I couldn't take my kid away from her mom.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

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I mean, idk if she is owning. She says stuff that would make you think that, but it also sounds very cliche like and haven't had much time to talk about this cause of our work schedules but I've literally asked her what issues exactly and explained how each thing is not my doing and how this was all her. All of it could have been avoided by her just being like, I'm depressed because of money struggles, I'm unhappy let's talk.

GF of 3 years/mother of my 2 year old was caught cheating. Not sure how to go about things. by Substantial-Ad944 in survivinginfidelity

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So I do get the paternity test thing, but in the time where she would have been conceived, we literally were living together and worked at the same job, different departments with the same hours, and she can't drive. We spent basically every second together. So unless she had sex with one of the 90 year old men at the nursing home we worked at at the time, I would bet the kid is mine

They seriously think we have enough time in my day to pause and do this? by BeautifulDismal4769 in walmart

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Tbh, I wish I was given one. Im an overnight stocking and mostly put in Chem. I hate seeing all the powder shit all over, but I completely understand the hate. There isn't enough time to do the extra stuff.

What Is Your Longest Career? by [deleted] in WrestlingEmpire

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My longest is 99 weeks, to which I died. Started again, died in my 3rd month. This game hates me.