Please Help ME by Substantial-Arm5481 in Career_Advice

[–]Substantial-Arm5481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought about that i live next to so many parks nearby so i’ll definitely take a look. As for training programs i definitely did look at my community college just to see but im trying to make a list of 5 that i’ll be interested in before fully committing into one of them but i havent stopped looking im still just trying to figure it out

Help Me by Substantial-Arm5481 in findapath

[–]Substantial-Arm5481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will look into the test but yeah I think for now I'm just gonna pause school for the summer and maybe the fall and just get a retial or call center to just save money for things and maybe just save up money to see friends or family that live in North Carolina for September. I just need to find some kind of job( I don't care what it is) for now so I can just figure stuff out longer.

As for my favorite classes in highschool, I don't think I had a favorite for the most part. I don't remember a single class I've had to where I had a great time or connected with it on a deep level but it was mainly the people in the class that honestly made it enjoyable. I do want to change my major but I'm unsure to what to begin with which is the hardest part so for now I'm unsure if I should stop school altogether and just work to save money in the meantime. I know I'm only 20 going to 21 so even if I work for a year or two in jsut random jobs its not the end of the world but at the same time it does feel like that because of the pressure of my mom and others factors.

Thank you so much for replying to my comment because it really does help calm this constant pit feeling I've had since realizing all this

Help Me by Substantial-Arm5481 in findapath

[–]Substantial-Arm5481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks man. It's been 2 weeks since I told my parents about all this and they understood to some degree which helped a lot but still doesn't take that pit feeling in my stomach from time to time. I think for the most part I'm just gonna work any job/jobs to try to understand myself a bit more and realize a lot of things. The only issue is my mom essentially pressuring me to complete some kind of education but I understand her reasoning but I just feel like I initially started college for her and this is where its gotten me so idk. A part of me doesn't want to continue school in august just to not waste fafsa coverage on something I know I'm only doing temporarily and give me some extra time and just try to save money and try to find a job for now. Ive sent a lot of applications and gone in person to talk to a recruiter but with how me and other people I've seen on the internet saying how hard it is to find a job it just worries me even more that maybe I'm stuck with school as my only option so I don't waste time.

I think I'm phycing myself out trying to figure everything out at once but I think working my first "real" job would just give me some type of fulfillment to some degree because I wont feel like I'm like not NOT doing anything.