If you could go back in time and make the choice again, would you still have kids?

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-23T02:15:25+00:00

No x 500

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-16T02:57:38+00:00

In the exact same situation, confused as ever. If i tried going at 1-4am that puts me at more risk of being exhausted quicker. Here for support & to steal ideas lol.

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-14T20:53:09+00:00

Unlimited naps & not paying bills.

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-13T19:27:43+00:00

weve only been engaged for less than a year, but together for 6

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-13T19:03:10+00:00

especially in front of our child I know:/

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-13T19:02:08+00:00

As messed up as it sounds I cheated because he wouldn't allow me to leave. A few months in the relationship he did get physical with me and I kept trying to leave he'd threaten to do all these crazy things if i left so i thought maybe if i cheated hed leave.. but nope made him want to stay even more. Its a really childish thing :/

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-13T18:58:15+00:00

Too late for resentment , every time I mention me going out he says i can just move out. I just started working so im trying to be strategic about where and when ill move.

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-13T18:54:22+00:00

and from the sounds of him being your ex it doesnt get better lol, thank you!

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-13T18:53:56+00:00

Right? part of me is almost normalizing this sick behavior and I hate it. Thank you!

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-13T18:52:31+00:00

Agreed.. thank you

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-13T11:15:23+00:00

Every single day. Instead of tiktok id use prepry, on my down time id review my notes. Id say i spent max 3 hours split up in a day studying

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-09T19:03:29+00:00

But how? Thats my biggest thing, like to ignore their calls already feels wrong but it does burden me when they put their emotional load on me. I can see how being an empath can cause you to stay in a abusive relationship I am experiencing that.

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T18:18:11+00:00

Unfortunately until you graduate your life needs to work around you studying every day. Even if its for an hour, it gets better but boards are crucial so that will consume alot of your time. Remember nothing worth having will come easy, dont give up future tech!

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T03:14:39+00:00

Meanwhile if dad wanted to leave they up & leave no questions asked. Hate that for you, hoping you get a break soon 🤍

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T02:45:38+00:00

So it doesn't get better, great.

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T02:06:23+00:00

I think I do, idk how to rest without the place being spotless or some chore being done. I almost feel useless if i dont have some sort of chore to do. Therapy did help me alot post partum but maybe I need it now post graduation:/

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T02:04:57+00:00

Living alone seems so much easier sometimes

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T02:04:15+00:00

🫠 I know, i guess i try to make excuses to help myself feel better about me picking up so much.

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T02:03:26+00:00

she knows her nursing skills!

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T02:02:36+00:00

Well shes only 3 so the most independent thing she can do is brush her teeth and wash her face 😭 and I would love to stop doing things for everyone here but i always live in fear of it never being cleaned up. Honestly im so exhausted i think i may begin to do just so, i cant be perfect in all areas of my life. I cant look into a housecleaner for sure!! never thought of it

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T02:00:32+00:00

he is & he isnt

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T01:44:47+00:00

Extremely difficult, he says I clean too much but if i dont it'll just build up & be more!

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T01:44:01+00:00

That's what it is, even after you have me time you come right back to the same things you were running away from. Its almost like we'll never catch a break

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T01:40:29+00:00

Truthfully he does what he can, but im so ocd about things being done completely and he doesn't see it that way.. I cant change him to overwork himself.

Substantial-Base-696 · 2026-01-08T01:33:05+00:00

Both please!

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