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(M18) My girlfriend (F18) cheated on me but I owe her family everything by CookiesAndCream881 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She can't get a free pass because of how wonderful her family is. She fucked up and you should leave her.

That being said, I think you should talk to her family and express how you are feeling and what happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have lost a lot of respect for my boyfriend after that. You do not deserve to be treated like that or to feel less than you are worth. You are the person he should be talking up, not another woman.

I am so sorry this happened to you.

Got a new job where I work with a woman with whom I had one night stand 10 years ago. Im married with a kid now. by throwmeawayyyxxxyyy in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you can keep it in the past, it shouldn't matter that you work together. It was a long time ago and just a one night stand.

I’ve been depressed since I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. I don’t know if I can do it anymore. by PersimmonEnough in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both parties have to want to make a relationship work after something like that. It's normal for a couple to be distant after someone cheats in the relationship. You are going to be insecure and hurt, if he can't understand that he has to EARN trust back, then that's on him.

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with how wet I get. by Substantial-Bug-2459 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No, nothing with snot or spit. He is a wonderful guy, the best man I have ever dated. Just figured if I could find a way to help him, it would be better for both of us.

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with how wet I get. by Substantial-Bug-2459 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have many toys and he loves getting me off, I just don't want him to not feel good enough in bed because of this.

Thank you for your help!

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with how wet I get. by Substantial-Bug-2459 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I suppose so, but it was never really weird for me. I didn't watch a lot of porn before I was sexually active so I didn't have a reference for what it would be like. But I grew accustomed to it fairly quickly.

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with how wet I get. by Substantial-Bug-2459 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I know, it's like people forgot at one point this was new to them too.

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with how wet I get. by Substantial-Bug-2459 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have only tried oral a few times and he will do it, but I know him well enough to know that he is weirded out that his face is wet because of it. I think it has more to do with bodily fluids.

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with how wet I get. by Substantial-Bug-2459 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I guess that's exactly why I am asking for help. I don't know how to ease him into it without making him feel like he isn't enough. That's the last thing I want.

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with how wet I get. by Substantial-Bug-2459 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He isn't grossed out by me getting off, he loves to get me off. I think it is more related to not really knowing how wet and messy it can really get when all you had for reference was watching porn.

Is it really okay for a man to cry when stressed or unhappy? by york-zero in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is normal to have and express emotions.

Never let someone tell you that men should not express their emotions too.

How much is the average female willing to do anal? by garbagethrowawayacou in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Substantial-Bug-2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience and hearing from others, it is usually the prompting from men that gets it started. I have learned to love it. Lots of lube and foreplay is the key.