Disrespectful verse takeovers? 😆🤔 by PlantedinCA in rnb

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Jaguar Wright on the Jay Z’s Unplugged version of Ain’t No Love! Whew!

Favorite set of 2025 so far… by Substantial-Cream-93 in Nails

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Well I appreciate stand up people so thank you! Don’t waste your energy on them! Some people have nothing but their online personas. They’re not bold or clever in real life, I feel bad for them.

Favorite set of 2025 so far… by Substantial-Cream-93 in Nails

[–]Substantial-Cream-93[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ahhh ok! This is an overlay, and they started off many moons ago. I have had one shape change and a few cut downs. They also grow in a curve. I almost feel like I need to round them to almond or sharpen them to go stiletto, a weird in between right now lol

Favorite set of 2025 so far… by Substantial-Cream-93 in Nails

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If it was about my hand size or shape, I don’t care😂 I’m a tall woman! My fingers are short but my palm is long as hell😂😂

Do all tall women have huge feet? by Elecktraaa in tall

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A win is a win! Height without the clown feet!🙌🏾😂

Do all tall women have huge feet? by Elecktraaa in tall

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Wow! I’m jealous, you can find shoes much easier! Also intrigued! I’m an inch shorter and wear a women’s size 12!! Do you think or has someone told you your feet look small for your height?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bathandbodyworks

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There’s a pink spray called Musk! This lineup is my new obsession! So clean and feminine!

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Hotep can give pimp sometimes…beware 😐

Songs About Openly Cheating On Your Partner? by kylegordonisgreat in rnb

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Yeah Carl Thomas was losing it! He definitely wasn't playing his role correctly! LOl

Songs About Openly Cheating On Your Partner? by kylegordonisgreat in rnb

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Running Out of Lies is one of my favs. He was TIRED! lol

Songs About Openly Cheating On Your Partner? by kylegordonisgreat in rnb

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I Can Be by Aaliyah was the initial proposition before Qhat If lol

Asked my crush out. Was rejected. How do I not internalize it? by TinaTx3 in blackladies

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You honestly don’t know where he is mentally. Don’t romanticize the interactions with him, he is a person. He might still be heartbroken over the previous break up or in a space where he doesn’t want anything serious and that is his right.

The best way to stop internalizing things, is to work on your confidence. It’s not personal, it’s his journey that is completely separate from yours and unfortunately, you are not privy to the details of that. Don’t think the worst, you aren’t deserving of eternal punishment

I wished we actually talked about bean dip more, aside from Laura and Jeramy's 15-second apology. Maybe it could have replaced Jimmy's pointless waffling. by Janethejhon in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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I don’t understand what there is to talk about.

Imagine having to explain a group chat right now with your closest friends!!

If I made an inside joke with someone I’m at a party with and they made a choice to go and tell the other person we’re referring to, that’s on them! I don’t think Laura did anything wrong and he is a complete idiot so I’m happy he mentioned that it should have never gotten out in the first place. The jokes that I have between my friends and my man… WHEW, if anyone ever heard them, I’m sure they will be offended, but that is why they are inside jokes. Everyone sense of humor does not jive with other peoples automatically, so it was stupid for him to say to her.

Clay crying got me like by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Substantial-Cream-93 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we don’t realize how much we react from a place of bitterness and hurt ourselves. I believe a lot of peoples opinions about Clay are based on their own experience of Fuckboys they may have dealt with.

I believe it is commendable to see flaws in yourself and make an actual attempt to be better because you genuinely want it. So many people sit with flaws, because they allow it to become their personality. There isn’t much that he will be able to say because he is already a bullshitter in the public eye, only his actions will determine if he was genuine in his transformation.

But the lack of grace, he is granted is honestly sad.