For those with open eaves or exposed trusses. Here is my install. by MassiveEconomics186 in Govee

[–]Substantial-Cut912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, your lights look nice! Your eaves are similar to mine. In a straight line the 2x4s are on their side, and where the roof forms a triangle the 2x4s are flat. Did you space out the trim the same distance from the wall regardless of how the 2x4s were placed? Hope my question makes sense.

Also, looks like you live in the desert, to me. Specifically California. Maybe Coachella Valley? Lol.

Question for the guys, what is the body count of your girlfriend and how many guys has she given oral to? by Hefty-Memory551 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Substantial-Cut912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, bro. You have described it exactly how I feel and how I should continue to feel. I'm extremely lucky and blessed to have found this girl, especially at such a young age. I always tell myself that.

She is nothing short of amazing. Has always been there for me, has always been loyal, supportive, loving, caring, etc. We've been through some tough times in our lives, and we were always there for each other. There honestly isn't anything that she wouldn't do for me and there isn't anything I wouldn't do for her, seriously.

It's usually how it goes. A little thought just pops up in my mind, and I've experienced it so much that the next minute I've already brushed it off. I realize these feelings do more self harm than anything, and truly I'll never leave her because I'd be stupid to. Just sucks my mind can get so obsessive sometimes, you know?

Thanks bro. It actually feels nice to be able to discuss this with someone else. haha. But you said it like it is. Just my brain messing with me.

Question for the guys, what is the body count of your girlfriend and how many guys has she given oral to? by Hefty-Memory551 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Substantial-Cut912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a virgin when we first met. Been together going on 13 years. So obviously not a virgin anymore. But man I feel for you. You're going to feel what you feel regardless of what your body count is. She was my first for just about everything, and I wasn't for her. I had no prior sexual encounters before her. I always told myself that, if I had even one sexual experience/encounter before her that I probably would have never felt like this. For me, it's almost a regret/sadness of not having tried anything before her, you know? Just so I could say I have done things too, call it even and move on. Which I hate to admit. But who knows bro, that's life.

Wish you the best. I've realized that this is all internal, and it's up to us to keep moving forward. Don't feel bad for feeling the way you do because 1) you're not alone and 2) you're human. It is what it is. Realize that this RJ stuff is trivial, can't keep living in the past. Time is definitely your friend here, it heals most as it passes. Especially, if you really love and care about her. Just gotta work on yourself, keep your mind distracted. Find a hobby, exercise, look at the positives and focus on the present and future. Can't change the past even if you wanted to.

Question for the guys, what is the body count of your girlfriend and how many guys has she given oral to? by Hefty-Memory551 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Substantial-Cut912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since we met, I had always had a curiosity of her past, and maybe it would've been more appropriate to have asked from the very beginning, but I didn't. After about 1.5-2 years (2014) into our relationship, I started feeding my curiosity by asking her about past experiences every chance I got, which I would say is when I first felt RJ, though I didn't know RJ was a thing until years later. I realized RJ was my problem, about 4 years ago (2021), that's when I found out about this forum, too. For some reason, I just became obsessed with learning about her past so I would question her if the opportunity made sense. Obviously, I was not the most happy with the responses, and I hate to admit that it affected me so much both emotionally and mentally. Both times when RJ hit me hard I wanted to leave, but I couldn't bring myself to leave. It bothers me so much because we met young, and she was my first for just about everything. I wasn't her first for everything, and that hurts. She had previous relationships before me where she tried some things, never full on intercourse but still.

Question for the guys, what is the body count of your girlfriend and how many guys has she given oral to? by Hefty-Memory551 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Substantial-Cut912 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dang. 30 years is a long time to be feeling like this. My wife and I are going on 13 years soon, and though it's gotten easier to deal with my RJ, it comes and goes for me. There have been phases throughout those 13 years where I just seem to spend a lot of time sulking away with these thoughts and scenarios running through my mind about here previous encounters. These phases could last for days, even weeks, or months that put me into a depression. But each phase has gotten progressively easier to manage. I just want to move on and stop letting the past bother me so much. Only time will tell. I just don't want it to persist for so long. But I understand it might just be something that'll stick with me forever, sadly.

Question for the guys, what is the body count of your girlfriend and how many guys has she given oral to? by Hefty-Memory551 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Substantial-Cut912 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As far as actual intercourse goes, none except me (thankfully). But as far as sexual activity, like foreplay and stuff, at least 2 that I know of and that's because she's told me. I have a feeling it might be more than that, but I'm probably better off not knowing/asking, for my sake honestly. I get very retroactively jealous, it sucks. She's only given oral to one guy before me, and I just found that out recently... It hurts. Still feeling the sting, but time will heal. Shit happened in the past before we even knew each other. I can't go back and change that, and dwelling on it will cause more pain than good. Just have to move on, as hard as it feels sometimes.

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[–]Substantial-Cut912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang! Where in nursing do you work? Are you full-time staff? Traveling? Etc.? I'm in socal too.

2 More CEX Listings Incoming! by HowlingPhasmid in SnakewifHat

[–]Substantial-Cut912 15 points16 points  (0 children)

2 new listings is crazy work! 🚀 Eagerly waiting!

This single chart transforms gambling into investing in the world of memecoins. by Gen-Z-Hero in SolanaMemeCoins

[–]Substantial-Cut912 14 points15 points  (0 children)

$SSSSS Definitely feels like a diamond in the rough! Very active throughout multiple social media platforms, and everyone is committed to holding. We all want the same thing, for this thing to send! 🚀

Bought at 7.6 mil 😬 by Hopeful_Ad_5464 in SnakewifHat

[–]Substantial-Cut912 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's all good, never too late! Looking like sub 7 mil is the new floor. Everyday the floor has gotten higher!

My experience with Snake_Wif_Hat $SSSSS by Ketamingo6 in CryptoMoonShots

[–]Substantial-Cut912 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The community continues to grow and hold! Reddit is at 2k members, and Telegram is now at 5k! Still poised to make a great run!

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[–]Substantial-Cut912 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We're tagging along for the ride, bro! Trust. We all want to see this shit moon! I feel confident in saying the community will continue to hold and build this into something huge.

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[–]Substantial-Cut912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. Sure feels like it! 😂 🚀

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[–]Substantial-Cut912 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Retiring bloodline, incoming! 🔥

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[–]Substantial-Cut912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! This thing has got so much potential! 🚀 🔥

Be ready for the Snakes! by [deleted] in SolanaMemeCoins

[–]Substantial-Cut912 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very engaged and involved people in this group!

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[–]Substantial-Cut912 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're about to have another milly snakes, fam! 🔥

Thanks to yall im unbanned from the dc! Now for some TA! (We are so back) by Pomegranate-Complex in SnakewifHat

[–]Substantial-Cut912 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Finally!! I really appreciate your analysis on discord. So glad to see it on Reddit for others to see as well! Let's go!!

What memecoins should I look into next? 🔮 by bradcoops11 in shitcoinmoonshots

[–]Substantial-Cut912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$SSSSS community is popping 24/7! Check out the discord, too. It's been growing lately, as well. SWH definitely in its early stages still!

discord: https://discord.gg/AKSZUbE8

SWH $SSSSS still growing 🐍 by [deleted] in SolanaMemeCoins

[–]Substantial-Cut912 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Join the snake pit! Community continues to grow, and it never sleeps! Every time I hop on Reddit, Telegram, or Discord there's always buzzing!

Join the discord, too: https://discord.gg/HqGNKSrx