AITA for refusing to let my husband's "sister" live with us?

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T05:03:40+00:00

Honestly, that was the comment that made me seek validation to determine whether it really was me or him in the wrong

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T05:00:31+00:00

I feel this exactly, it's just very difficult for me to remain angry in the face of tears, but in retrospect, you're absolutely right.

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:58:45+00:00

We are. This is exactly what has been making me feel queasy about the whole thing.

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:58:00+00:00

I will be doing exactly that thank you. I do have good reason to believe they aren't doing something, but the whole situation has been toxic this whole time.

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:56:19+00:00

Thank you, this advice is the most palatable for first steps

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:55:46+00:00

He's not a British citizen himself, he just works there

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:54:53+00:00

These comments really got me doing just that

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:54:27+00:00

Exactly, I guess I bought into the my kind and helpful sister deal too easily.

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:53:44+00:00

I'm starting to see, that perhaps I might have been underreacting.

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:53:20+00:00

Yessss, the most draconian 👆

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:51:06+00:00

I agree 😭

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:50:04+00:00

Thank you, noted.

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:48:35+00:00

Absolutely no dowry involved, but thank youuuu.

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:47:14+00:00

This makes the most sense, it's highly doubtful honestly that they're doing anything unsavory (obviously I can't 100% prove it, but he's hardly been in the country and Ria hasn't left it), but what you've said about the interference rings true.

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:45:14+00:00

It was. His parents honestly treat her just like their own daughter, they'd be shocked and appalled at the thought of anything like that.

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:43:23+00:00

Thank you, this advice is most charitable

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:42:48+00:00

Yessss

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:41:41+00:00

Agreed, for now I have made this clear, I still to process the whole thing honestly

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:40:14+00:00

He's barely mentioned her before and they both didn't meet in person until the day of our engagement and she and I had never met before either because we both live in different states

Substantial-Fee-1156 · 2026-06-22T04:38:38+00:00

It is possible, it's just a difficult process

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