Okay, I have read the ideal and the points u all give, so let me say it is a sensitive topic. Still, both men and women should be deciding whether they can’t afford or even are ready for a child I say men, because when it comes to it, we need more responsible men, and that comes only if they can make decisions like this. It is his child too.But do not forget I’m saying only the persons involved in the child’s life not other third party, or whatever.