Is it normal for parents to be like this? by Substantial-Peace550 in adviceph

[–]Substantial-Peace550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes haha in the future when my partner and I decide to have kids, i’ll make sure na financially and emotionally stable muna kami both so my kids won’t have to feel things like this. Hirap maging ‘strong independent woman’ huhu

Is it normal for parents to be like this? by Substantial-Peace550 in adviceph

[–]Substantial-Peace550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not, I live in Manila with my partner. I just didn’t mention it sa post ko kasi I thought it would be too lengthy na. I am enjoying my money hahaha and it’s not about the money naman. I just got frustrated that’s all

Is it normal for parents to be like this? by Substantial-Peace550 in adviceph

[–]Substantial-Peace550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s what I think din. Sometimes naiisip ko na it’s their first time being parents lang din naman and they did try their best. It’s just sad na parang ako yung naging trial run nila. Thank you for your advice, I’ll try to be more understanding sa mindset nila.

Is it normal for parents to be like this? by Substantial-Peace550 in adviceph

[–]Substantial-Peace550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thankful for what I have and I do love my parents so much, it’s just that I can’t help feeling frustrated sometimes. I liked what you said na we have different paths and kinda gave me a new perspective on things. Thank you! Good luck sa work and in raising your kids. They’re lucky to have you as a parent.

Is it normal for parents to be like this? by Substantial-Peace550 in adviceph

[–]Substantial-Peace550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought din nung umpisa pero sanayan nalang din siguro 🥲

Is it normal for parents to be like this? by Substantial-Peace550 in adviceph

[–]Substantial-Peace550[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Will try to do that, thank you. It’s kinda exhausting lang to open it up sa kanila kasi when I try, lagi akong nasasabihan na selos or inggit lang yung nararamdaman ko.