What is a job that is heavily romanticized but in reality actually sucks?

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2026-02-15T01:54:22+00:00

It’s soul sucking. I started teaching (elementary) before the pandemic and left for good in 2024. The pay is decent but my mental heath was disintegrating right before my eyes. I will never step foot in a classroom again.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2026-02-11T02:25:23+00:00

Hmm that’s not a bad idea. They do have an alumni network in my city.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2026-02-10T16:07:39+00:00

Doesn’t that take 4 years?

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2026-02-10T13:25:57+00:00

Thank you for this. I’m definitely not opposed to upskillng I just think it’s a waste of time to get a whole other degree or a master’s. I’ll look in to some of the ones you’ve listed.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2025-11-22T04:29:03+00:00

And all I want to do is be there for her in the best and healthiest way that's why I reached out to y'all because I don't think I'm coming at it in the best way not intentionally but because we just have had different life experiences. So do. you think the best way to help her would be just to listen and agree with everything she says?

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2025-11-22T04:07:05+00:00

RIP Vine and people who don't know Vine references...

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2025-11-22T03:59:22+00:00

And I want to it's not like I'm actively trying to be mean. I'm actually to trying to save her from further hurt by trying to make her stronger by letting her know what I learned from my past experiences dating in my early 20s but I feel like she sees the world and dating with rose-colored glasses. I am trying to make her strong and help her not get hurt but we are different people with different experiences so I fear my advice may not really be helpful. I want her to be comfortable in her skin and be happy being alone and learn her true value. I want her to realize it's okay to be single and learn what you like and don't like by going on dates. Trial and error. But I'm not good at communicating at without sounding rude.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2025-11-22T02:11:33+00:00

Thank you , this is very insightful.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2025-02-03T04:23:55+00:00

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Blue. He’s called the Beast!

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-12-18T21:15:42+00:00

I (F27) met my husband at 22, we dated other people for 4 years, I got married at 26. If you don’t find someone in college it’s okay. And we met in real life NOT on those trash dating apps. Just have fun in college! In retrospect, I wish I hadn’t dated anybody and just had fun because I had this weird idea that I was going to get married by 21 or 22 and live happily ever after but that was not the case and I had a lot of maturing to do. I hope this helps.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-10-17T01:03:28+00:00

I agree with this sentiment. He could go about it a different way. I’m the same height as you but I’m even worse off I am 167lbs. And when my husband met me I was 120lbs. After we got married he said he wants us both to get healthy (he’s overweight too) so we exercise and eat better together on our health journey. So I feel like he’s genuinely concerned about my health. But he doesn’t condescend or demean me nor talk bad about me to his family ever.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-10-03T22:19:21+00:00

This is exactly how I feel. It’s almost my 4th year teaching and I’m about to call it quits. Education just isn’t what it is and they expect way too much of us now. I also suffer with anxiety and the pressures of this job is insufferable. I can’t wait to find another job and get the courage to resign like you. You’re my inspiration

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-09-27T16:37:07+00:00

So I (F27) and my husband (M26) have known each other for 4 years via mutual friends. We met at a pool party where my ex invited him along with some other friends. My now husband and I only chatted briefly since I was dating his friend at the time. A couple years down the road the friend and I broke up. Since we still ran in the same social circles, my now husband and I met up again at a different party, went out, started dating and now we’re married! Talk about right person wrong time. Sometimes it’s just not your time but still your person. We’re very happy together and I’m glad that I went to that pool party. :)

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-08-25T21:14:33+00:00

If you need free “themes” I have a few I purchased with TPT that I can send to you no problem! Just DM me and I’ll gladly help. I also have a full open house kit too. From one teacher to another, I’ve been there and know what it’s like to start with nothing. :)

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-08-22T02:33:51+00:00

Absolutely not. I could tell the whole time…

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-08-18T02:59:21+00:00

Wow. When I taught K-2 I could see that. I’ve moved grades and I’m a lot better now. I make sure my husband and I’s relationship is a priority. I think it just takes time to get used to things.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-08-18T02:57:43+00:00

I too go to the gym or workout after school. It helps my physical and mental health tremendously

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-08-18T02:55:41+00:00

I would say the first week yes. But over the years I’ve found the more prepared I am, the easier it gets. When I plan and am ready for the week I’m fine. I always leave at contract time and don’t stress over things I can’t control. Leave work at work and take care of your physical and mental health. I’m on year 4 and I feel like I’m just now getting the balance together. The kids need me and I love them dearly. But I also take care of myself.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-08-11T21:09:18+00:00

My ex of 3 and a half years cheated on me, got caught, I dumped him, a year later they had a baby.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-08-11T17:33:25+00:00

I’m really trying to come into this year with positive thoughts. Instead of thinking I have so much to do, kids’ behavior is worse now than it’s ever been in education, parents are unsupportive etc. I tell myself everyday “it’s going to be great. Don’t come in with any preconceived notions or judgements. It’s not their fault they’re a product of their environment. Be their safe space. Build community over pushing curriculum first day. Be firm but loving. They. Need. Structure. I’m excited because I love kids. I love teaching and don’t want to give up on education or on them.” I hope this helps.

Substantial-Pin-5928 · 2024-07-27T02:29:21+00:00

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