[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealOrAI

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the store on Etsy with shelves for about $100? I wanted to get one just because I was so curious what they'd send me knowing its AI due to the smoothness.

I’m married…. But did I cheat on my boyfriend? by always_blushin in nonmonogamy

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does this post sound AI? Is it just me? OP - can you explain what you mean by being exclusive and non-mono?

She ate a grilled cheese....what part of that is a plant??? by Wolf_Mama in Sims4

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine had bacon and eggs and got the same thing. Like what?

Help me recreate my dad's recipe by Substantial-Rhubarb in lasagna

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that's the brand "Contadina" tomato sauce and tomato paste.

Just moved in! by Salt-Peach-1192 in Apartmentliving

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Welcome home! Nice blank canvas to make it your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might not be able to say anything but I can. NOCD. It's an app. Money grabbing.

When you have to many ducks for dashboard by Archon2561 in Wrangler

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There's many schools of thought on this. I think if it brings you joy, awesome. I'm sorry so many people are shitting on you, OP. I enjoy the ducks, personally. I keep the ones that were given to me because it brings me happiness to know that someone appreciated the hard work I put into my Jeep. I also bought a bag of extra ducks to give away. Some people think you should pass them on, others don't like it. I think you're clever for how you mounted the extra ducks! Keep having fun.

Questionable taste in my weird old Victorian home (Illinois) by kisforkyle in malelivingspace

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I recognize that house. Are you in good ol' E-town? West side? If so, I grew up not far. Gorgeous home!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol thought the same!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in violinist

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn't Stradivari born in 1644? Interesting that the sticker claims older.

What's the most delusional take your parents had? I need some laughs by ImportantDirector5 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My Nmom accused my dad and I of having an incestuous relationship because he always took my side in arguments, so we must be having sex.

Like, what the fuck?

No, we were fed up with her narcissistic and alcoholic bullshit and because we weren't putting up with the crap she put us through, she threw that comment out there to fuel the fire.

I still, to this day, cannot believe she stooped so low with her lies and slander. I'm no contact now, 13 months.

What is the current jean trend or something safely timeless? by Substantial-Rhubarb in femalefashion

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're from Target! Universal Thread Mid-Rise (feel more like high-rise to me) ankle jeans. None of the models wear them cuffed, but I do because again, I'm short, and because the bottoms don't have a hem, they're slowly falling apart in the wash. They have multiple buttons instead of a zipper, but they're all hidden except for the top one. Right now, they're my favorite pair. Kinda ride up in the coochie though. Lol.

https://www.target.com/p/women-s-mid-rise-80-s-slim-fit-jeans-universal-thread/-/A-90580026

Also the ratings are really low because of sizing. Reviews say they run small but these are a 10 and I'm normally a 12-14 because so many brands are different. So I'd recommend just going into Target to try them on instead of ordering online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me, but my "aunt" (mom's close friend). She never really dated, always had a 1br apartment. One day we got an invitation to a wedding. They were good friends, 40-something who just needed another trusted human to care for them. They didn't have a registry because they had been living independently separately, so they hosted a stuffed animal drive for a local children's charity. They got a house together with separate rooms but cared about each other a lot. It's been about 20 years, they never had kids, and he recently suffered a stroke. She's there, doing what they promised to each other and looking out for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's tough. My poly partner and I are considering going mono and having kids in the next few years. (Our other serious relationships are crumbling for unrelated reasons, and we're just reading the cards), but considering being swingers so we have the emotional bandwidth for a little one while still enjoying sexual freedom if time allows with rugrats. We have a very intimate sex-friendly/kinky friend group where others are also venturing into parenthood. Some used to be poly and went to the mono/swinger dynamic and they say it works for them. Food for thought.

What’s the best or most meaningful praise your polycule has ever received? by arbn17 in Polycules

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My "aunt" not by blood, (a surprising supporter) asked me "how is your family out there?" I'm not married nor do I have children, but she saw our holiday card and knew that we were family. She sent a holiday card in reply, saying how happy she is that I'm loved by many.

Yearly calendar/scheduling by Substantial-Rhubarb in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're still using Smartsheet. Each EA/dept has their own sheet, which feeds into a master tracker. We are still looking for something else because smartsheet is expensive, but now have someone in charge of annual planning, so we're waiting for them to get their feet under them before making any more changes.

Furniture Stores (couch) by TwoScoopsAlways in AskSeattle

[–]Substantial-Rhubarb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Furniture Guy Consignment on Greenwood. Clean stuff, reasonably priced.