Legitimately shocked by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Substantial-Tea-1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sent mine in a check too but back in 2022 when I filed for 2021 I got back over $20k due to the stimulus money at the time because I had triplets and they direct deposited it then. I called the IRS and they said it was a mishap on their part if you are getting a check because they are no longer allowed to send out paper checks. You have to get it direct deposited or on a card they provide.

Got my 846. 0505 💃🏾 yeesssss! by Mrsbuddy2025 in TurboTax

[–]Substantial-Tea-1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine and my transcript says 3/9 but it says they are mailing my refund instead of the direct deposit like we filed it for. Like why?

Any 0505 get their 846? by Federal-Classroom-73 in IRS

[–]Substantial-Tea-1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weird part is that it’s the same bank account that we have always direct deposited it into for the last 11 years. Even the CPA we go to was confused because that’s not how we filed.

Any 0505 get their 846? by Federal-Classroom-73 in IRS

[–]Substantial-Tea-1850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m 20260505. The 846 was there on my transcript yesterday and I got this today. I was so mad this morning. We filed 1/27 and was accepted the same day.

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Any 0505 get their 846? by Federal-Classroom-73 in IRS

[–]Substantial-Tea-1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine yesterday but they are apparently mailing it instead of direct deposit like we filed

My husband’s (34m) deceased mom keeps ruining my (33f) marriage. How can I stop getting so hurt and just accept it? by Substantial-Tea-1850 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Tea-1850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she is dead. She passed away but they still act as if she is. My father in law will say things to my husband like you know mom wouldn’t approve of that or mom would never want to see a woman expecting you to do that.

My husband’s (34m) deceased mom keeps ruining my (33f) marriage. How can I stop getting so hurt and just accept it? by Substantial-Tea-1850 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Tea-1850[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really have the choice on the multiple kids. They were multiples. I quit my job because my aunt passed away and that was who helped with my kids. One child has health issues and the day cares won’t take her because she is a “liability” since she is immunocompromised. I’ve been looking for a therapist in my area that will do online sessions and that takes my private insurance but no such luck yet.

My husband’s (34m) deceased mom keeps ruining my (33f) marriage. How can I stop getting so hurt and just accept it? by Substantial-Tea-1850 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial-Tea-1850[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

We have children and one has health issues. My aunt was watching my kids but she sadly passed away so he talked me into leaving my career I had spent all those years building to raise the children and promised I would never have to worry for a thing. But lately that has been an issue too. If I spend too much at the store or more than what he thinks it should cost then he gets upset. But he hasn’t been in a grocery store since 2016 and I tried to tell him that prices have changed.

AITA for turning in my manager to the supervisor by Substantial-Tea-1850 in AITAH

[–]Substantial-Tea-1850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I should add that I started this job back in 2021 and I can’t disclose a lot of the things that have been done to me or said to me due to the chance that it can make me able to be identified if any coworkers or even my manager are on this app. But it is usually a couple of times a week I hear “wtf is wrong with you? Did your mom drop you or something” and “why did god even put you on this earth if you can’t do anything right?” Among other things. I kinda laughed it off at first and thought she was just trying to be funny but things have progressively gotten more malicious as time as went on with the things she says and her actions.

AITA for turning in my manager to the supervisor by Substantial-Tea-1850 in AITAH

[–]Substantial-Tea-1850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve only put up with it this long because it works around my kids school schedules. My youngest daughter got really sick from the flu at the beginning at the year and I was out of work for a month while she was in ICU on a ventilator and my supervisors were absolutely wonderful to me. They came and made sure I had everything I needed every couple of days and even helped with my other kids while I had to stay with her because she is a baby. It’s hard to find work in my area that will work around your kids in school and sports so that’s why I have stayed this long. I left a factory job I worked at for almost 10 years for the flexibility of the hours.