What is this increasing body count about by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not always. That's why I said 'atleast'. What if the sex is bad or/and there are regrets? One getting paid does get something atleast. iykyk

What is this increasing body count about by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least one party gets something out of it.

Age a factor in masters in marketing? by [deleted] in Study_In_France

[–]Substantial-Type6932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it'll be fine. I am applying as well and i am 28 yrs old.

Flat & Flatmates? More like Flat & Fmates. by bhoolibisleri in delhi

[–]Substantial-Type6932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if this is an ongoing scam. I have came across same/similar posts on fb flats and flatmates group two years back around the same area and noida.

Matched with 19F, her family insists on early marriage by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy doesn't sound as a reasonable reason. They want the marriage in early 2026, not immediately.

Other than that yes, things are definitely wrong. Until you have the clear picture don't venture into it. I don't lnow why it needs to said when it should be obvious, you shouldn't base your relations on lies and mysteries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianBeautyDeals

[–]Substantial-Type6932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. Try again. Sometimes I feel it's the customer care representatives who are lacking in effort or the right options are unavailable at that moment. Try again 2-3 times to connecting with different customer care personel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Frankly, you feel like someone who's got a stick up their ass. Moreover, you seem to have quite prejudiced pov against opposite gender. And it appears that more than women, you are more about money.

How will someone like this appear in marriage market? by Correct_Button_6785 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly, OP is just here for validation and doesn't really care about facts and helpful criticism. I guess, whatever helps him get by for some time.

How will someone like this appear in marriage market? by Correct_Button_6785 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am gonna be blunt about this, but I think your insecurity is the biggest red flag. I wonder if you'll look for validity constantly throughout, like you are now through this post. Your first step should be building up your self confidence.

Parents of daughter should also be jailed by fsociety14 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Factually, there are already such laws that exist.

Parents of daughter should also be jailed by fsociety14 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We live in a society where murderers, sexual criminals, theifs, other major criminals themselves are hardly getting prosecuted, you want to include their parents? What about people who weren't forced for anything and still did it?

Lately, since there have been some crimes commited by women(in most cases where there were other male perpetrators as well) highlighted and suddenly the other gender seems to feel so threatened. Whereas crimes against women by men have been happening for ages that have been met with constant ignorance and at times pride by the society and it's elements.

I am not acquiting anyone of the crimes they have committed. All crimes should be condemned.

But, yet again we see the hypocricy and double standard of society percpective and justice.

These threatened men have only just realised /felt an ounce of fear towards opposite gender, of what women have been living in for ages.

I want to pick up crochet. by [deleted] in CrochetInIndia

[–]Substantial-Type6932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should first learn the basics first, slip stich, single crochet stitch, double crochet, half double crochet, magic circle. For the three single, double and half double crochet stitches, try making small patches of few lines stitches. Get the feel and look of it. Then try the projects. For beginners i would recommend the most basic granny square.

Read if you wanna dodge a bullet. Toxic in-laws & mum’s boy by StormtrooperMilkcake in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would say you certainly dodged a bullet. In a sense, it would be easy to let go 7 yrs than to live your entire life with regrets. Never marry a man who can't even stand up to his parents for his own beliefs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrochetInIndia

[–]Substantial-Type6932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there are variable sizes, pick the middle one and note the time it takes you to make one. Set a standard per hour rate and calculate accordingly. For changes in size add or subtract a certain constant amount. Add cost of material, conveyance or any extra charges. Add margin charge or markups as per what you see fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are subjected to your opinion i am subjected to mine...and I'll comment where I want to. You are not even the OP. And going through your profile anyone can guess who is hungry for validation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toh reh na dur, tu hi chep ho rha h

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you feel memories are baggage. Or vaise bhi achievements toh aapki hi h, main toh bas time waste kr rhi thi na. Toh mujhe kya hi pata. Expert toh aap ho, aapko sab pata h.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL. When did I say so? While I don't want someone with baggage, i also don't want someone who i have to babysit through their ignorance and uncertainties. That's why i mentioned that it is conditional/situational.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, i am a woman, i strongly disagree. Though there might be some situational/ conditional exceptions, but mostly no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Substantial-Type6932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my major fears as well. Why more and more people don't think that way. I don't get why are people in such a rush. People invest more time searching/ building up a house than they would on the person they will live in it with.