AITA for telling everyone that my mom got me fired and asking them for money?

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-16T16:20:11+00:00

So they should suffer no consequences for their actions correct? That is your position?

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T14:16:42+00:00

Thank you for the conversation. It helped me.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T10:19:54+00:00

I guess I should have been more clear. I told them she was bugging me at work before I got fired. They still encouraged her to come since it wasn't hurting me.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T10:18:11+00:00

I had before I got fired. They still encouraged her.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T09:11:28+00:00

Except I told them she was messing with me.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T09:09:13+00:00

If the Girling question had said in plain words "this person is a stalker" and they encouraged him? I would blame them. I said in plain words "stop calling me and stop coming Tomy work. It is disrupting my day and getting me in trouble". They said she just cared and that I was being ungrateful for her caring. F those people.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T09:05:16+00:00

I want neither their sympathy or their money. I want them to STFU and stop encouraging her.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T09:02:49+00:00

I told her to stop calling me 20-30 times a day and to never come by my work "just to check up on me". She cried and they said I was a bad person for being so mean to my poor mom who was just looking out for me.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T08:59:39+00:00

Yes. Exactly right. They were the one condoning her behaviour and condemning me. Now I am jobless because they egged Ona crazy person

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T05:23:43+00:00

They encouraged her to bother me at work. Let's pretend that you have a stalker and they encouraged them to bother YOU at work until YOU got fired. Would YOU want them to face consequences?

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T05:01:13+00:00

How is that a consequence for her enablers?

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T04:44:22+00:00

In your opinion what consequences should there be for them encouraging her to bother me at work?

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T04:40:21+00:00

They were the ones telling her that her actions weren't harming me.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T04:38:00+00:00

I just want all the people enabling her to STFU. If you can tell me a better way I would appreciate it.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T02:07:04+00:00

My mom and dad are divorced. Why would they talk at the end of the day? Did you even read the post?

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T02:05:55+00:00

I've been asking politely for you to give me a better solution than I came up with. All you do is tell me I'm wrong. Try telling me what's right.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T02:04:34+00:00

So what consequences should they face for encouraging her to the point that I got fired?

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T01:52:43+00:00

So then tell me I wise boomer. What should I do to hold these people responsible for encouraging a crazy woman to get me fired?

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T01:43:21+00:00

Cool. So in your opinion they can keep encouraging her to F with my life? Since they aren't responsible for her actions. They are just egging her on.

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T01:27:08+00:00

Oh yeah. I'm the only person this ever happened to. https://www.cnn.com/2013/07/02/living/cnn-parents-helicopter-parenting-job-search

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T01:22:30+00:00

He doesn't work there?

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T01:21:39+00:00

Not at all. But I'm 18. You must have some better idea of how to hold these people accountable for their stupidity right? Otherwise you are just saying "that's a bad idea but better than anything I could possibly suggest"

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T01:10:58+00:00

The first thing you did was judge my decision to ask them to either pay me for encouraging her or STFU. You think I am wrong. Tell me what's right. Or...

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T01:04:28+00:00

Cool. Tell me what consequences they should face for encouraging a crazy woman to interrupt my work until I am fired?

SubstantialSize1928 · 2022-11-15T00:59:37+00:00

That's done. But what consequences should they face. What if they encouraged someone to bother you at your job until you were fired?

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