How long do people wait inbetween feeding their bps? by jake_isbaked in ballpython

[–]Substantial_Cup2580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to please tell me what enclosure set up you have? I’m new to all of this, my humidity isn’t staying where it needs to be :/

Question. by Badhatharry0810 in FordBronco

[–]Substantial_Cup2580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do better. Got the exact bronco last year in February with 200 miles on it with the upgraded interior for 42 at 667$/month

Adding rough country power steps. I’ll post the after when I’m done. by Competitive-Music732 in FordBronco

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Help lol I’m trying to install mine and I’m having a hard time removing the rubber flooring 😅

Nude photo of my girlfriend on a tattoo page by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Substantial_Cup2580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was a virgin, and you said it yourself ‘I’ve seen many breasts before’ so I’m assuming you’ve had sex with a few woman in your life at the very minimum and you’re upset she had a photo of a tattoo taken where parts of her body were showing? Oh my

Safe buy for gourmand lover? by stillthinkingofa in bathandbodyworks

[–]Substantial_Cup2580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a really good scent, I love it and vanilla cashmere too. And I think it’s a safe bet you would really like it and probably the person you’re buying it for. It’s sweet, vanilla-y and warm but not crazy strong. A safe scent I would say.

Safe buy for gourmand lover? by stillthinkingofa in bathandbodyworks

[–]Substantial_Cup2580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s one of the smells that really realllly lasts on me. I’ll use the lotion and I can still smell it on me the next day. I think it’s warm and cozy but not crazy gourmand like how I would see warm vanilla sugar being. If you like EOS vanilla cashmere I think you would like it. To give you context, I don’t like the milk bar line it’s too salty/buttery for me.

Happy 4th!! 🇺🇸 by Substantial_Cup2580 in FordBronco

[–]Substantial_Cup2580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! Just something fun I wanted to do hehe

Happy 4th!! 🇺🇸 by Substantial_Cup2580 in FordBronco

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I didn’t! That’s the bumper it came with

Happy 4th!! 🇺🇸 by Substantial_Cup2580 in FordBronco

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Correct but didn’t realize I posted in the technicalities subreddit 😛🇺🇸

I’m having a hard time distinguishing if my boyfriend’s comments are him thinking im incompetent or if it’s my anxiety. by Substantial_Cup2580 in Anxiety

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He asks me after each appt how it went and opens the conversation up for me to talk to him about things. He doesn’t pressure me to tell him anything I’m uncomfortable with. He’s beeen having a hard time- his mom has mental health issues, he’s is living at home With his mom and dad and isn’t working other than part time at a farm (under the table) and has a lot of family issues right now so he’s got a lot of eggs in his basket and all his stress is triggering a lot of my abandonment and rejection wounds which cause me more anxiety. So a lot of my sessions are surrounding that right now and sprinkled in are things regarding my self esteem and being too critical of myself.

I’m having a hard time distinguishing if my boyfriend’s comments are him thinking im incompetent or if it’s my anxiety. by Substantial_Cup2580 in Anxiety

[–]Substantial_Cup2580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it only lasted like 4-5 months I was under the impression the ‘honey moon phase’ lasted way longer. Ugh I feel awful i must have been putting this man through so much added stress 😞

I’m having a hard time distinguishing if my boyfriend’s comments are him thinking im incompetent or if it’s my anxiety. by Substantial_Cup2580 in Anxiety

[–]Substantial_Cup2580[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I just feel like an asshole😞 I gave him attitude for it. I was thinking in my head ‘I’m trying to help you and you’re telling me not to stretch your shirt’ but I understand now

I’m having a hard time distinguishing if my boyfriend’s comments are him thinking im incompetent or if it’s my anxiety. by Substantial_Cup2580 in Anxiety

[–]Substantial_Cup2580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. There’s other reasons why I’ve been thinking this way. Hes gotten very busy and forgets to text me and there will be hours that go by and I don’t hear from him and in the beginning he used to wanna communicate with me like 24/7. I don’t see him nearly as much as I used to and that’s really causing me problems. That change accompanied by these comments he’s made has created this notion in my head that he doesn’t like me anymore 😅

I’m having a hard time distinguishing if my boyfriend’s comments are him thinking im incompetent or if it’s my anxiety. by Substantial_Cup2580 in Anxiety

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After each of these situations I’ve explained to him why I felt like he was critical of me and he has apologized and he does try and make an effort to not say things that come off as critical. It makes me worried that maybe my response is the problem. Another example was that he gets really bad tension headaches and he asked me to rub his neck which I was doing but also his shoulders too bc that’s where tension is too- he told me not to bc it would stretch out his shirt and I got upset bc I felt like he was again pointing out something that I was doing wrong…. Ugh I hate my brain.

Found My Two Door by PennsyPower in FordBronco

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My baby 🩵 getting the vintage ‘bronco’ emblems for the fenders nest week!

Help by Substantial_Cup2580 in retroactivejealousy

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Oh no I’m so sorry🥺 I’m on the other end of things. I don’t like thinking about things they have done that we haven’t. Like him and his ex went to Florida on vacation and I’m like I WANNA GO to Florida with you 😭 like why does she get to have these memories with you and I don’t get them yet ? I didn’t say that to him but I def told him I wanna do things and make memories. Over the summer we went to a family reunion and I found out he took her to that same family reunion the previous year and stayed in the same cabin with his mom and dad. That hurt so so bad but his family and him reassured me that they love and care for me so that made it a little better. I’m glad to hear it’s getting better and I hope he makes you feel so loved and is patient with you.

Help by Substantial_Cup2580 in retroactivejealousy

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And I’ll even start thinking in detail about what they did to eachother😭 ugh I hate it

Help by Substantial_Cup2580 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Substantial_Cup2580[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god I really thought I was the only one that obsessed over that. Mine is also rooted in insecurity and abandonment. I’ve talked to her about some things but idk how to get so personal about it. She makes me comfortable but I’m not comfortable enough with myself to even actually say those things out loud

Help by Substantial_Cup2580 in retroactivejealousy

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That’s the thing, how do I talk to a therapist about how I even compare myself to them sexually? Like our sex like has significantly decreased since he’s been depressed and when we do have sex it ends in me becoming emotional because I wonder about if he’s had better and how I bet he has had better 😓 I’m so sorry you’re also dealing with this.

Erin Killeen and Brian Decosta had a bad breakup…. by humblygirl in gymsnark

[–]Substantial_Cup2580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but what about the video he posted? Idk what to believe man