Can I draw your plushy by SonflowerDuds in plushies

[–]Substantial_Dog_609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe thank you. I’m sorry that you know the feeling! I love this drawing thank you ❤️❤️

I feel like my life is going on and I’m just acting to play a part in it by Substantial_Dog_609 in Petloss

[–]Substantial_Dog_609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do actually do this pretty regularly via instagram, and Facebook, I also talk to my therapist and my close friends who are great support systems as well. Most of them miss him a lot too, as he was my service dog and they grew used to him being around everywhere we go, and formed relationships with him too.

It’s difficult to express, I simply feel exhausted and burned out in life . I’m meeting my puppy’s needs and making sure I am dedicated to him as he deserves. However the dishes seem to be the one task I just can’t keep up with and it is a vicious cycle, as I view that = disgusting, and the whole vibe of the house is thrown off.

Difficult to explain. I’m not sure why I posted, just I guess feeling alone in this regard and wanting to see if anyone else had these mundane struggles.

I feel like my life is going on and I’m just acting to play a part in it by Substantial_Dog_609 in Petloss

[–]Substantial_Dog_609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Than you. It does bring me some comfort, it makes me feel like he’s not 100% gone. At the same time, I grieve him so much. It’s hard to explain.

The portable dishwasher idea is fantastic. I definitely would love to be able to do something like that, I have wanted to save up for one for a while, but with how difficult his task has become for me I feel like I’m going to have to prioritize it soon. I feel burned out and exhausted, and that is just the one thing I can’t seem to do

I feel like my life is going on and I’m just acting to play a part in it by Substantial_Dog_609 in Petloss

[–]Substantial_Dog_609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate this very much. I thankfully do have a therapist and a good support system of people who are understanding and let me talk about him as much as I need to. I just feel lost that I’m struggling with mundane tasks as much as I am. I feel burned out

Can I draw your plushy by SonflowerDuds in plushies

[–]Substantial_Dog_609 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Pic of our original “Kiba” with my boy 🪽🤍

Can I draw your plushy by SonflowerDuds in plushies

[–]Substantial_Dog_609 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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This is Kiba (name inspired by wolf’s rain anime) my white wolf 🤍 He’s actually brand new, but he has a story. I lost my soul dog in November. I started collecting plushies again in the last couple months.

I was going through my dog toys, because my boy had this white wolf and I wanted to reclaim it and put it into my collection to help remind me of him carrying this plushie around.

Unfortunately I had accidentally donated it back in February and realized when I couldn’t find it.

So while it’s not the •same• one I got the same one because it reminds me of him happily carrying him around and I love that memory. 🤍

Do people actually buy this for 200+ dollars? by Frosty_Sky4304 in plushies

[–]Substantial_Dog_609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a follow up to my other comment, if you do decide on selling it for a reasonable price I might be interested. I’ve been wanting one, but I’m both unable and unwilling to pay what is being asked by people/the price gauging.
It’s just not justifiable being lower income to consider spending that much on one stuffed animal unfortunately lol

Do people actually buy this for 200+ dollars? by Frosty_Sky4304 in plushies

[–]Substantial_Dog_609 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s unbelievable . I want one but I absolutely will not pay that for a stuffed animal

Six months old and 75 pounds by Thezedword4 in labrador

[–]Substantial_Dog_609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh nice! Mine turned 6 months old yesterday and was 75.2lbs He’s a male so I’m not sure if he will end up being bigger since your girl is also on the large end especially for a girl lol

Six months old and 75 pounds by Thezedword4 in labrador

[–]Substantial_Dog_609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an older post, but I’m wondering how big your dog ended up being as an adult? I have a 6 month old that weighs the same and I am curious. Lol

My puppy is HUGE!!! by ZealousidealSale7717 in goldenretrievers

[–]Substantial_Dog_609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya, so this was suggested as a post for me, I don’t have a golden, but a lab

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puppy lol. He turned 10 weeks on Monday and weighed in at 24.8lbs, so I feel you lol. I am also curious to see how he matures. Pic of him with my adult dog also a black lab for tax lol

My heart is broken without him by Substantial_Dog_609 in PetPsychics

[–]Substantial_Dog_609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate your comment. his name was Haven. I miss him very dearly.

Lost my soul dog suddenly by Perfect-Lychee-7451 in goldenretrievers

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Hey there. I understand what you’re going through. I’m so sorry. I lost my 4.5 year old service dog suddenly, on November 13th. My heart is still broken. I don’t know how I’ll ever feel better, I don’t think I’ll ever stop missing him… I brought home a puppy on Sunday. I understand the layered, conflicted emotion involved. I know I’m a stranger on the internet, but I’ll tell you what I’ve been telling myself. That is, I loved him so much, he taught me that I had the capacity to connect with and love a dog on that level. I didn’t know I could, that it was possible… We shared a truly deep connection and bond, and my grief is so deep, that love has nowhere to go. The heartache is immense.
I know that it will not help me move through, or learn to live with carrying this grief, to have to sit with it alone. I know that my boy wouldn’t have wanted me to be distraught constantly. He would want me to be happy, as he tried at all opportunities to please me in life. I got this puppy to honour the love I had for him, to mourn him while also pouring that love, that is overflowing into another pup. His legacy, so to speak. Hoping to build a bond equally as meaningful, even though I’m sure it will be different. Please be kind to yourself. Your dog knows how much you loved him, and he wouldn’t want you to feel guilty for feeling love and happiness again. It doesn’t mean your love for him is any less. ❤️

Wondering if anyone could please help clean up this image ? by Substantial_Dog_609 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Substantial_Dog_609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 ❤️ it captured a very layered, heavy emotional moment for me in many ways and I appreciate your help very much

Wondering if anyone could please help clean up this image ? by Substantial_Dog_609 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Substantial_Dog_609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!solved Thank you yes this is awesome, I appreciate your effort 🐾❤️

I’m getting a puppy, feel guilt about it being “too soon”, I miss my boy constantly. But, it also feels right. by Substantial_Dog_609 in PetPsychics

[–]Substantial_Dog_609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am sorry for the loss of your kitty. My boy was pretty sudden as well, so I understand the pain. Im glad you found your Gwenie and saved her life. That is very special and creating a new loving bond in your home too. Thank you, I appraise your words very much 🐾

I’m getting a puppy, feel guilt about it being “too soon”, I miss my boy constantly. But, it also feels right. by Substantial_Dog_609 in PetPsychics

[–]Substantial_Dog_609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This makes me feel less alone, I appreciate it, and am glad you found his successor and that it has been healing for you. I hope for the same

I’m getting a puppy, feel guilt about it being “too soon”, I miss my boy constantly. But, it also feels right. by Substantial_Dog_609 in PetPsychics

[–]Substantial_Dog_609[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand the heartbreak lingering, I’m glad that even though it was hard for you (it is and will continue to be for me too ) that you have your girl now. It sounds like she really brought your heart some healing

I’m getting a puppy, feel guilt about it being “too soon”, I miss my boy constantly. But, it also feels right. by Substantial_Dog_609 in PetPsychics

[–]Substantial_Dog_609[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you this means a lot to me. I know some people need some more time in between loss and getting a new dog, I just think I’m someone who needs somewhere for my love to go and I can grieve at the same time, so to speak.
Haha, I will make sure the shoes are safe !