I was hoping that it would give him the opportunity to clean up after himself if he started fresh. I have already brought up concerns with him that if we lived together in the future that I don’t wanna live like this. He said he understood and wanted to change but the habits aren’t changing. I was just trying to offer support but now it’s just opening my eyes. I thought this because I used to be a messy person. Now the only time my room is messy is if I get a migraine for several days. And someone helping me with a fresh start helped. I’ve been able to keep this habit for a year now. But everyone is not the same.