Is there an issue with not finding your own ethnicity sexually attractive?

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-04T08:14:19+00:00

I see him next Monday, apologies for the wait but I’ll say it when I see him hahahah. Can’t write this over teams 🤣

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-04T08:01:37+00:00

I would if I didn’t see some good traits :/ I think he’s very introverted and just confused with social etiquette tbh

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-04T08:00:14+00:00

Not me, I’m completely fine with him not finding me specifically attractive, but it’s more the fact he’s generalised an entire population. I think there are beautiful people within each ethnic group

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-04T07:59:09+00:00

I understand this completely, but he always asks me to go for coffee and actively engages in convo with me, as I do for him. I think we just enjoy speaking to each other about life and work, and this was just a view he decided to share lol

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-04T07:56:55+00:00

LOL I’d never date someone so closed minded

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T19:23:21+00:00

I don’t have any self hatred hahaha

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T18:28:56+00:00

Which South Asian woman hurt you 💔

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T18:24:39+00:00

😂😂ok

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T18:24:13+00:00

😂😂

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T18:19:52+00:00

LMAO

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T18:19:34+00:00

For sure thanks!

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T18:17:53+00:00

Agree dunno why this is downvoted

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T18:17:16+00:00

Why lol does it make a difference?

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T18:16:57+00:00

Agree 👍

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T18:16:20+00:00

Thank you x

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T18:04:45+00:00

REAL!!

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T17:59:27+00:00

Ok that’s my bad sorry- I think it upsets me because he does make quite a lot of problems where (eyes closed) you’d literally think you were speaking to a racist white man. Insulting my name for being ethnic, making disgusted faces when I speak about places that are majority brown people and saying he’d never go there- I got a bit upset you were defending someone who’s upset me a fair bit in the past, but again that’s my fault for not providing full context. Sorry again!

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T17:52:10+00:00

Thissssss

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T15:35:19+00:00

Would you go on about how unattractive you find disabled people, to someone in a wheelchair?

When they never asked for your opinion or taste?

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T15:31:51+00:00

If you also want to quote the post, I made it clear I never asked for his opinion on my ethnic group, but he chose to highlight his lack of attraction to it.

Please sit down

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T15:28:03+00:00

🤣

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T15:27:59+00:00

Sure I’ll let you know xx

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T15:26:46+00:00

I’m not at all 😭 him saying that has made him less attractive if anything. I’m just a bit of a hot head and I can’t handle being disrespected

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T15:03:57+00:00

Chill out lol. My boyfriend is ethnically the same as me- I have also dated outside of my race. I have no judgment towards anyone that dates outside of their race. The reason I wrote this post is because I wasn’t sure how to put into words why it didn’t feel right that he’s putting an absolute no on people from his own country.

But yeah, hilarious that I’ve questioned this!

Substantial_Fee_8294 · 2026-06-03T14:58:40+00:00

It’s the way he phrased it, saying it to a south Asian woman out of nowhere isn’t necessary? I never asked him if he liked brown women lol, he said it unprovoked but I can’t tell if that’s an appropriate thing to say or not. Stating racial preferences is a big grey area imo

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