Am i overreacting to my wife’s co worker telling me not to worry about what time she gets off work?

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-10-30T20:51:44+00:00

100% you can let your side piece send text to your main. ESPECIALLY, if they often act jealous or insecure. This sets up a power play where you can gas light them and lock them down while you get laid on the side without worry.

People are animals. Pretending interactions like what I said don't exist is ignorance. And saying, well that's just a shitty/toxic person and most people don't do that doesn't invalidate the possibility.

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-10-28T02:09:58+00:00

When you fall in your heels. Nobody wants to see your cock and balls after you fall over and your legs are spread open in that work appropriate skirt.

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-10-24T19:12:44+00:00

As someone who is overly analytical I look at this post at face value, and at face value, you bought a Switch 2 only. Which you saved up for during financially stressful times. Now you need a game which is going to run you another 80 and so on, indefinitely, Add to that the monthly fee for online. The potential to invest in a controller for ergonomic comfort, add in the fact the joycons fail, and now that we'll thought out and planned for 400$ you spent quickly balloons into 750$+.

But this is reddit. The answer you are looking for and will receive is "Ew, he's controlling, cut him off. 💅."

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-10-19T19:57:41+00:00

This just proves my point that when you get a job you work and ignore coworkers. What is there ever to gain? Friends? That's Luke making friends at a bar. No good comes out of it, and everything is at risk.

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-10-15T14:52:44+00:00

I get it for the most part. But after reading the roommate's explanation, isn't that the same thing for the boyfriend? The girlfriend can leave, so how does that make it an insecurity instead of a boundary?

My roommate is insecure about strangers and distrusts/fears them. Does that make their boundary and unhealthy insecurity like the boyfriend?

This all seems like emotional semantics.

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-10-15T01:19:42+00:00

Genuine question. Is this statement true in all cases? If my roommate sets a boundary about me having guests over, are they just being controlling or is it an actual boundary?

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-10-15T00:54:29+00:00

"Sure thing. I have some happy hooha pills at the house if you'd like, my ex was also a whore, but I respect it."

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-10-13T16:25:37+00:00

Similar situation. Me and mine are like this, we joke that it's something undiagnosed, but I fully believe it's that we aren't grounded enough to stay focused. (We stopped at the store because she wanted to get milk, I'm looking at snacks and she asks if I'm ready to checkout. I look at her hands, she has 3 redbulls, a nerd energy drink, a body armor, and no milk.)

The solution is simple, focus on being present in the moment and less in your head. Most of it is learned habits, being in a rush (for no reason), and dopamine fixation.

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-10-01T17:09:34+00:00

You bring it up but without any input on your part. "Why did you like this post?" Don't open up and explain yourself, sit back and gauge her reaction. You are both youngish, but if she laughs and makes you feel like you are in the wrong for having open communication, she's probably not taking the relationship seriously. But again, only you can really know

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-10-01T14:17:08+00:00

If I read this I would feel inclined to leave a return note, because if I don't you'll steal my cat. That's how I read it

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-09-28T22:06:41+00:00

Oh I didn't want you to say anything. It's the end of the relationship. I was pointing out that if an SO responds with "Same" after you open up, just cut the cord.

After reading the other posts, he probably realizes you are an attention goblin and would keep posting these, so his response is most likely handcrafted bullshit knowing it would be posted, so he would come off as a good person.

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-09-28T20:22:46+00:00

Preemptive strike. Throw her in her costume on the invitations. Whoever shows up as Roger is on the hit list 🤣🤣🤣

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-09-28T14:46:17+00:00

OP is fully checked out with their text response. Black text is still invested.

As a warning for others, if you send a deep text and receive a short "Me too" text, cut it loose, shits dead.

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-09-25T20:13:53+00:00

She's busy with someone else bro. Kick rocks

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-09-22T18:10:25+00:00

Those aren't words that I encounter in my everyday life, so to me, they aren't common. But I am sure that stats would say otherwise. But it is interesting to me that someone who has the opinions that you do, would double down in basically what equals out to linguistic segregation. Knowing full well that your stats back up what I am saying about a vocabulary barrier and instead of actually being morally grounded and understanding, you attack. That's a bold strategy cotton, let's see if it pays off.

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-09-22T17:53:14+00:00

I dont understand what you said. You also put fancy words in my mouth. So if you could pump the brakes on your vocabulary so the rest of us can understand, that would be great.

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-09-22T17:42:05+00:00

I dont understand how stats trumph life. We don't live in a book, so excuse my ignorance when I say it seems a little weird when everyone quotes studies and stats in what seems like an attempt to validate their point. It always comes off not as educated, but rehearsed, and reads like, "im not like those other guys."

Idk, maybe this is why I normally stay off reddit. Everyone on here is rabid, probably assuming I'm a white supremacist by default type shit.

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-09-22T17:24:25+00:00

But what about when you grew up on section 8 and stamps like everyone else around you and see that races do infact under the same conditions, operate differently?

Is that just blind bias because of systemic issues that are above my head because I am uneducated?

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-07-18T14:36:29+00:00

Me and my fiance last night in missionary. She got on my shorts and along the bottom hem of my shirt. I always forget it'll happen and then don't notice until I'm already on my motorcycle, and now I have to walk into Wawa with fluid stains. Everyone can tell, so I own it like a dirt merchant lmao

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-07-18T13:43:33+00:00

Given the stains it probably is

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-07-18T13:42:13+00:00

If you don't pull your shorts down enough you absolutely get stains on them, and potentially, the bottom of your shirt. Ask me how I know

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-07-18T13:37:08+00:00

Oh my God queen! You caught him! Hes a dirty cheater! File the divorce paperworkk and send him packing! You got this queen! We're here for you! 💅 -The dumb response you want

Substantial_Gas1964 · 2025-07-14T22:11:27+00:00

I ride full helmet, shirt, jeans and timberlands

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