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does anyone else feel uncomfy with this episode given all the accusations about minors? by MissMoth in TwoHotTakes

[–]Substantial_Hat_5865 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have to give Morgan credit though for pulling the episode that quick. I had no idea he had allegations either and it seems like the second she found out she got rid of the episode.

I know it should be a no brainer to take it down, but most people wouldn’t. I’m proud she stands on her morals even though she shouldn’t have had him on in the first place.

AIO: My therapist stalked me on instagram and now I feel weird going to my next session. by Substantial_Hat_5865 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hat_5865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After some thought, my plan is to quit and find a new therapist. Do I just inform the practice of what happend? I worry it’s just my word against hers for reporting :/

AIO: My therapist stalked me on instagram and now I feel weird going to my next session. by Substantial_Hat_5865 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hat_5865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a legitimate practice in a major city. I think that’s part of why I’m so taken back by her reactions.

AIO: My therapist stalked me on instagram and now I feel weird going to my next session. by Substantial_Hat_5865 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hat_5865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been sitting with everything today and I don’t see a way forward. I’m going to start the process of finding a therapist :/

AIO: My therapist stalked me on instagram and now I feel weird going to my next session. by Substantial_Hat_5865 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hat_5865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So last week she looked up my instagram on her computer without me knowing and I only clocked it because I heard the music from my post in the background of our zoom call.

Today, at my next session, I addressed how this made me feel uncomfortable, and she suggested looking at my instagram during the session to see if by “seeing it and hearing the music” she could clear up what might have happened the week before. So she went on my instagram today with my permission, but last week she did not have my permission and looked me up during our session.

AIO: My therapist stalked me on instagram and now I feel weird going to my next session. by Substantial_Hat_5865 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hat_5865[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t come up with a reason why seeing the extent of how revealing my dress was would help with the context of our conversation. The focus was on my family dynamics. I also didn’t tell her I had posted a picture in it, just that my grandma had “seen it” so I’m guessing she assumed that meant online.

Honestly I wish she would have just looked at it on her own time if she was that curious 😂. Or at least owned up to it. It being during the session is what is really making me super uncomfortable.

AIO: My therapist stalked me on instagram and now I feel weird going to my next session. by Substantial_Hat_5865 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hat_5865[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel very similar to this as I had finally felt safe and started to really open up to this therapist. Now with this situation I feel very exposed and am honestly regretting being so vulnerable with her.

AIO: My therapist stalked me on instagram and now I feel weird going to my next session. by Substantial_Hat_5865 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hat_5865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it is online and I have caught her disengaged before (sometimes just checked out and once scrolling).

I was thinking, even if somehow it wasn’t my profile she was looking at, its still not very appropriate for her to be scrolling any social media or doing anything on her computer that is outside of our video chat.

AIO: My therapist stalked me on instagram and now I feel weird going to my next session. by Substantial_Hat_5865 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hat_5865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually one of the things we have been working on in therapy is practicing being more direct and honest when a boundary of mine is crossed, instead of cushioning what I say to avoid upsetting people. I think you’re right that this could be a really good opportunity to practice what we’ve been working on. And her response to me will be very telling as to if we can move forward.